Heres some background. Ive been out of my recent ltr for about 2.5 – 3 months now. So by some random chance I ended up running into this girl that ive heard from people that she wanted to fvck me. Shes good looking and seems pretty cool for now.
Last time I saw her was like 1 year ago (I know of her through mutual people) then like 1 month ago I saw her at the bar (first time ive talked to her). So between then and now we have hung out a couple of times. First time we hung out at a bar. She told me how she likes me talks about me and stuff, almost as if shes infatuated but its probably cause I didn’t give her the time of day before (had a gf and shes use to having guys chase her and putting her on a pedestool). She also mention that she thinks im really ****y and I just told her sometimes I am and sometimes im just plain shy, which is totally true. That night we exchanged numbers and we kissed.
The second time we hung out was at a game.(she called up asking me to go). We had fun but when I was leaving I said thanks and everything but we didn’t kiss or anything. (trying to feel her out, I know she probably digs me.) The third time we hung out was this weekened. I called her this time. We met up at a bar. When I got there I was pretty toasted but not totally. As soon as I got there she was all over my nuts. Holding hands kept on getting close waiting for me to kiss her etc. just hanging on me. I knew she wanted to bone that night. She even goes as far as saying so and so said youre good in bed Im like wtf how would so and so know? Also, I hear her talking to some guy behind me. I thought I heard her say we just started dating im not 100% sure though.
So after the bar and a couple of drinks we go to her house. Im even more lit so im thinking if we try fvck there is no way (combo of being high and drunk = nothing happening). We are laying in her bed (its like 5 am im tired as fvck) im just in my boxers shes cuddling etc. she keeps on looking at me to kiss and start doing whatever. (in my head im like im fvcked up im tired so if you want to do something just freakin do it quit waiting for me) so we talk about whatever and she busts out well since were not going to have sex and blah blah. Then she starts saying im use to guys being aggressive with me guys that I know (I think she meant boning her right after the bar with no questions asked). I honestly don’t think she is too big of a ho but then again I could be wrong. But I do think she is somewhat of a player not too bad though, cause the way she talks about guys doin sh*t for her and just how she plays games. Her words were like this: “everyone likes me people just gravitate towards me, in 2 weeks people fall in love with me, well see what happens in 2 weeks (talking about me and her).” I was like yea right in my head. So we ended up not doing anything.
I guess I didn’t do anything with her cause im not like that to bone someone that quick especially if they don’t know me that well and cause shes on a high ego like yea ill do whatever I want and get it. Ive dealt with girls like her before. I don’t do anything and they freakin go crazy and want it bad just cause I deny them. Im done boning chicks the first time I get a chance espically with her attitude. Its good in the sense I guess that I know she wants me but im not giving it up to easily. But I do like this girl and could see myself in a relationship with her cause I know that she wouldn’t be a bad gf.
I tried to ask her to a movie yesterday and she was like yea Ive gotta do some sh*t then ill let you know in a little bit. She never called back to tell me. I asked with the intention of trying to bone her sober after. Yes I do know next time if there is one I will for sure do something this time. I did the same thing with my ex. She wanted to just bone immediately and I kept on denying her meanwhile other guys were chasing her but she chose me over everyone at the end just cause I held off. This current girl doesn’t need to be blocked off any longer so I need to figure out a way too get her (to bone). She might be fed up or whatever. But if she is like any other girl like how she is she should be down I just don’t know a way to say it to her meaning getting her to hang out and putting it in her head that we will bone this time and i like her.
So did I fvck up by doing this or did I do something right (did all of this cause she seems like the type a girl that will just go crazy for me if I deny making me look like the prize rather than her( thinking she is which she does) If I did fvck up how do I fix it? im thinking of not calling her or texting for like 2 weeks and in 2 weeks if no contact ill try one time to get her to go to a bar or something. what else is happening and or can i do?
Last time I saw her was like 1 year ago (I know of her through mutual people) then like 1 month ago I saw her at the bar (first time ive talked to her). So between then and now we have hung out a couple of times. First time we hung out at a bar. She told me how she likes me talks about me and stuff, almost as if shes infatuated but its probably cause I didn’t give her the time of day before (had a gf and shes use to having guys chase her and putting her on a pedestool). She also mention that she thinks im really ****y and I just told her sometimes I am and sometimes im just plain shy, which is totally true. That night we exchanged numbers and we kissed.
The second time we hung out was at a game.(she called up asking me to go). We had fun but when I was leaving I said thanks and everything but we didn’t kiss or anything. (trying to feel her out, I know she probably digs me.) The third time we hung out was this weekened. I called her this time. We met up at a bar. When I got there I was pretty toasted but not totally. As soon as I got there she was all over my nuts. Holding hands kept on getting close waiting for me to kiss her etc. just hanging on me. I knew she wanted to bone that night. She even goes as far as saying so and so said youre good in bed Im like wtf how would so and so know? Also, I hear her talking to some guy behind me. I thought I heard her say we just started dating im not 100% sure though.
So after the bar and a couple of drinks we go to her house. Im even more lit so im thinking if we try fvck there is no way (combo of being high and drunk = nothing happening). We are laying in her bed (its like 5 am im tired as fvck) im just in my boxers shes cuddling etc. she keeps on looking at me to kiss and start doing whatever. (in my head im like im fvcked up im tired so if you want to do something just freakin do it quit waiting for me) so we talk about whatever and she busts out well since were not going to have sex and blah blah. Then she starts saying im use to guys being aggressive with me guys that I know (I think she meant boning her right after the bar with no questions asked). I honestly don’t think she is too big of a ho but then again I could be wrong. But I do think she is somewhat of a player not too bad though, cause the way she talks about guys doin sh*t for her and just how she plays games. Her words were like this: “everyone likes me people just gravitate towards me, in 2 weeks people fall in love with me, well see what happens in 2 weeks (talking about me and her).” I was like yea right in my head. So we ended up not doing anything.
I guess I didn’t do anything with her cause im not like that to bone someone that quick especially if they don’t know me that well and cause shes on a high ego like yea ill do whatever I want and get it. Ive dealt with girls like her before. I don’t do anything and they freakin go crazy and want it bad just cause I deny them. Im done boning chicks the first time I get a chance espically with her attitude. Its good in the sense I guess that I know she wants me but im not giving it up to easily. But I do like this girl and could see myself in a relationship with her cause I know that she wouldn’t be a bad gf.
I tried to ask her to a movie yesterday and she was like yea Ive gotta do some sh*t then ill let you know in a little bit. She never called back to tell me. I asked with the intention of trying to bone her sober after. Yes I do know next time if there is one I will for sure do something this time. I did the same thing with my ex. She wanted to just bone immediately and I kept on denying her meanwhile other guys were chasing her but she chose me over everyone at the end just cause I held off. This current girl doesn’t need to be blocked off any longer so I need to figure out a way too get her (to bone). She might be fed up or whatever. But if she is like any other girl like how she is she should be down I just don’t know a way to say it to her meaning getting her to hang out and putting it in her head that we will bone this time and i like her.
So did I fvck up by doing this or did I do something right (did all of this cause she seems like the type a girl that will just go crazy for me if I deny making me look like the prize rather than her( thinking she is which she does) If I did fvck up how do I fix it? im thinking of not calling her or texting for like 2 weeks and in 2 weeks if no contact ill try one time to get her to go to a bar or something. what else is happening and or can i do?
