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Aviator92

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She is a waitress and i met her in the restaurant she works in a week ago. The restaurant needs you to order your own food and pay in the counter by yourself before having the food served. (I didnt notice the tips jar and the fact that service charged was not included, i paid by card and didn't give any tips. She knew that) She was taking my order and we started talking after I said sth really stupid (not harmful). The talk was good imo and she even told me a story base on what I said.

I ended the convo and went back to the seat. I was with a female friend and we had fun. During my time with my friend I saw the waitress looked at me so I looked back, we even gazed for a little while. When I left, she smiled and waved me goodbye so I smiled back and gave her a subtle thumbs up.

Few days later I went back alone, she wasn't there. I wrote my number on a piece of paper and ask her fellow worker to give it to her in person. Havn't received anything in few days so I thought it was dead, but she texted on about the 5th day. She said something eye-opening which is relevant to what we talked about in the restaurant and said she wish she was there when I went back last time.

The thing is I gotta go back to my original city (about few hundread km apart) soon so I texted back few days later saying
" I am impressed. :) hey let's get to the point (her name), I am going back soon (i told her that i am in vacation while we talked), why don't we come out and have fun?"

She txt back saying let's do it tonight (with few exclaimation mark followed) and suggested a time and location. Few hours later I said okay with a smiley face. The twist was about 20 mins later she suggested a different time at tomorrow with same location and asked me what would I say about it. I said no tonight is the only chance. She didnt replied so i texted her an hour later saying don't worry, maybe some other time. She then said sorry claiming she really cant tonight.

Well my other plans have changed and my spot for tomorrow has been free up. So I texted her saying "Well looks like u got urself a 2nd chance :D still ok for tomo?" So far, heard nothing yet. I am going back to my city soon and wont be back anytime soon, what do you guys have to say? Truly appreciated it man. Truly.
 

Desdinova

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It surprisingly seems like you're doing alright, but I may pick out a few things to point out for the near future...

Aviator92 said:
Few days later I went back alone, she wasn't there. I wrote my number on a piece of paper and ask her fellow worker to give it to her in person.
The best way to work with the number is to get hers. You should have requested it the day she was in there. Generally, this method of making contact with a woman does not work. Women are much more responsive when you ask in person. Nevertheless, you've beaten the odds with this one.

Well my other plans have changed and my spot for tomorrow has been free up. So I texted her saying "Well looks like u got urself a 2nd chance :D still ok for tomo?" So far, heard nothing yet. I am going back to my city soon and wont be back anytime soon, what do you guys have to say? Truly appreciated it man. Truly.
What is there to say? Wait for her response. If you don't get one, then it's finished.
 

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Desdinova said:
What is there to say? Wait for her response. If you don't get one, then it's finished.
pretty much this.
 
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