I played the attention *****!

Santos

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Hey guys! This is long, but interesting (classic attention *****)

Remember Chantal? Well for those of you that don't. I've known her for three weeks we've been out together about 6/7 times. Spoken about all kinds of stuff (having sex together, etc). She has a BF of 11 months. She told me she had cheated on her BF once.

She told me how she had feelings for me, but still loved her BF. She said she felt bad about falling for someone so quickly, yadda, yadda. So I friend-zone her. Then start talking about getting together. Then she friend-zones me. She said, "I don't want you out of my life completely." Being an aspiring DJ, I had not kissed her up to this point.

Anyway, tonight her and her FRIEND come over to my place. I think I'm screwed now, friends for sure. This is where it gets interesting:

We all had quite a bit to drink. Chantal said she needs to sleep a little to sober up. So while she is sleeping (in my bed too :D), I start talking to her best friend. (I have a good rapport going with her, although I'm not sure how much I can rely on what she says).

Oh boy, what I found out was INTERESTING! She has cheated on her BF 4 times previously, and only told him about the one. She leads men on all the time. She has also told her BF that she has stopped seeing me weeks ago. (Although she told me that her BF knows about me.) She also told her friend that she has known me a LOT longer than what she actually has.

She also ALWAYS uses the excuse that she was drunk for cheating. And she was ACTING more drunk tonight than she really was. ATTENTION ***** ANYONE? :D MY IL dropped like a bomb. Some DJ's may not agree with what I did...

Well, when Santos hears this, his mind starts racing. I've only ever kissed one girl on my life (sad, I know). I didn't try and kiss Chantal cos' I felt bad about her cheating on her BF and putting her in that position. But, she's obviously done it a lot before (4 times in 3 months OMG!). And she was trying to get a piece of me all night. (You shoulda seen it - classic Attention *****). Seeing that I was need of more experience, and Chantal is hot - I decided "What the hell! Let's try get some action!"

So, I go into my room. And sit on the bed next to her, she pulls me close and we end up making out. She wasn't actually that good. Although I got a hard-on :D. Hahaha, it was fun cos' I know EXACTLY what she is up to. I got more experince at making out :D.

Well, the hard-on has faded, but the memories and experience remain :p haha

She said to me tonight that "we need to talk tommorrow". (She didn't want to talk now cos' her friend was with us.) She was still telling me how she has feelings for me, doesn't want to hurt me
or her BF. BLAH BLAH ****ING BLAH BLAH. I can't believe her...

She has been TRYING REALLY HARD to get with me (make out). Then she tells me "It just kinda happend." LOL

I'm pretty sure she's gonna say tomorrow "Look, I was a little drunk. I don't think this will work out etc." Presonally I think she's only staying with her BF cos' she lost her virginity with him and doesn't want to feel like she's a skank. :)

I'd like to screw her brains out, if at all possible. How can I get her to do that? Is it possible? How do you keep an attention *****? I'm NOT interested in a LTR, more like a "fling". I think if I played my cards right we could end up having sex.

Thanks for reading
Santos
 

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If she was in your room or sleeping in your bed, it means she is claiming you as her property.. she feels comfortable about screwing you anyway.

She sounds confused and with mental issues. She doesn't know what she wants, except a constant flow of guys letting her know she is still desirable.

If you want dramas, continue.. else next her (maybe for her friend) :p
 

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Santos, Santos, Santos.

ok, fine. if you are going to keep her around, then use her. don't be her friend. never call her, let her come to you. and if it doesn't seem like she is going to do what you want her do (within the 1st 5 minutes!), tell her you have something important to do and diss her.
 

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knowing what you know now, go back thru your previous posts on this girl and re-read--see which ones were accurate, which ones weren't, which ones still have relevant advice---the Q "how do I screw her brains out" was already addressed.
 

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Originally posted by iqqi
Santos, Santos, Santos.

ok, fine. if you are going to keep her around, then use her. don't be her friend. never call her, let her come to you. and if it doesn't seem like she is going to do what you want her do (within the 1st 5 minutes!), tell her you have something important to do and diss her.
I actually realised I don't really want her as a friend last night. Why? Cos' when I asked her over to my house and she mentioned bringing her friend I didn't actually want her to come over anymore. :) I thought "well that's going to make for a boring evening". :)

It's weird how you can lie to yourself, but once the truth is uncovered then you can no longer deny what you really wanted all a long. I just wanted to be her friend so I could get close to her and maybe **** her.


TesuqueRed, thanks for the suggestion. My appologies for asking for what has been answered already.

dionysius_d. I want to play on the fact that she needs to feel desired. I picked up on this a short while ago. I think now that I've kissed her she's satisfied and will dump my ass anyway. But maybe not. I'll see what she says today.

Thanks
Santos
 

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Originally posted by Santos
I actually realised I don't really want her as a friend last night. Why? Cos' when I asked her over to my house and she mentioned bringing her friend I didn't actually want her to come over anymore. :) I thought "well that's going to make for a boring evening". :)


Good reality check here--I remembered just those feelings but didn't pay attention--this is a very important test for oneself!
 
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