I reinstalled OLD

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They would in the UK.
Whenever I lament living in the Feminist Saudi Arabia that is the US, I always remember that those of you in Feminist Afghanistan UK have it even worse.
 

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Glad I had dogs in my life since birth. Mainly pitbulls and boxers. Because this is a dumb thing to have a grievance with.
I'm sure it's more than a coincidence. Obsession with dogs often indicates some kind of inability to relate to other human beings in a normal way. There's a reason why these women are there. They're the leftovers.
 

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-A lot of women at the gym (either gym sl*ts or bodybuilding)
-Almost all women are overweight (not obese), very few skinny girls
That's an interesting juxtaposition. Not contradictory by any means, but interesting.


A girl at school, (HB 4-5) showed me her Tinder, she had a endless list of matches and messages, from above average guys! I couldn't believe it. Completely different reality for women.
This is a natural phenomenon, especially when men are told they should have multiple plates or else they're betas. If every guy wants to be banging multiple girls on a rotation, obviously women are going to be getting more attention.
 
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What?? Lol you just let the cat outts the bag? Is this why you have 18 new threads a week?
I got news for you and your OLD take lol
the hate on OLD is real :lol:

Go ahead and waste your time tricking at grocery stores & bars every week while I get laid putting in 0 effort from my computer chair. All of that time & money y’all waste, im utilizing it for wayyy more productive stuff.
 

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the hate on OLD is real :lol:

Go ahead and waste your time tricking at grocery stores & bars every week while I get laid putting in 0 effort from my computer chair. All of that time & money y’all waste, im utilizing it for wayyy more productive stuff.
Easy come easy go
 
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Easy come easy go
I haven’t been to a stupid dance club in years lol. I only go to bars for dates or out with friends just to have fun. I live downtown and cringe at the thirsty T.G.I.F dudes wasting another weekend trying to get a girl at the bar. I don’t miss that shvt one bit.
 

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cold approach is not for black men
Black men are better at approaching strangers than White men. Black men have strong game in general.

I'm so sick and tired if every girl being obsessed with dogs.
I am too. I think those women are a little bit more prevalent on apps than in approaching strangers. In the USA, pet ownership is so high in the Millennial generation that it is difficult to avoid pet owners when dating.

These dating sites work the best for guys when they are new. As they get established and have more members they find more ways to profit off the males and his results decline. Also, women are really trendy, they gravitate towards whatever is shiny and new.

Once "everybody" is on it, the top people leave.

There was a time POF, Tinder, and Bumble all worked well. When Hinge first came out it was amazing. Few guys knew about it. It was so good, I refused to mention it on here. I didn't want my honey hole jeopardized.
You are pretty much echoing Caleb Jones' (aka Blackdragon, Alpha Male 2.0) take on online dating. He has a 5 Phases of Effectiveness model for online dating platforms.

 

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I haven’t been to a stupid dance club in years lol. I only go to bars for dates or out with friends just to have fun. I live downtown and cringe at the thirsty T.G.I.F dudes wasting another weekend trying to get a girl at the bar. I don’t miss that shvt one bit.
I'm not talking about meeting slvts in bars and clubs, are you even happy with banging random slvts? I really doubt that it fulfils you in any way.

You should always value quality relationships with good women over a large quantity of slvts that you want even remember in a few months time.
 
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I'm not talking about meeting slvts in bars and clubs, are you even happy with banging random slvts? I really doubt that it fulfils you in any way.

You should always value quality relationships with good women over a large quantity of slvts that you want even remember in a few months time.
I don’t bang random sluts. I mess around on hinge until I find a girl I like and settle with lol.
 

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I seriously considered creating a dating site but then realized how much money it would take to develop.

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Black men are better at approaching strangers than White men. Black men have strong game in general.



I am too. I think those women are a little bit more prevalent on apps than in approaching strangers. In the USA, pet ownership is so high in the Millennial generation that it is difficult to avoid pet owners when dating.



You are pretty much echoing Caleb Jones' (aka Blackdragon, Alpha Male 2.0) take on online dating. He has a 5 Phases of Effectiveness model for online dating platforms.

Caleb Jones is spot on. Gotta ride the wave, then onto the next.

Same thing happens with Trendy bars in big cities.
 
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Waste time? With what? Real life and being social? Lol good one
No worries I know the real story about the computer "chair"
If tricking on random strangers at a bar is something you like then go for it. Me, I prefer to do other things and OLD gives me a lot more flexibility to do so. For example, that money you waste at bars, I spend on a luxury gym membership, a nicer vehicle, nicer clothes, or traveling. This whole I’m better than you because I have a social life at my stupid hole in the wall bar is a giant cope dude. I used to be that exact T.G.I.F bar bro guy and I don’t miss that shvt oneeee bit. Also, if Tricking at bars is so much better then why do y’all get triggered by OLD so much. Every week, I see a topic of one of y’all crying about it. The simple solution is not to use it, but obviously that’s impossible.
 
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Now to elaborate on my Incel statement. Before my success with OLD, I was having long dry spells and settling for women I wasn’t that attracted to.

Why has OLD helped me?

1). I’ve never been blessed with a lucrative social circle for women. I’m almost 30 and it’s never happened, all of my lays have came from my blood, sweat, and tears. Plus, I’ve seen the negative affects of social circle game.

2). Cold Approaching sucks unless you live in Vegas, Miami, or NYC, or in college. I grew up in Nashville, so I’d have to worry about the logistics of getting to a hot area, prey the hot area has women, and everyone in Nashville is married by 25 so hope there’s a single woman lol.

3). I’m not your typical black guy- Most women aren’t open to interracial dating in general, so that’s strike one. Second, the ones that are want a “black” guy, not a tiger woods or Obama shvt. On OLD, my profile is obvious about who I am so if a girl swiped right, she knows who I am initially. Vs me butting my head and self esteem trying to sell umbrellas in Phoenix, im selling umbrellas in Seattle.

4). I got sick of the bar scene after I got below 14% BF. It just got hard to maintain my look and go to bars every weekend. Plus, I had less hangovers and a happier bank account. The rest, I’ve already been talking about lol.

So OLD, all I needed to do was have good pictures and decent conversation skills vs the BS prep & logistics you need to cold approach. I don’t give a rats @$$ about a spoiled OLD bvsh because that’s much better than tricking at some stupid bar lol.
 

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Never tried Tinder but based on what I have heard probably never will. I clean up on Bumble and Hinge tho.
Can you paint a bit of a picture on how your profiles are built out? For instance based on your prior posts it seems like you and I have a similar situation. Do you post kids, do you not? Are you forward in your intentions to be casual, do you post dogs, do you have a pic of you in an exotic location? Interested to hear - I did have a bumble and I have to say, would get a lot of likes but they were usually just placeholders and maybe a couple generated conversation

With you on Tinder, absolutely garbage
 

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There's really a pretty hard limit on the quality you can get from OLD. In practice, though, the quality you'll get from bars is probably worse, unless you're able to retain a lot of self-discipline while drunk.
 
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