I can't work this out. I've got seduction to where I want it and can attract women with ease. I am confident, have great social skills and have so much going for me in general. I've had girlfriends who I've not felt anything for, and they're practically worshipping me.
BUT my problem is that as soon as I develop feelings for a woman, I get LJBF'd!
The weird thing is I'm not aware of my behaviour changing and just continue as we were before I developed feelings so I just can't put my finger on it. Surely they must pick up on something (an unspoken vibe of desperation maybe).
I know many women would jump at the chance to sleep with me, but maybe the idea of a relationship with me is just offputting.
I know if I contain my feelings my relationships will succeed, but what's the point in a relationship then?
If anyone can shine some light on this I'd appreciate it.
Edit: Actually women do become very emotionally attached, even infatuated with me sometimes, so it's not just physical. But even so, I return their feelings and I lose their interest. Doesn't matter how old, what class, race, how we met etc, it's an ongoing trend.
BUT my problem is that as soon as I develop feelings for a woman, I get LJBF'd!
The weird thing is I'm not aware of my behaviour changing and just continue as we were before I developed feelings so I just can't put my finger on it. Surely they must pick up on something (an unspoken vibe of desperation maybe).
I know many women would jump at the chance to sleep with me, but maybe the idea of a relationship with me is just offputting.
I know if I contain my feelings my relationships will succeed, but what's the point in a relationship then?
If anyone can shine some light on this I'd appreciate it.
Edit: Actually women do become very emotionally attached, even infatuated with me sometimes, so it's not just physical. But even so, I return their feelings and I lose their interest. Doesn't matter how old, what class, race, how we met etc, it's an ongoing trend.