On the weekend I went to some huge prom "after-party" which was situated in a girls's big ass backyard. There was just about everyone from my grade in attendance and also some older guys who came to hit on our girls 
haha. Ofcourse I was having fun so I drank till I was obviously in that state where I'm at the fun confident level of drunkness, but not hunched over puking in the bushes. I don't remember too too much because well I was hammered but this is what happened:
I walked up from where the massive group was and ran into some girls who were also tipsy just talking and such. My good friend's new GF was there and she's fairly hot... (probably an 8). Anyways we were both pretty tanked and we started talking and cracking each other up. Apparently my friend (the boyfriend) was off somewhere else drinking with others, and ya he was pretty pissed too. So there are the usual *******s around us who are getting all touchy feely and acting like idiots after only a couple beers to fit in so I kinda told them to get the f*ck away.
From what I can remember I started talking to this girl X then she was holding my hand and commenting on how warm it was and that she was cold so I was like rubbing her back cuz she was shivering and it was starting to rain a little. We were kinda leaning on each other there for a short while because I dunno.... it felt good and no one else was around. Then some jerk came up and told her that her boyfriend was off cheating on her which wasn't true, he was just trying to see what she'd do. Anyways she got a little emotional and started holding onto me tighter and I'm positive she was just hugging me and at the very very most all we did is kiss once.
So we're just standing beside each other now and my friend comes up and he looks pretty mad cuz obviously he has heard some sh*t and the alkeyhol isn't exactly making him think straight. I can't remember wut exactly he said but it was along the lines of "What the h e l l, why were you hookin up with my girlfriend?" I can't remember but I'm pretty sure I denied that wholeheartedly and went on with the rest of the night. People had told me that he was pissed at me or just pissed drunk but I had a witness, so to speak, who was near me and sober tell him that we didn't do anything and he believed me. I didn't see him for the rest of the night but apparently after believing his girlfriend's story too, him and her made out and it was fine.
Now I expected this to blow over but I talked to her the next day briefly through IM's and she asked me if I remembered what happened and I told her not much (which is true because although I can put some pieces together of what went on, my memory is more than a little foggy). She asked if he made out and I clearly said no and I mean she would have been cool with it either way but I think she knew that we hadn't either.
The next day at school I'm bombarded with "You're such a pimp when you're drunk!" and "how was ___'s girlfriend?" Out of everyone who was there, supposedly only one guy saw us "makin-out" <--- (never happened!!) Obviously I'm feeling like a complete ass because although I wouldn't have minded it if she was single cuz she's good looking and fairly popular but, she was my close friend's girlfriend and that makes both him and I look like idiots. I didn't see my friend too much the other day and he wasn't totally avoiding me or anything but I just got an awkward vibe everytime we were in the same vicinity or whatever. Now we even both apologized briefly through emails for the confusion in general but with all these a$$holes around spreading these rumors and rubbing it in (probably to see if we'll become enemies or whatever....I mean f*ck, "maturity"- I've learned it's just not for everyone) I can see that he is starting to draw his own conclusions and this may be bad news!
So let's sum up what working for me and what is working against me shall we?
For
- my own testimonial saying nothing happened
- his girlfriend's testimonial saying nothing happened
- the fact that we weren't alone for long
- the fact that he knows I'm loyal
Against
- one guys testimonial that he saw us making out
- every guy in my grade jokingly, although nonetheless saying, that we were no doubt making out
- the fact that he thinks I might have had a crush on his gf
Ahh this is a classic case of being in the wrong place at the wrong time and paying for it! I mean basically I don't give a sh*t about all those other people and it will all blow over with them in a week. I need to convince my friend that nothing happened so that he believes me and trusts me and so that this doesn't spoil our friendship over one situation where a girl had her head on my shoulder.
So please if you've been in a similar situation or even if you havn't I need to know what I can do to smooth things out!
P.S. You'd be surprised at how many Don Juan tips you can remember even while under the influence!
haha. Ofcourse I was having fun so I drank till I was obviously in that state where I'm at the fun confident level of drunkness, but not hunched over puking in the bushes. I don't remember too too much because well I was hammered but this is what happened:I walked up from where the massive group was and ran into some girls who were also tipsy just talking and such. My good friend's new GF was there and she's fairly hot... (probably an 8). Anyways we were both pretty tanked and we started talking and cracking each other up. Apparently my friend (the boyfriend) was off somewhere else drinking with others, and ya he was pretty pissed too. So there are the usual *******s around us who are getting all touchy feely and acting like idiots after only a couple beers to fit in so I kinda told them to get the f*ck away.
From what I can remember I started talking to this girl X then she was holding my hand and commenting on how warm it was and that she was cold so I was like rubbing her back cuz she was shivering and it was starting to rain a little. We were kinda leaning on each other there for a short while because I dunno.... it felt good and no one else was around. Then some jerk came up and told her that her boyfriend was off cheating on her which wasn't true, he was just trying to see what she'd do. Anyways she got a little emotional and started holding onto me tighter and I'm positive she was just hugging me and at the very very most all we did is kiss once.
So we're just standing beside each other now and my friend comes up and he looks pretty mad cuz obviously he has heard some sh*t and the alkeyhol isn't exactly making him think straight. I can't remember wut exactly he said but it was along the lines of "What the h e l l, why were you hookin up with my girlfriend?" I can't remember but I'm pretty sure I denied that wholeheartedly and went on with the rest of the night. People had told me that he was pissed at me or just pissed drunk but I had a witness, so to speak, who was near me and sober tell him that we didn't do anything and he believed me. I didn't see him for the rest of the night but apparently after believing his girlfriend's story too, him and her made out and it was fine.
Now I expected this to blow over but I talked to her the next day briefly through IM's and she asked me if I remembered what happened and I told her not much (which is true because although I can put some pieces together of what went on, my memory is more than a little foggy). She asked if he made out and I clearly said no and I mean she would have been cool with it either way but I think she knew that we hadn't either.
The next day at school I'm bombarded with "You're such a pimp when you're drunk!" and "how was ___'s girlfriend?" Out of everyone who was there, supposedly only one guy saw us "makin-out" <--- (never happened!!) Obviously I'm feeling like a complete ass because although I wouldn't have minded it if she was single cuz she's good looking and fairly popular but, she was my close friend's girlfriend and that makes both him and I look like idiots. I didn't see my friend too much the other day and he wasn't totally avoiding me or anything but I just got an awkward vibe everytime we were in the same vicinity or whatever. Now we even both apologized briefly through emails for the confusion in general but with all these a$$holes around spreading these rumors and rubbing it in (probably to see if we'll become enemies or whatever....I mean f*ck, "maturity"- I've learned it's just not for everyone) I can see that he is starting to draw his own conclusions and this may be bad news!
So let's sum up what working for me and what is working against me shall we?
For
- my own testimonial saying nothing happened
- his girlfriend's testimonial saying nothing happened
- the fact that we weren't alone for long
- the fact that he knows I'm loyal
Against
- one guys testimonial that he saw us making out
- every guy in my grade jokingly, although nonetheless saying, that we were no doubt making out
- the fact that he thinks I might have had a crush on his gf
Ahh this is a classic case of being in the wrong place at the wrong time and paying for it! I mean basically I don't give a sh*t about all those other people and it will all blow over with them in a week. I need to convince my friend that nothing happened so that he believes me and trusts me and so that this doesn't spoil our friendship over one situation where a girl had her head on my shoulder.
So please if you've been in a similar situation or even if you havn't I need to know what I can do to smooth things out!
P.S. You'd be surprised at how many Don Juan tips you can remember even while under the influence!