alright, i may catch a lot of sh1t for this, but its worth a shot. you guys occasionally offer up some good advice 
so lets go back in time. lets start with a young JJ's first day in kindergarten. He's on the path to being a stud, but he doesnt quite know it yet. at this point, he's a little chunky, and kinda dorky.
but it doesnt matter. he sees a girl who he likes (a horny little 6 year old he was) and begins his interaction with her. they laugh, joke, play tag on the playground, and generally be kids together. they continue this path, through 5th grade or so. eventually the still clumsy, slightly socially awkward JJ decides that since he's been carrying a flame for this girl for the last 5 years or so, he should make an honest woman of her and ask her out.
alas, he has yet to find sosuave. and he is in the dark about how to do it.
he realizes he has a friend who is also attracted to this girl. this friend is a little ballsier, but a LOT fatter. so JJ isnt worried. he figures "alright, i'll let him have his shot first."
the friend comes back to JJ noticeably upset. he tells JJ that he asked the girl out, and she said no. So in reaction, he relates the story of him asking her "well then what about JJ? will you go out with him?"
JJ waits anxiously for his answer.
"she said no."
JJ is crushed. he has spent years planning out hangout sessions with this girl, always wanting to do nothing but love her, in the best sense that an eleven year old can. he goes home, and his mother even asks what the problem is that would make him mope around the house like in such a way.
he figures alright, as there's other girls around, most notably, the first girl in his grade to grow breasts, and she's totally interested in him.
they are "boyfriend and girlfriend" in 6th grade. he has his first kiss. he gets cheated on for the first time. (not really sex. just acting like she was two guys gf's at the same time, lol. it sure hurt a lot more back then)
JJ continues his friendship with the original girl, and has always had feelings for her deep in the recesses of his mind. just as their rapport is beginning to develop again in 8th grade, she gets a boyfriend in high school. They appear to be madly in love and nearly inseparable.
JJ is back to being without her. He does not despair. By the time high school rolls around, he has found Sosuave. he knows what to do to get girls interested in him. he meets and seduces "one of the hottest girls in [our] grade," and proceeds to learn how to make out with her, and also gets cheated on for the second (first real) time.
at this point, he has begun to diverge from the first girl's group of friends. he goes through the full high school experience, enjoying girls here and there, a relationship every now and then, nothing too serious as he learns the rules of the game. by this time, he has turned into a 6'4" walking example of good looks and confidence. he does well in school and makes it into a large university, where a large portion of his graduating class is also attending.
his first love interest is, without meaning much to JJ, also attending that university.
throughout his life, JJ has taken a special interest in psychology of alpha traits, and their effects on women. He has tried to perfect his amount of ****y and funny remarks, without going over the line to looking like a d1ck who was legitimately BEING ****y. several times, he has been called on it in fact.
JJ goes through his first year of college pretty inconsequentially. he makes some friends, has a girlfriend for a little while, hooks up here and there. basically things are going fairly well for him in the female scope.
he returns for his second year after having a lot of conversations and accidental run-ins with his original girl during the summer previous.
they havent been there long when he and she end up at an apartment party where the alcohol is flowing. she is good friends again with his same social circle. at this party, she continually is talking to JJs roommate about JJ, saying things like "he's very attractive, but he's kinda a ****y jerk to me sometimes..."
the night unfolds, and JJ finally grabs ahold of his balls and kisses her.
she reacts well, kisses back, and JJ can hardly believe what's happening. he hasnt enjoyed a makeout this much since his first one ever.
she pulls away and makes a noise like "oh my gosh i really want him..."
she begins to say things like "you've never looked at me like this..." blah blah blah
she texts him the next day and apologizes for the entire night, saying she "doesnt do drunk makeouts."
he wants to believe she is different, that she is in the tiny minority that is what embodies a "quality woman." he wants to confess to her how he has felt for nearly three quarters of his life.
but he doesnt. he holds his tongue. he responds to the text with a laid back text saying he thinks the girl is cool, and that he wouldnt mind having some more nights with her.
she has had 2-3 long term relationships, with dudes nowhere near her attractiveness level, saying she liked them because they were nice.
should i let my inner niceness show some? or should i try to be my normal self. i know my game works... to an extent. i know it works on fairly low self esteem girls, and she is not one of those. so if you took the time to read this and want to offer advice, please do. I can't think of a time i've wanted help more than now. Thanks in advance.
so lets go back in time. lets start with a young JJ's first day in kindergarten. He's on the path to being a stud, but he doesnt quite know it yet. at this point, he's a little chunky, and kinda dorky.
but it doesnt matter. he sees a girl who he likes (a horny little 6 year old he was) and begins his interaction with her. they laugh, joke, play tag on the playground, and generally be kids together. they continue this path, through 5th grade or so. eventually the still clumsy, slightly socially awkward JJ decides that since he's been carrying a flame for this girl for the last 5 years or so, he should make an honest woman of her and ask her out.
alas, he has yet to find sosuave. and he is in the dark about how to do it.
he realizes he has a friend who is also attracted to this girl. this friend is a little ballsier, but a LOT fatter. so JJ isnt worried. he figures "alright, i'll let him have his shot first."
the friend comes back to JJ noticeably upset. he tells JJ that he asked the girl out, and she said no. So in reaction, he relates the story of him asking her "well then what about JJ? will you go out with him?"
JJ waits anxiously for his answer.
"she said no."
JJ is crushed. he has spent years planning out hangout sessions with this girl, always wanting to do nothing but love her, in the best sense that an eleven year old can. he goes home, and his mother even asks what the problem is that would make him mope around the house like in such a way.
he figures alright, as there's other girls around, most notably, the first girl in his grade to grow breasts, and she's totally interested in him.
they are "boyfriend and girlfriend" in 6th grade. he has his first kiss. he gets cheated on for the first time. (not really sex. just acting like she was two guys gf's at the same time, lol. it sure hurt a lot more back then
) JJ continues his friendship with the original girl, and has always had feelings for her deep in the recesses of his mind. just as their rapport is beginning to develop again in 8th grade, she gets a boyfriend in high school. They appear to be madly in love and nearly inseparable.
JJ is back to being without her. He does not despair. By the time high school rolls around, he has found Sosuave. he knows what to do to get girls interested in him. he meets and seduces "one of the hottest girls in [our] grade," and proceeds to learn how to make out with her, and also gets cheated on for the second (first real) time.
at this point, he has begun to diverge from the first girl's group of friends. he goes through the full high school experience, enjoying girls here and there, a relationship every now and then, nothing too serious as he learns the rules of the game. by this time, he has turned into a 6'4" walking example of good looks and confidence. he does well in school and makes it into a large university, where a large portion of his graduating class is also attending.
his first love interest is, without meaning much to JJ, also attending that university.
throughout his life, JJ has taken a special interest in psychology of alpha traits, and their effects on women. He has tried to perfect his amount of ****y and funny remarks, without going over the line to looking like a d1ck who was legitimately BEING ****y. several times, he has been called on it in fact.
JJ goes through his first year of college pretty inconsequentially. he makes some friends, has a girlfriend for a little while, hooks up here and there. basically things are going fairly well for him in the female scope.
he returns for his second year after having a lot of conversations and accidental run-ins with his original girl during the summer previous.
they havent been there long when he and she end up at an apartment party where the alcohol is flowing. she is good friends again with his same social circle. at this party, she continually is talking to JJs roommate about JJ, saying things like "he's very attractive, but he's kinda a ****y jerk to me sometimes..."
the night unfolds, and JJ finally grabs ahold of his balls and kisses her.
she reacts well, kisses back, and JJ can hardly believe what's happening. he hasnt enjoyed a makeout this much since his first one ever.
she pulls away and makes a noise like "oh my gosh i really want him..."
she begins to say things like "you've never looked at me like this..." blah blah blah
she texts him the next day and apologizes for the entire night, saying she "doesnt do drunk makeouts."
he wants to believe she is different, that she is in the tiny minority that is what embodies a "quality woman." he wants to confess to her how he has felt for nearly three quarters of his life.
but he doesnt. he holds his tongue. he responds to the text with a laid back text saying he thinks the girl is cool, and that he wouldnt mind having some more nights with her.
she has had 2-3 long term relationships, with dudes nowhere near her attractiveness level, saying she liked them because they were nice.
should i let my inner niceness show some? or should i try to be my normal self. i know my game works... to an extent. i know it works on fairly low self esteem girls, and she is not one of those. so if you took the time to read this and want to offer advice, please do. I can't think of a time i've wanted help more than now. Thanks in advance.
