I love You?

[ValleyDJing]

okay...I know this has happened to just about everyone. You're not supposed to say the L word first and you're not supposed to say it as much as the girl. I know thats a basic DJ rule. This has happened to me several times and I'm not quite sure how to react. If a girl says I love you a little too soon, you all know what I mean, what do you say? How do you react?

Don't get me wrong I like these girls...some of them that way, some only as friends. How should react to each type? The ones I like that way, it still seems too soon for them to be saying that and the ones I don't like that way...well I don't like them that way you know? But I don't wanna hurt feelings cause I wanna keep them all as friends. Usually I just pretend like I don't hear em or change the subject real quick but its gonna catch up to me eventually. Especially cause they say it a lot.

 

[Rocko]

i posted on socalseduction, was just wondering if they were saying it in all honesty?

 

[ValleyDJing]

i posted on socalseduction, was just wondering if they were saying it in all honesty?

oh...they meant it! haha! at least a couple of em did. how do I know? she straight up offered to f.uck me! I just want to cuz ehh...she's only like a 6 max prolly more like a 5 so...I kinda got hella bored and horny one night and asked to see her tits and now she thinks you know?

 

[WC2]

All depends bro; if you feel the relationship has gotten serious enough to the point where it should be said then maybe it should. I prefer to use it sparingly, though. Usually when a girl says something like that to me I just give her "I know babe" or a "You can say that again." When I do say it, I like to slip it in when she's least expecting it. A woman wants it to be special. Don't give it a weak I love you either. Look into her eyes, smile and say it.

 

[ValleyDJing]

correction on that last post. I don't wanna f.uck with her! my bad

 

[ValleyDJing]

All depends bro; if you feel the relationship has gotten serious enough to the point where it should be said then maybe it should. I prefer to use it sparingly, though. Usually when a girl says something like that to me I just give her "I know babe" or a "You can say that again." When I do say it, I like to slip it in when she's least expecting it. A woman wants it to be special. Don't give it a weak I love you either. Look into her eyes, smile and say it.

see thats the thing. There's no relationship...I haven't even kissed most of em! and she's like infatuated with me. she's pretty much stalking me through myspace.

 

[WC2]

maybe you should up your standards then