I need space=I"ve already dumped you...

[EXPERIENCED MOFO]

and you are the very last to know.So sorry...

If you here from your other half that "I need some space", it not only IS over (your relationship),but in her mind,it HAS been over a while now.

In that time from her starting to lose interest in you as her #1 man, she has been sending out her female antennae to spot any willing new fool who will be her next chump.

So, it is not a matter of IF super stud but WHEN, so...beat her to it...and when you sense her growing colder towards you-give her the boot-forever!

remember- MOFO says avoid oneitis like the plague.

 

[Ricky]

Add to that "I think we should take a step back"
Different words but same ending.

 

[markrt69]

I hear ya, and yes its all true!

Another observation, is that when a woman PLEADS with you to make more time for them, and things along those lines, it is wise to do so.

Case in point: I was dating a real cute gal, and things couldn't have been better. Then i started a new Job, and moved and all sorts of crazy things were zapping me for time. I used to spend a considerable amount of time talking to her, or being with her, but I was juggling things, and slacked off, which i figured would do her good. Not so.

What wound up happening is it built resentment from her. She pleaded with me, and i made excuses about how busy I was. See, women KNOW what they mean when they pull that crap. Thats the I need space thing in another form.

For me it was truly a "let me catch my breath" thing, but her pleading soon turned to resentment, which soon turned to anger, which soon turned to low interest..and then she needed space!

About the anger stage i got a clue, but it was far too late.

Moral of the story: Don't get so caught up in yourself, that you don't heed the warning signs BEFORE a woman verbalizes them. By the time it becomes verbal...its ingrained in that feminine brain. I need space is one of them.

 

[Ricky]

Yeah the problem is changing a womans mind when they are frustrated.

Women can change their mind all the time, but once they give up or say it's over it is a tough block to break.