I see

[Fruitbat]

A lot of very buff tattood guys with fat hos.

Is there something in this. I note my most buff friends tend to want women I consider too fat. Kim k....I doubt I'd get one up for that borderline obese woman. Nikki minaj wtf?

Black men and buff men seem to like women several stone heavier than I do. I'm tall but closer to chubby than buff.

Also, I'm learning as you age, buffness matters less and many, many women either don't like buffness or feel embarrassed dating one. I rarely meet bodybuilders with anything but pretty unchallenging jobs.

I'm starting to think being hugely built is actually displaying lower smv... Prob get you laid no doubt. If that's all you want.

They seem to wax on about how hot the pecs are but rarely do I see bb ers with truly fly women.

Personally, I see bb ers as desparate to impress women, devoting their lives to this, which is pretty beta. Perhaps that's it.

Don't get me wrong, being fit and strong with no belly is of huge benefit, it's just the extreme, obvious bodybuilder doesn't seem to be taken seriously.

 

[Lozboss]

A lot of very buff tattood guys with fat hos.

Is there something in this. I note my most buff friends tend to want women I consider too fat. Kim k....I doubt I'd get one up for that borderline obese woman. Nikki minaj wtf?

Black men and buff men seem to like women several stone heavier than I do. I'm tall but closer to chubby than buff.

Also, I'm learning as you age, buffness matters less and many, many women either don't like buffness or feel embarrassed dating one. I rarely meet bodybuilders with anything but pretty unchallenging jobs.

I'm starting to think being hugely built is actually displaying lower smv... Prob get you laid no doubt. If that's all you want.

They seem to wax on about how hot the pecs are but rarely do I see bb ers with truly fly women.

Personally, I see bb ers as desparate to impress women, devoting their lives to this, which is pretty beta. Perhaps that's it.

Don't get me wrong, being fit and strong with no belly is of huge benefit, it's just the extreme, obvious bodybuilder doesn't seem to be taken seriously.

It's a mix right- you'll appeal to the most women if you are built but not a body builder. Being under 15% BF is a huge turn on for women.

Only a small % like the extremes.

Think: Men's Health.

 

[FairShake]

Most bodybuilders are working class guys without much spit and polish.

Most educated middle-class guys tend to go more for a fit, runner/swimmer look.

Since dating and marriage is often class-based and working class women are larger than middle class women you see working class body builders with larger working class women.

 

[prison/con.net]

quite a few women consider a bodybuilder-man to be "too narcissistic", but I suspect that they feel intimidated/can't compete with the women that they THINK he can score with. KK is truly world class beautiful, but sometimes she DOES "bulk up" too much. Jlo has had that problem a time or two, also. Nothing like as bad as Oprah, tho. Oprah, the only time she got her weight down decently, did it with the crack pipe. she IS beautiful, tho, when she'd not pigged out.