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WAY2COOL

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OK here's the situation I went to a strip club last night with a couple of friends and about 10 minutes after we get in and sit down I see this hot blonde girl. So I just kind of kick back and give her some eye contact. Then she starts giving the guy sitting right in front of me a dance and about 75% of time she is just starring at me. When she is done she comes up to me and says " Your so fu*king hot, I noticed you right when you came in, can I sit with you?" So I say yeah and I talk to her about basic stuff about her, what she does outside of work to try to set the tone for me not wanting to be just one of her customers. I didnt spend any money on her I even made her give me a dollar for a cigerette. So she went and gave some dances and came back then She tried to get me to buy a dance but I called her on it like "Oh so thats what this is all about you just want me to buy a dance." She says no I think your fu*king hot and I want to dance for you. So I explained it to her like I would feel like a chump if I had to pay for a girl to dance for me. So she smiled and said she was going to go find some chumps then and she would be back. So as I am walking out to leave and she is sitting at a table with like 3 guys and grabs my hand as I walk by and asks if I am leaving I say yeah but you should come here and talk to me for a second. Then I pull her aside and say "So whats up you should give me your number?" She says "I cant give my number out here this is like where I work, but you can go write yours down and give it me." and I'm like yeah right is that your little textbook line you tell everybody. So she says if it easier for you I work tomarrow and you can just stop by and drop it off for me then. So she gives me a big hug and I leave. Now my question is what should I do? Should I go back and drop my number off or just say fu*k it? It seemed like she was into me but I dont know.
 

Ronin I

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The answer to this is easy -

If you do not go back there, what are your chances of fvcking this girl - zero.

If you do go back there, what are your chances of fvcking this girl - larger than zero.
 

Matt ala Casanova

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Sure what the hell, this is a stripper and most likely a freak. Do you plan on spending your life with this chick or just giving her your life line juice? Give her your number but be smooth about it. Be like, if you don't call by tommorow then I know I've wasted my time. Again call her out on it!

M.A.C.
 

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bahahahahahhahaah

If I had a nickel for everytime I encountered this scenario..Id be Driving a Hummer right now

Here's a cluepon: Strippers are payed to c0cktease you to pay for dances and have repeat visits..

I have gotten about 3 #'s from strippers..and they have told me this as a fact.

its their job to make you feel like you are the hottest guy in the room..

and if they REALLY liked you, they would give you their # the first time..
 

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Originally posted by Starman
bahahahahahhahaah

If I had a nickel for everytime I encountered this scenario..Id be Driving a Hummer right now

Here's a cluepon: Strippers are payed to c0cktease you to pay for dances and have repeat visits..

I have gotten about 3 #'s from strippers..and they have told me this as a fact.

its their job to make you feel like you are the hottest guy in the room..

and if they REALLY liked you, they would give you their # the first time..
I'd say this is pretty well on. I love when they sit on your lap and tell you how hot you are and how they want to "do you good."

I've been to plenty of strip clubs, too, where girls will sit and chat with you to build rapport before going for the sale, so don't take the fact that she talks about "life outside of the club" for more than it's worth.

You're doing OK by not paying, but remember, she sees a million sleazeballs every week, you're not the first to ask for her phone number and you won't be the last.

That's being said, read this:
http://www.sosuave.com/articles/strippers.htm

Good tips. :)
 

Ronin I

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Originally posted by Starman
bahahahahahhahaah

If I had a nickel for everytime I encountered this scenario..Id be Driving a Hummer right now

Here's a cluepon: Strippers are payed to c0cktease you to pay for dances and have repeat visits..

I have gotten about 3 #'s from strippers..and they have told me this as a fact.

its their job to make you feel like you are the hottest guy in the room..

and if they REALLY liked you, they would give you their # the first time..
While I agree with this entirely, my point is there is really nothing to lose by trying (except for the time you spend driving to the club and back).

DO NOT spend any money on her and do not expect anything to happen.

As far as them giving out the number - I'm not so sure about that - I know a lot of places where that is frowned upon.

Oh and for the record - I banged a stripper once :D .
 

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yea there is no harm in giving out your #..but its usually useless

Most strip clubs have a SEVERE penalty for women giving out their #'s

the few #'s I did get..The girl had to sneak it to me secretly so nobody saw

did you know some women pay $100+ to the club..just to dance...then they have to make $100 to break even??

but the hotter ones go home with $800-$2000 on a good night
 

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Man, this bi chic and I used to hit a local strip club and we knew all the stripperz. They will give out the # if they wanna party with you, no bull. It aint even hard. Strippers are the easiest chics to start your mack game with. They are TOTALLY dependent on YOU for their wages. You are the master. I just got a stripper's number this weekend, no joke......

Now meet a stripper on the street, different story....
 

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Hmm...what's the rationale behind clubs penalizing their girls for giving out phone numbers? I'm guessing it's because some women might use their club as a place to hook up prostitution business? :confused:

I got a phone number from a stripper while she was on stage once...it was last call, though.
 

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Ronin I is correct. Some attempt to get hot stirripper poon tang is better then no attempts at getting said poon tang. You owe it to yourself to at least try it. Drop off your number but don't get your hopes up, strippers are testty bunch. I've dated a few strippers here in Vegas and honestly it has NEVER ended well. But they usually know how to ride pole like no other so if your in it for that then you've got nothing to lose.
 

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Thanks for the advice I think I know what to do. I might as well give her the number and roll the dice and see what happens.
 
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