I really really need help please!!!!

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okay guys, i'll get into the point straight away. I met this beautiful girl at ballroom dancing about a year ago where i was introduced to her hoping to partner up with her! i dance competitively and so does she, how ever she is a more advanced dancer. so i didn't quite work out!. i spent about 8 months training so i could dance with her! she is one of those girls where you see her and just can't stop thinking about her! welll finally i managed to impress her so much that she wrote a letter to the dance council asking them to down grade her so that she can dance with me! infact she mentioned told out coach that i feel much more nicer than any other guy she danced with! my coach is the top teacher in the country aswell as top 24 in the world. he said for all the years he's been teaching, never seen a matching beautiful couple, to make it even better his teacher who's been teaching for 54 years, said the same! now since we partnered up, i just can't stop thinking about her! and everytime i see her, it feel awesome as!! but my idiot friend took my phone and sent her a txt inviting her to a party! and i didn't know anything about it! then she replies, " hey! thanks for invinting me, but my boyfriend thomas wouldn't like it. but i'll see you on sat" now this pissed of so much because i tried so hard to partner up with her. it's been about 1 month since this happened and she's very cool about it! it's like that never happened (by the way i told her what had actually happened with the txt) now i'm like in love with this girl, so i don't know what to do!!! did she make up the story about the bf? or does she actually have one? if she have a boy friend, what do i do?? this whole thing is driving me crazy! she's really really nice to me! could you guys please help me?!!!!!
 
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It doesn't matter if she has a b/f - she told you so because she was not interested!! Move on!

Quit falling in love with women who have no significance to you - love your wife and momma!!!!!!
 
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yeah i thought about that, but she always looks into my eyes, and we had moments where we looked for a while and like "ammm yep!" she seems interested aswell, but i'm confused!
 

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you will never get her if you think more of her than she of you...

Its very frequent that dancing couples get together even when one has a relationship already. but you are too desperate and not thinking about how you are going to be good for yourself and not her.
 

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hey guys cheers for the replies! by the way "I LOVE HYORI LEE" it's not quite a waste of time as we're doing awesome as with comps! :p
 

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asam said:
yeah i thought about that, but she always looks into my eyes, and we had moments where we looked for a while and like "ammm yep!" she seems interested aswell, but i'm confused!
your not confused, you are gasping for straws.

Because if you take a step back from the situtation, it's pretty ovbious she doesn't like you "like that"

and hey, that's no slight against you.. mabye she HAS a BF.. maybe she just isn't your type, whatever the reason may be, she let it be known that she has no romantic interest in you. Your best friend did you a huge favor, you ought to buy him a beer or som ething, because he saved you months, probably years of heartache.

if you dance, keep dancing with her.. she is a good partner. don't hold her not liking you against her, but put her out of your mind, spin more plates, get out in the field.
 

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Go to more beginner dance classes with more people, and bring her along. Being a good dancer, and friends with a beautiful girl, will get you all the female attention you want.
 

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wow! this is awesome thanks alot eh! it's quite clear now, thanks alot for the comments certainly helped alot. Cheers
 
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