I need help. PLEASE HELP.

[KostaTheGreek]

Im not the most popular kid in highschool. Im in grade 9 and people hate me. I want to know why. Here is what I have done, and maybe someone can help me find out for sure what I am doing wrong.

GOOD POINTS:
1. I get with a lot of girls, they think I am really hot.
2. I have friends, Im just shy around people.
3. I hang out with my cousin on lunch (hes in grade 11).
4. I hang out a lot.
5. I take pictures of myself on facebook and add effects to make it look cool.

OTHER POINTS:
1. I comment "cutie" on a lot of girls pictures, is that bad?
2. I dont really socialize with the "rich kids" because Im nervous and they probably wont like me.
3. I try to be popular, I just , cant, I get called faggot A LOT even though I am not gay. Why?
4. In the summer, I would call my friend every day, he would start to hang up on me randomly after a while, after this, I wasnt being invited to parties or anything any more. And I try to talk to him and everything seems fine, but hes really quiet when Im talking to him around his other friends.


SO WHAT GIVES? I JUST WANT TO HAVE FUN IN HIGHSCHOOL, BUT I CANT HAVE THAT

 

[Ice882]

hahahahah

 

[Sherlock-Holmes]

Hey Kosta,

What will you think, when someone who comments (or chat in fact) alot online, but hardly talk in real life?

That creeps me out dude. A person stalking girls on Facebook, looking at their pictures. That's my initial opinion of you. But you're shy. I get it.

People don't think you're hot, and the greatest mistake is to think they think you are. However, DO NOT LET YOUR CONFIDENCE DOWN. Just don't assume their looking at you all the time.

The only problem is that you're shy. What's there to be afraid of? BE CONFIDENT. You're similiar to everyone else, you dont have a fvcking mole across your whole head.

Don't try to be popular, the more you seek it the more it will drift. You are popular yourself and you know it. And please stop taking too much pictures of yourself. That gives us a feeling of "gayness". Just put 1-5 pictures. That's more then enough.

Cheers.

 

[eaglez1177]

Im not the most popular kid in highschool. Im in grade 9 and people hate me. I want to know why. Here is what I have done, and maybe someone can help me find out for sure what I am doing wrong.

GOOD POINTS:
1. I get with a lot of girls, they think I am really hot.
2. I have friends, Im just shy around people.
3. I hang out with my cousin on lunch (hes in grade 11).
4. I hang out a lot.
5. I take pictures of myself on facebook and add effects to make it look cool.

OTHER POINTS:
1. I comment "cutie" on a lot of girls pictures, is that bad? well this definitely contributes to why some guys may think your gay. "cutie" is a very girly word, which usually only girls use. I mean i RARELY hear guys use the word "cutie" unless theyre completely joking.
2. I dont really socialize with the "rich kids" because Im nervous and they probably wont like me.so what. Stop worrying about what others think of you and just be yourself.
3. I try to be popular, I just , cant, I get called faggot A LOT even though I am not gay. Why? Im going to bet that you have a lot more friends that are girls, socialize mainly with girls, and hang out mainly with girls. im also going to bet that you dont have that many friends that are guys, and usually dont talk to guys that much. This is usually the case when it comes to guys who arent gay yet still get called gay (or called a fruitcake) by all the other guys. To be honest, the easiest way to fix this problem is to stop trying to be something your not (whatever that may be), be yourself, and actually interact with the guys so that they can understand that your not actually gay. Ya know like hang out with them, become friends, etc. Often times guys will associate a guy who hangs out mainly with only girls and barely any guys as that "gay best friend" that all the girls have.
4. In the summer, I would call my friend every day, he would start to hang up on me randomly after a while, after this, I wasnt being invited to parties or anything any more. And I try to talk to him and everything seems fine, but hes really quiet when Im talking to him around his other friends. You need to learn how to take a hint. This dude clearly isnt your friend, and feels embarassed around you probably because he doesnt wanna be seen with the guy that is labeled as being "gay". After he started hanging up and not talkin to you much, you shouldve taken the hint. To make matters worse, you tried to talk it out with him, which you should not have done at all.


SO WHAT GIVES? I JUST WANT TO HAVE FUN IN HIGHSCHOOL, BUT I CANT HAVE THAT

Hope that helps

EDIT: and if any guy gives you sh*t about bein gay, why wouldnt you just reply back that you hooked up with blah blah chick over the weekend and get ass all the time?

 

[Sir Psycho Sexy]

5. I take pictures of myself on facebook and add effects to make it look cool.

Biggest thing that jumped out at me was that. Dont take pictures of yourself and especially dont add effects to make it look cool. lol.....

 

[eaglez1177]

^Yea if you havent noticed, thats another thing that a lot of girls do...i dont think ive ever seen guys do stuff like that

 

[Ice882]

sooo you guys are replying seriously to this.

this guys is subtly trolling, and in a funny way. He's probably laughing his as.s off at this.

 

[eaglez1177]

Nah i dont think its a troll cuz ive got a few kids in my grade who arent gay yet still get made fun of like crazy

 

[Ice882]

he'd have to be SO oblivious to not realize his mistakes, though...

 

[eaglez1177]

Lol trust me man, this is nothing compared to some of the other guys that have come onto these forums