I regret not being part of this site while I was in The Air Force

[Travel memoir21]

I briefly had an old account when I was in High School and life took its tolls when I joined The Military.


In The Military I had a very isolating job where I would be deployed to a Missile Field in the middle of nowhere for a certain number of days. I think that’s where I may have developed my Schizophrenic symptoms. I have it controlled today because of the meds, daily ritual, spiritual activities and exercise I do. Im still here in South East Asia living a comfortable life. I’d like to take up Cycling, jogging and skateboarding and Aikido.


In The Military I had more friends who were civilians than military members. I wish I was totally a part of this site back then because of the small community that we have and how this seems to be a good outlet and support system for Men. I was young and a lot of women had a crush on me but I didn’t know how to make a move.

 

[New_Journey]

Bro you're 38 years old, best fvcking years for men are coming your way, don't waste them.

If I were you, I would jump on Testosterone, get ripped as fvck like this guy, get a remote job, move to the best place in your native country and slay left and right.



Some people have it so easy, that they don't realize what they're missing on.

 

[sevbucmash]

jump on Testosterone

Steroids?

 

[New_Journey]

Steroids?

I would check my levels and then get on trt first

 

[characternote]

I would check my levels and then get on trt first

i've always been interested in doing roids.
I always suspected I had really LOW levels as things like almost no underarm hair, always got a subborn layer of fat despite working out and eating clean etc always made me suspect so

I decided to get it checked at the Doctors recently, and it turns out my levels (and free levels) are high. My total T was actually 'outside of range' on the upside.

So not sure where that leaves me. Would seem weird to destroy my natural levels and inject. I almost hoped they'd come back really bad (as i'd suspected) as that would make it a fairly easy choice.

Also always been very worried about potential hair loss with taking T. I know people will argue about the importance of hair but personally, in MY experience, the sort of girls I go for won't often give a bald guy a shot.

Although, tbh, it would actually mainly be for me as opposed to girls. I say that because I genuinely believe that if I got in insane shape, it wouldn't change my results (my results are basically ok. I get rejected a lot but I bang some hot girls. I'm ok with them). I think 99% of the girls who reject me would still reject me if I got ripped to shreds.
My 'handsome' friends destroy my gym rat friends

 

[Clockwerk50]

Not sure if you resent your time in the military, but there is no point in thinking about the past when it can't be changed and only weighs you down. What matters is where you are now and what you want to build for the future-whether that's stability, new experiences, or simply peace of mind. Focusing on the present gives you the power to shape your own path, free from the weight of what's already happened.

P.S. Every time I go to the States, I'm shocked by how much the military is glorified through its commercials-how they frame it as the ultimate path to honour, purpose, and belonging, almost like a rite of passage rather than a career choice. Not saying it is bad, it is just bizarre.

 

[New_Journey]

Also always been very worried about potential hair loss with taking T. I know people will argue about the importance of hair but personally

That depends on genetics. My hair is the best thing the universe could gifted me.
This is me at 21 vs 35


I don't like long anymore. But nothing really has changed that much because I don't have that MBP gene, but if you have it, it will accelerate it.

in MY experience, the sort of girls I go for won't often give a bald guy a shot.

Women don't see induvial features like men do. Stop thinking like women, women see the whole picture and much more emphasis on the behavior. You are failing with them, because you get nervous, and you've been conditioned to think bald = bad. You treat the ones you like "better" and less masculine than the ones you don't like, pay attention to your behavior and you'll see.

Although, tbh, it would actually mainly be for me as opposed to girls.

Not entirely true, but this is fine bro, it improves your confidence x100 when you look good naked.

Although, tbh, it would actually mainly be for me as opposed to girls. I say that because I genuinely believe that if I got in insane shape, it wouldn't change my results (my results are basically ok. I get rejected a lot but I bang some hot girls. I'm ok with them). I think 99% of the girls who reject me would still reject me if I got ripped to shreds.

This is you lying to yourself. XX is not equal to XY, when Y is an improvement, it opens more doors.

My 'handsome' friends destroy my gym rat friends

Believe me when I tell you, that some gym rats have the same charisma that those "handsome" friends, and they will be really destroyed. When you are in a state of hunger, as soon as you see a pull from them is something big, but when you are used to it and more, you don't think that's something spectacular, cause in reality it is not.

 

[characternote]

That depends on genetics. My hair is the best thing the universe could gifted me.
This is me at 21 vs 35

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I don't like long anymore. But nothing really has changed that much because I don't have that MBP gene, but if you have it, it will accelerate it.


Women don't see induvial features like men do. Stop thinking like women, women see the whole picture and much more emphasis on the behavior. You are failing with them, because you get nervous, and you've been conditioned to think bald = bad. You treat the ones you like "better" and less masculine than the ones you don't like, pay attention to your behavior and you'll see.



Not entirely true, but this is fine bro, it improves your confidence x100 when you look good naked.


This is you lying to yourself. XX is not equal to XY, when Y is an improvement, it opens more doors.


Believe me when I tell you, that some gym rats have the same charisma that those "handsome" friends, and they will be really destroyed. When you are in a state of hunger, as soon as you see a pull from them is something big, but when you are used to it and more, you don't think that's something spectacular, cause in reality it is not.

you're hairline looks good. Good job!
As for the the other points, we'll just have to agree to disagree.
I really can't disregard what I've spent a life time of seeing with my own eyes lol.
My chad friend(s) (facially) is literally fighting the hot girls off with a stick. Literally cold approached many times per night
My ripped/stacked friends don't get anything even CLOSE to the success he has. It's just night and day

You are failing with them, because you get nervous, and you've been conditioned to think bald = bad

(ps - my hairline is like yours so my hair isn't an issue)

I'm fine with my results. I've shared some receipts here on the forum and others with certain members in DM (i think velasco and mikedee and a few others)
Of course I get rejected a lot but i'm going for super hot 18 year olds mostly and i'd bet my house that every other poster here has a similar 'hit rate' with such girls).

I'd say that getting ripped WOULD help a fair bit if going for much older women, though. Another clear pattern i've seen over the years.

But yeah, as is always the case on 99% of online discussion, we'll have too agree to disagree.