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I need your help on this please, why is she like this?

Stephen89

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I don't know why. My sister who is one year younger than me has been cruel to me for a long, long time. From 2005-2012 she didn't once wish to talk to me and react to me like a very angry dog and also years after this too.

My sister easily forgets I paid for Sky TV, Now TV before for at least 3 years in total. I also pay for the petrol. I also do all the chores (so does my sister) and I also do my sister's big washing up for weeks now, I even video recorded it. Many times in the past I I helped my father out so much and when he had 2 injuries for work and it was only me doing something, going places for months and even now. I also help with the cooking, I video recorded.

She doesn't really want to listen or appreciate anything I've done, do or done in the past. My father has supported me in the past and she uses that against me. Does she understand that I'll help and look after him?

She has worked in marketing for 8 years and hasn't once given any money for the bills or anything. Not to forget before that she worked in mcdonalds for 3 years before that for 2-3 days a weeks and she didn't give any towards either. Now she's cooking for the food once a week.

She doesn't wish to listen to anything positive I do, I've done, how much I help or anything positive I've done in the past. She will say I'll never work and this is ridiculous, I've got an extensive work history and do a lot.

I have said I'm running a business, albeit only started it (where she doesn't ask) and earning some passive income, but she puts me down and puts me down with lack of contribution when I've done so much and even if I am working, she doesn't really wish to ask or support any business endeavours. Even when I work there will be something she'll argue about and put me down I bet you.

She puts me down now because my father has supported me in the past, in the past months she's been using this to put me down and ignored anything positive. She's probably happy that's happened she can manipulate when she's angry with something in her own life. My gut feeling is she uses me as a scapegoat for her cruel behaviour in the past for years and now she's manipulating us by putting me down.

She puts me down a lot.

If I answer back, she acts like hitler saying she's never done nothing wrong, argues, screams and thinks of a reason to put me down.

I just wish to know why doesn't she wish to listen, ignore everything positive I've done in the past, now and why does she put me down so much. She has the money for 8 years, more but never once gave any money to the bills.
 
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Asseater

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The thing about people like this is it doesn't matter why they are acting like this. The only thing you can control is yourself, and you need to distance yourself as much as possible or she will only hurt you more. Family or not, behavior like this should never be tolerated in my opinion.
 

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I don't know why. My sister who is one year younger than me has been cruel to me for a long, long time. From 2005-2012 she didn't once wish to talk to me and react to me like a very angry dog and also years after this too.

My sister easily forgets I paid for Sky TV, Now TV before for at least 3 years in total. I also pay for the petrol. I also do all the chores (so does my sister) and I also do my sister's big washing up for weeks now, I even video recorded it. Many times in the past I I helped my father out so much and when he had 2 injuries for work and it was only me doing something, going places for months and even now. I also help with the cooking, I video recorded.

She doesn't really want to listen or appreciate anything I've done, do or done in the past. My father has supported me in the past and she uses that against me. Does she understand that I'll help and look after him?

She has worked in marketing for 8 years and hasn't once given any money for the bills or anything. Not to forget before that she worked in mcdonalds for 3 years before that for 2-3 days a weeks and she didn't give any towards either. Now she's cooking for the food once a week.

She doesn't wish to listen to anything positive I do, I've done, how much I help or anything positive I've done in the past. She will say I'll never work and this is ridiculous, I've got an extensive work history and do a lot.

I have said I'm running a business, albeit only started it (where she doesn't ask) and earning some passive income, but she puts me down and puts me down with lack of contribution when I've done so much and even if I am working, she doesn't really wish to ask or support any business endeavours. Even when I work there will be something she'll argue about and put me down I bet you.

She puts me down now because my father has supported me in the past, in the past months she's been using this to put me down and ignored anything positive. She's probably happy that's happened she can manipulate when she's angry with something in her own life. My gut feeling is she uses me as a scapegoat for her cruel behaviour in the past for years and now she's manipulating us by putting me down.

She puts me down a lot.

If I answer back, she acts like hitler saying she's never done nothing wrong, argues, screams and thinks of a reason to put me down.

I just wish to know why doesn't she wish to listen, ignore everything positive I've done in the past, now and why does she put me down so much. She has the money for 8 years, more but never once gave any money to the bills.
She's competitive with u bro in a bad way. Stop helping her, let her be self sufficient. Don't reach to her for support. Close things up on a good note. She may come back later on. But to continue to emable the dynamic is suicide. She is only seeing the "bad" in you, wearing a very NEGATIVE set of glasses with you.
 
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I don't know why. My sister who is one year younger than me has been cruel to me for a long, long time. From 2005-2012 she didn't once wish to talk to me and react to me like a very angry dog and also years after this too.

My sister easily forgets I paid for Sky TV, Now TV before for at least 3 years in total. I also pay for the petrol. I also do all the chores (so does my sister) and I also do my sister's big washing up for weeks now, I even video recorded it. Many times in the past I I helped my father out so much and when he had 2 injuries for work and it was only me doing something, going places for months and even now. I also help with the cooking, I video recorded.

She doesn't really want to listen or appreciate anything I've done, do or done in the past. My father has supported me in the past and she uses that against me. Does she understand that I'll help and look after him?

She has worked in marketing for 8 years and hasn't once given any money for the bills or anything. Not to forget before that she worked in mcdonalds for 3 years before that for 2-3 days a weeks and she didn't give any towards either. Now she's cooking for the food once a week.

She doesn't wish to listen to anything positive I do, I've done, how much I help or anything positive I've done in the past. She will say I'll never work and this is ridiculous, I've got an extensive work history and do a lot.

I have said I'm running a business, albeit only started it (where she doesn't ask) and earning some passive income, but she puts me down and puts me down with lack of contribution when I've done so much and even if I am working, she doesn't really wish to ask or support any business endeavours. Even when I work there will be something she'll argue about and put me down I bet you.

She puts me down now because my father has supported me in the past, in the past months she's been using this to put me down and ignored anything positive. She's probably happy that's happened she can manipulate when she's angry with something in her own life. My gut feeling is she uses me as a scapegoat for her cruel behaviour in the past for years and now she's manipulating us by putting me down.

She puts me down a lot.

If I answer back, she acts like hitler saying she's never done nothing wrong, argues, screams and thinks of a reason to put me down.

I just wish to know why doesn't she wish to listen, ignore everything positive I've done in the past, now and why does she put me down so much. She has the money for 8 years, more but never once gave any money to the bills.
Your sister could have her own problems that others don’t know about, but it sounds to me like she doesn’t appreciate the value or is jealous of your time and efforts and you want some thanks or praise.
Word to the wise, if your time comes too freely others don’t value it.
 
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