i start high school tommorow
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high school was the best learning experience of my life...youll enjoy it alot more if youre open to things. go in there with confidence and just enjoy things one day at a time. also, do ur homework and study. youll be glad when u get accepted into the college u wanted 4 years later
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
be loud and ask questions in class.
participating will get people talking to you and it'll get you noticed.
the real key is to talk and have fun with talking, make friends with your classmates and teacher, and just have a fun time.. you're stuck there so you may as well make it more interesting for you and everybody else.
you don't really approach girls in class, where you spend most of your day, so just show off your personality and show them that you're outgoing, and you'll make friends... it's really not that hard because alot of other people are probably trying to meet new ppl, just like you are.
participating will get people talking to you and it'll get you noticed.
the real key is to talk and have fun with talking, make friends with your classmates and teacher, and just have a fun time.. you're stuck there so you may as well make it more interesting for you and everybody else.
you don't really approach girls in class, where you spend most of your day, so just show off your personality and show them that you're outgoing, and you'll make friends... it's really not that hard because alot of other people are probably trying to meet new ppl, just like you are.
I went straight into HS acting all confident, ****y and stuff. I thought I was so popular, met everyone. After about a month, unless you play on the football team, you'll never reach their status. Honestly, I know it's cliche and your mom and dad tell you this all the time, but don't give a crap what people think. You hang out with who you hang out with because you have fun when you're with them. If you cared what people think, you'd have to hate everyone. Rumors go around like crazy. I found out today I'm a closet homo. Don't ask me why.
First day, deep voice. Walk slowly. Every other freshman will be walking fast. Walk slowly gaze around. Deep voice. Walk into class right at the bell. Smile or look serious, but don't be a nervous *****. Look confident but friendly. Sit next to the hot girls and ask their names. As long as you look like a normal person, they won't have a ***** shield because they don't know you. You probably won't talk to them after about a month when they realize you're lower than them, but have fun while it lasts. Or maybe they become part of your social proof. Everything is new! Create a new you. I'm a Senior now. I started reading this site when I was a Freshman. I think before I actually went into High School. I have tons of acquitances now (probably 100 out of the 300 students in my grade), but only about 5-10 people I hang out with on the weekend regularly. At first I was completely pissed. I thought damn, I was confident where are all my friends. Realize that most people are losers that don't want to hang out on the weekend. Those that do want to hang out are doing drugs. Besides that, it's all about you man. You can live off cheap moments of fame that don't feel good, or you can kick with the 5 average joes that make you look forward to school every day.
As for girlfriends, I can't help you. I've only had one, and she was handed to me. I'm sure this **** works, but you just got to keep working at it. Don't worry too much, because most guys are going to be virgins like I am still. Like 85% of the guys in my grade are probably virgins, while 60% of the girls in my grade are as well. Live it up. Freshman and Senior year are the easiest. Don't let your grades slip freshman year, it's the easiest way to boast your GPA.
First day, deep voice. Walk slowly. Every other freshman will be walking fast. Walk slowly gaze around. Deep voice. Walk into class right at the bell. Smile or look serious, but don't be a nervous *****. Look confident but friendly. Sit next to the hot girls and ask their names. As long as you look like a normal person, they won't have a ***** shield because they don't know you. You probably won't talk to them after about a month when they realize you're lower than them, but have fun while it lasts. Or maybe they become part of your social proof. Everything is new! Create a new you. I'm a Senior now. I started reading this site when I was a Freshman. I think before I actually went into High School. I have tons of acquitances now (probably 100 out of the 300 students in my grade), but only about 5-10 people I hang out with on the weekend regularly. At first I was completely pissed. I thought damn, I was confident where are all my friends. Realize that most people are losers that don't want to hang out on the weekend. Those that do want to hang out are doing drugs. Besides that, it's all about you man. You can live off cheap moments of fame that don't feel good, or you can kick with the 5 average joes that make you look forward to school every day.
As for girlfriends, I can't help you. I've only had one, and she was handed to me. I'm sure this **** works, but you just got to keep working at it. Don't worry too much, because most guys are going to be virgins like I am still. Like 85% of the guys in my grade are probably virgins, while 60% of the girls in my grade are as well. Live it up. Freshman and Senior year are the easiest. Don't let your grades slip freshman year, it's the easiest way to boast your GPA.
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Just talk..........to anyone and everyone. Its simple but having a conversation is the first step to get relationship whether with a friend or a girlfriend
SenorSuave
Don Juan
Don't jump at every girl that comes along. When I moved to my new school, I thought, "sweet, I have all these women drooling over me." Awesome right? Not exactly. See the people that had been around knew much more about these girls than I did. So what happened? I dated one, she ended up a slut; dumped her, dated another, slut again. Two for two. Next thing I know I'd gone through a few girls. Well who cares? Everyone. After a few I went looking for another and what happened? "Where'd all the women go?" None wanted to date me because of my mistakes. By dating the "bad choice" women, I'd lost the good ones. It took me over a year to gain enough trust back with the other girls. My other tip would be for lunch-time. First day, no clue where you're going to sit right? Well, as long as you oozed confidence throughout the day, sit by yourself. Let them come to you.
Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
yes talk to everybody... friendly talk. If a girl is in your class then she is lucky, cause YOU are going to talk to them and they will have a friend.
man oh man how i wish i could start hs all over again. now im going to be a freshman in college. these years will be great because of the bigger enviorment and people and you will experience things youve never encountered before. hs was when i really started going out and meeting peoples of different ethnicities and likes. dont be the guy that sits at a specific table go to the spanish table the ghetto table the popular table. in order to get easier acess to these tables try out for as many sports teams as possible you dont have to make the team but it gives you an opprutinity to make friends with people and people of different social groups. that is where i made 90% if my friends and from those friends i met other friends and so on.
that will show alot of social proof to the girls when they seeing you high five alot of ppl in the hallways.
all in all try out for every team make friends with people trying out and your social circle will become gigantic. the more people you know the more opprutinies
that will show alot of social proof to the girls when they seeing you high five alot of ppl in the hallways.
all in all try out for every team make friends with people trying out and your social circle will become gigantic. the more people you know the more opprutinies
who you hang around with affects your social life. hang out with fun people not emos, goths, geeks, or dumb****s. when your friends decide to go out, GO...
dont fail your classes PERIOD. ima senior taking extra classes cuz i decided to be a dur de dur and fail so dont fail mmkay? dont worry about "meeting the one" thats just plain stupid. dont get too ****y as you will get the bloody shart kicked out of you. get in a fight with someone bigger and WIN. this way, no one will challenge you ever. it worked for me. dont do drugs stay away from that shart. dont drink and drive. dont drink and get busted. its a 1000 dollar fine and you get your license taken away untill youre 21. (thats in CA tho) if you want to smoke, wait till your 17. its easier to get smokes and if you cant, it sux balls. get involved with the sport of your choice. work out alot. stay away from world of warcraft. learn how to grind. get your braces started. if you already had em' bleach your teeth. wear cool clothes and shoes. dont wear any of that skater/surfer turkey****. get rid of acne, accutane works the best. see a dermatologist. only place you should have hair is on your head....get a cell phone. stay away from myspace. avoid video game, paintball, porn, airsoft, and dur de dur conversations especially in front of girls. dont feck up your reputation freshman year, its a kick in the nutz later if you do. start dating girls from bottom to top (start with 6'es and 7's and start working toward the 10's) dont fag bash anyone. find out who the high school slut is and avoid her and deprive her of attention. start saving for a cool car. buy a ipod or some mp3 player. they are lifesavers. stay away from placing dur de dur pictures in your view binder actually no view binder at all. dont carry porn, weapons, drugs, cigarettes, or alcohol with you. its not worth getting caught. find out what you want to do in life. know all the people who host parties and get invited to them. avoid being seen if your mommy drives you to school. pass drivers education. stay away from school political bs. avoid making yourself a class clown/jackass. dont go to school hungover. wait till you get your license before you start ditching class. if you have a gf, make sure your vehicle has enough space to fvck. dont join a gang or get involved in a gang. dont show any disrespect toward your teachers, counselor or any school staff. learn how to fight.
thats enough for now
good luck
its a bit of stuff ive learned in my years of hs
its my last year woot
dont fail your classes PERIOD. ima senior taking extra classes cuz i decided to be a dur de dur and fail so dont fail mmkay? dont worry about "meeting the one" thats just plain stupid. dont get too ****y as you will get the bloody shart kicked out of you. get in a fight with someone bigger and WIN. this way, no one will challenge you ever. it worked for me. dont do drugs stay away from that shart. dont drink and drive. dont drink and get busted. its a 1000 dollar fine and you get your license taken away untill youre 21. (thats in CA tho) if you want to smoke, wait till your 17. its easier to get smokes and if you cant, it sux balls. get involved with the sport of your choice. work out alot. stay away from world of warcraft. learn how to grind. get your braces started. if you already had em' bleach your teeth. wear cool clothes and shoes. dont wear any of that skater/surfer turkey****. get rid of acne, accutane works the best. see a dermatologist. only place you should have hair is on your head....get a cell phone. stay away from myspace. avoid video game, paintball, porn, airsoft, and dur de dur conversations especially in front of girls. dont feck up your reputation freshman year, its a kick in the nutz later if you do. start dating girls from bottom to top (start with 6'es and 7's and start working toward the 10's) dont fag bash anyone. find out who the high school slut is and avoid her and deprive her of attention. start saving for a cool car. buy a ipod or some mp3 player. they are lifesavers. stay away from placing dur de dur pictures in your view binder actually no view binder at all. dont carry porn, weapons, drugs, cigarettes, or alcohol with you. its not worth getting caught. find out what you want to do in life. know all the people who host parties and get invited to them. avoid being seen if your mommy drives you to school. pass drivers education. stay away from school political bs. avoid making yourself a class clown/jackass. dont go to school hungover. wait till you get your license before you start ditching class. if you have a gf, make sure your vehicle has enough space to fvck. dont join a gang or get involved in a gang. dont show any disrespect toward your teachers, counselor or any school staff. learn how to fight.
thats enough for now
good luck
its a bit of stuff ive learned in my years of hs
its my last year woot
