I like older women.

[CommunicationsExpert]

There is this girl that I met on an online dating website. We messaged back and forth for a while. Talked on the phone for a bit. Then I took her to a nice Japanese restaurant followed by a movie. We shared a couple of lip locks during the movie followed by a lip lock with full-frontal hug inititated by her in the parking lot after the movie. She's smoking hot and 48. I'm 25. I want to create in her an urgency to see me and to possibly move some stuff around in her schedule so that she has time for me. She told me when I last saw her after the movie in the parking lot that we'll get together sometime soon and watch a movie at her place. She also said to me that it is natural for her to work on a relationship and not let it wither. How do I create in her a sense of wanting and urgency for her to see me and to carve out time for me in her busy schedule?

 

[Julius_Seizeher]

Quit talking about relationships and "when will I see you again?", just get drunk with her and GET IT ON.

 

[Mr.Positive]

I want to create in her an urgency to see me and to possibly move some stuff around in her schedule so that she has time for me. She told me when I last saw her after the movie in the parking lot that we'll get together sometime soon and watch a movie at her place. She also said to me that it is natural for her to work on a relationship and not let it wither. How do I create in her a sense of wanting and urgency for her to see me and to carve out time for me in her busy schedule?

Why create the urgency? I'd say, be patient. If she's busy, she'll make time for you. You don't need to create any urgency, you just need to take the initiative. It'll happen, a movie at her place to 'relax' is a done deal.

Enjoy her and the time spent, but realize it is not in stone. The best sex I've ever had, was with a gal in her 40's.

If she invites you to her place for a 'movie'. Go. Have fun.

 

[sodbuster]

Look, I'm almost 51. Had sex a couple thousand times. At 48 she HAS no sense of urgency-and won't develop any. You are going to be her play-toy,just dont think you are calling any shots in this game. When she's horny and wants you,she'll come up with a reason for you to be with her in private.THEN you can go for it. Until then, the games that may work with younger women won't. BUT the games younger women play,will happen[they never quit]

 

[jophil28]

Look, I'm almost 51. Had sex a couple thousand times. At 48 she HAS no sense of urgency-and won't develop any. You are going to be her play-toy,just dont think you are calling any shots in this game. When she's horny and wants you,she'll come up with a reason for you to be with her in private.THEN you can go for it. Until then, the games that may work with younger women won't. BUT the games younger women play,will happen[they never quit]

True.
One reason why she has no urgency to commit or be committed to you is because she has had her children long ago - she has no ticking bio-clock.
A 48 year oild woman knows how to make dating work to HER benefit. She has figured out what works and what does not long ago.
You may read all about how older women have no market value and therefore are easy to snare. Not so. Women of her age know exactly how to survive with or without a guy. You will be her distraction and her playmate and you will be jumping though her hoops before you know it .
No 25 year old guy has acquired enough game to be more that a FB for a cougar like this woman.
Just go with the flow on this and enjoy the ride because it may not last very long after she meets a cool 50 year old guy with similar circumstances and values to her's, a superior intellect and considerable "resources".

 

[the305]

you drive up the urgency for her wanting to see you buy NOT asking when the next time she is available. Keep the conversations fun and throw in a few slightly sexual tidbits, play a little hard to get, but dont go overboard so you come off like a douchebag

 

[Zarky]

-> Date other women in addition to her <-

 

[CommunicationsExpert]

All,

Thanks for the feedback.

The advice I'm going to go with is "you drive up the urgency for her wanting to see you buy NOT asking when the next time she is available. Keep the conversations fun and throw in a few slightly sexual tidbits, play a little hard to get, but dont go overboard so you come off like a douchebag".

 

[COD]

WHY DONT U DATE WITHIN YOUR AGE RANGE.............she may be hot now, but dude you're 25. Bang her, and move on..........for every 48 year old hottie..........THERE ARE LIKE A BAZILLION 20 something HOTTER CHICS.

U are the prize NOT HER...........your age is a golden ticket that acts like a backstage pass..............the whole cougar craze is soooooooo over-rated.

U DONT NEED ADVICE............SHE ALREADY INVITED YOU OVER TO WATCH A MOVIE............if U actually watch a movie you should be biatch slapped.
This is a sure thing..........its almost like she is naked, lying on her back with her legs spread and up in the air............and you are asking how to proceed.

RECAP-cougars desire cubs.............U are the cub, you can do no wrong.........sit back and wait to be devoured............then for CHRIST sake...........MOVE ON AND GET a 20 something