I need to... VENT!

[BxPrince24]

I'm tired of all my f*cking attempts ending up into failures. I'm tired of the bullsh*t that I have to put up with when it comes to girls. I start to not give a f*ck about them more and more everyday. All they tend to do is find another way to piss me off and hate them more.

Now I know not everyone I meet is gonna be single or attracted to me, but what the f*ck? I'm doing what I should be doing but sometimes this sh*t builds up, even when you're like f*ck it and move on. Today probably just isn't my day... I don't know but I'm tired of the sh*t I go through.

I think I'm done venting... 18 and counting. Girlfriends: none. Girls that have screwed him over: 12 and counting. Right now I probably just need some sleep to let this drift off my mind.

 

[BxPrince24]

Just so you know, this doesn't mean I'm giving up. Just that today I've reached that point where I just had to let it out.

 

[Black_Italian]

its great that you reached this point this is were everything realy starts to change and get better.

 

[DJ_in_making]

Don't worry about it bro,
If you reached the worse point, it can only get better from here. Eh?
Every dog has his day, I been to a club and been rejected by every girl I approached and I couldn't figure why. I started to wonder if there was something wrong w/ me but what doesn't kill u makes you stronger....





Not approaching a girl actually feels worse than getting rejected. --Don Joey

 

[Visceral]

Originally posted by DJ_in_making
Not approaching a girl actually feels worse than getting rejected. --Don Joey

Doesn't sound like it to me.

 

[runnincircles]

You're on your way, man.

I did that same thing. I got all pissed off and had to just let it out. After that, everything came together.

 

[BxPrince24]

Yea it's not. Today, 2 girls that I'm trying to get with play me and 1 of them tells me she has a bf. Tomorrow when I see the girl that played me at my job she's not gonna have the part of me that she enjoys, that C&F is gone, that's her punishment. Now she can go f*ck off too. And the other 2 can just kiss my a$$ I doubt that I'll see them anyway.

GRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHH... I can't complain when some of these girls get the backhand sometimes. The sh*t they put guys through when they know that they want them is just so damn childish. But I'll put up with the games for now... They'll pay for it in the bedroom...

 

[MacDiddy]

Why dont you share you tactics and analysis with us in more detail so that we can help...

Seriously, what is the point in your post? to get us ALpha/DJ males to sympathize with you, give you a hug and tell you everything is gonna be ok!! By displaying such AFC behaviour and loss of control of your emotions, your venting is only going to slow your progression towards your ultimate goal... becoming a DJ, getting laid, getting laid effortlessly.

 

[Wiesman44]

MacDaddy, you'll never a therapist, thats for sure.......


It has nothing to do w/ AFC behavior man. Sometimes u have such a bad string of luck w/ girls that you just need to vent. This happened to me about a week ago. Just let it out, and realize you go for the wrong girls.

Bx, I know you think all girls suck. Hell, thats how I felt. I felt like why should I even bother giving girls chances when after the first date, they'd either get back w/ their ex, or turn into psychos. Was I doing anything wrong ? Hell no. Its their problem, not mine. thats the way you have to look at it.


Just keep trucking along. You'll find what you're looking for eventually.

 

[DJ_in_making]

Originally posted by Visceral
Doesn't sound like it to me.

Well only sometimes.
Sometimes a rejection is like a relief, "oh I got it off of my chest". And not approaching is like "What if she wanted me, now I'm never gonna know"

 

[BxPrince24]

I'm not looking for sympathy. But the best way to get things off your chest and move on is to tell someone about it. That's all I'm doing.

What do I do when it comes to meeting a girl?

-First I try to get some eye contact going, then I go up to her.
-Introduce myself.
-Ask her for her name.
-Make a comment on something (sometimes), usually something that a lot of other ppl wouldn't notice or bust on her.
-Then I try to get a convo and mental keno going. I ask what do you like to do for fun? What did you do yesterday/for the weekend? What kind of music are you into? What kind of movies do you like to watch, etc...
-I elaborate on what she says and if I can, I relate it to what I was busting on her about.
-Then I tell her that I enjoy talking with her and ask what's her number while taking out a pen or handing her my cell phone.
-Tell her she'll be hearing from me soon and carry on to where I was going.

If I spend the day with them or run into them or something I be myself, C&F, Lots of eye contact, Try to get a lot of kino going, and in the end I go in for a kiss. Though i've only went in for the kiss once and it didn't happen.

 

[MacDiddy]

MacDaddy, you'll never a therapist, thats for sure.......

And I'll never claim to be.... if my interpretation of your poor english is correct...

It has nothing to do w/ AFC behavior man. Sometimes u have such a bad string of luck w/ girls that you just need to vent. This happened to me about a week ago. Just let it out, and realize you go for the wrong girls.

Chick going through PMS will vent.. They have a bad day, they will vent, someone ticks them off, they will vent.. if theres nothing else to do, they will vent... they know they are venting uselessly, but still vent...ARE YOU STARTING TO SEE THE PATTERN... Its very feminine wussy behaviour...

The smart dude will pick himself up and move on.. with the minimal of fuss...

I understand however that getting your frame of mind right for PUs is essential, but venting is just counter-intuitive.. and does nothing to set that right frame of mind.. if anything it acts as a block, throws you a curve ball and makes you question what your doing...

DJ's have had to make literally hundreds of approaches to become proficient... If I thought it would be helpful to me, I would have vented everytime I got snubbed.... You guys would never see the end of it!!!!

 

[MacDiddy]

BxPrince: Since I've just spent the last hour on SoSuave, my reply now is gonna have to be short, until I have more time to respond properly.

you tactics are very TEXT BOOK nice guy!!! You ask to many questions. It'll will work on UGs or occasionally on chicks that are 1 point away from your own looks.

 

[DJ_in_making]

Originally posted by MacDiddy
ARE YOU STARTING TO SEE THE PATTERN... Its very feminine wussy behaviour...

The smart dude will pick himself up and move on.. with the minimal of fuss...

Yes indeed my friend. These soon-to-be-serial-killers will bottle up all their fustration...... They will then proceed into walking into a gun store, walk out a 9mm. they WILL Become a master at seducing girls, taking them home, and killing them afterwards.
It comes out one way or another my friend. Wanna be another Ted Bundy? go right ahead....

 

[BxPrince24]

Originally posted by MacDiddy
BxPrince: Since I've just spent the last hour on SoSuave, my reply now is gonna have to be short, until I have more time to respond properly.

you tactics are very TEXT BOOK nice guy!!! You ask to many questions. It'll will work on UGs or occasionally on chicks that are 1 point away from your own looks.

I don't actually ask all those questions, I just usually ask until I get something that she likes to talk about and elaborate on. But if there's an error in what i've been doing, let me know what I've been doing wrong and what I should be doing instead.

 

[runnincircles]

Originally posted by BxPrince24
Yea it's not. Today, 2 girls that I'm trying to get with play me and 1 of them tells me she has a bf. Tomorrow when I see the girl that played me at my job she's not gonna have the part of me that she enjoys, that C&F is gone, that's her punishment. Now she can go f*ck off too. And the other 2 can just kiss my a$$ I doubt that I'll see them anyway.

GRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHH... I can't complain when some of these girls get the backhand sometimes. The sh*t they put guys through when they know that they want them is just so damn childish. But I'll put up with the games for now... They'll pay for it in the bedroom...

I'm noticing 2 problems with your attitude. (Not trying to break you down or anything, hopefully you'll take this as positive criticism.)

1. Don't play their games. By playing their games, you basically lose. However, I find that drawing them into your games is very succesful.

2. Don't "punish" them for turning you down. Show them that it doesn't really matter to you either way. There's always another girl, and she just passed up a big opportunity. Remember, it's her loss, not yours.

 

[JonJack]

Originally posted by runnincircles
I'm noticing 2 problems with your attitude. (Not trying to break you down or anything, hopefully you'll take this as positive criticism.)

1. Don't play their games. By playing their games, you basically lose. However, I find that drawing them into your games is very succesful.

2. Don't "punish" them for turning you down. Show them that it doesn't really matter to you either way. There's always another girl, and she just passed up a big opportunity. Remember, it's her loss, not yours.

Listen to runnincircles. Especially his point number 2. Although you did lose out, since you didn't get what you wanted from the girl, it shouldn't be a big deal. If you react in a way that shows it is a big deal to you, people notice these things and they can see that you're disappointed and depressed. These are all signs that will drive people away from you. Attach this sort of behaviour to a CEO of a multibillion dollar company and you'll be asking yourself how the fvck could this person be in a leadership position that he is in.

 

[ikkenai]

Originally posted by BxPrince24
I think I'm done venting... 18 and counting. Girlfriends: none. Girls that have screwed him over: 12 and counting.

What kind of attitude is this? You tally your failures?

 

[BxPrince24]

Re: Re: I need to... VENT!

Originally posted by ikkenai
What kind of attitude is this? You tally your failures?

I just thought back and included it in my post. If you want me to include my successes, they equal 0.

 

[BxPrince24]

Anyways, I've been thinking. Instead of trying to get in a relatioship right now, I'm just going to bring up my social status. Put getting into a relationship on hold n just meet n try to have fun with as many ppl as I can.