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I know my girlfriend's email password...

P_Dawg_Jalapeno

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She had it written down at her house in plain sight, right next to her computer, on her livingroom table. She didn't even think about it. She's kind of a doofus like that. I'm so fvcking tempted to snoop right now it's not even funny. I don't really have any reason to think she's cheated or has been cheating. I'm so fvcking curious though... and I know for a fact (because this is how things like this work) that if I snoop I'll end up misinterpreting something platonic, and I won't be able to mention it because I've snooped, and it will eat me up.

Please brothers give me strength...
 

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I've been in that situation. She actually needed me to look something up for her and GAVE it to me. I was so tempted to come back later and snoop but thankfully I put it out of my mind for a few hours first and forgot it.

lol

You're right though. If she hasn't given you reason, don't. No good can come of it.
 

Cinamon

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prairiedog24 said:
I've been in that situation. She actually needed me to look something up for her and GAVE it to me. I was so tempted to come back later and snoop but thankfully I put it out of my mind for a few hours first and forgot it.

lol

You're right though. If she hasn't given you reason, don't. No good can come of it.
this makes sense
 

sodbuster

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Just save it-don't use it.knowledge is power-do you need the power?As long as the relationship is good-no good will come from it. IF the relationship starts going bad,then you can check up on her to see if she's got some on the side[or you drop her without checking-like a self respecting man would].

It sounds like she isn't the one anyway-you've already said she's such a dufus like that.
 

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Look at her email. I would in a second. I've done it with 2 girls and found out both times she was lying about stuff.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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P_Dawg_Jalapeno said:
She had it written down at her house in plain sight, right next to her computer, on her livingroom table. She didn't even think about it. She's kind of a doofus like that. I'm so fvcking tempted to snoop right now it's not even funny. I don't really have any reason to think she's cheated or has been cheating. I'm so fvcking curious though... and I know for a fact (because this is how things like this work) that if I snoop I'll end up misinterpreting something platonic, and I won't be able to mention it because I've snooped, and it will eat me up.

Please brothers give me strength...

you sound mature....

tell me, why do you even have a girlfriend?

Why are you committing to only one piece of azz?

You truly sound like someone who has no idea how to handle a real relationship, so why the hell are you in this useless relationship?
 

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when i was 16, i read my gf diary. i had suspected she was cheating and she was. i went crazy and wrote in her diary and called her a lying ***** and stuff like that. she saw what i wrote and felt like ****, i had her begging at my feet for weeks to take her back. i didnt care coz i was cheating on her too, so it didnt matter. you should read her email, who cares. see what she is up to.
 

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Just look at the damn emails and stop posting about it. Just get it over with.
 

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strey said:
when i was 16, i read my gf diary. i had suspected she was cheating and she was. i went crazy and wrote in her diary and called her a lying ***** and stuff like that. she saw what i wrote and felt like ****, i had her begging at my feet for weeks to take her back. i didnt care coz i was cheating on her too, so it didnt matter. you should read her email, who cares. see what she is up to.
Obviously you did care.
 

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yea dude i would look. if you want to look do it. i think its fairly hard to misinterpret
 

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Unless you have strong suspicions based on at least some evidence of her cheating, then you should NOT go into her email acct.

Some of the advice that you have been given here is just plain girly - you are the man in this relationship. It is your job to set the ethics and the rules of engagement. You do that by leading with examples of your own behavior..

Unfounded snooping is what would be advised over at Loveshack by those harpies who would justify it with some of their upside down logic .
 

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Rescue Mission said:
you sound mature....

tell me, why do you even have a girlfriend?

Why are you committing to only one piece of azz?

You truly sound like someone who has no idea how to handle a real relationship, so why the hell are you in this useless relationship?
Not all of us are Doc Love experts when it comes to maintaining a healthy relationship. That's why he's ASKING about it, dumba$$. Jesus Christ, add something constructive instead of destructive will you?

I'm with Jo. There's no reason to do it. Your own insecurities are going to eat at you and find reasons to snoop. You might use one little thing she does as an excuse to go through her e-mail. Insecurities can fester like a cancer. Think with your head. If there's no good reason to think she's cheating I wouldn't recommend being a snoop. Don't do it!
 

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this is my last post.

YOURE ALL A BUNCH OF DRAMA QUEENS.....
 

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ThunderMaverick said:
Not all of us are Doc Love experts when it comes to maintaining a healthy relationship. That's why he's ASKING about it, dumba$$. Jesus Christ, add something constructive instead of destructive will you?

I'm with Jo. There's no reason to do it. Your own insecurities are going to eat at you and find reasons to snoop. You might use one little thing she does as an excuse to go through her e-mail. Insecurities can fester like a cancer. Think with your head. If there's no good reason to think she's cheating I wouldn't recommend being a snoop. Don't do it!

He's made a thread about this girl before, I think he does have reasons to suspect... there's were other dude's in her chat.
 
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ThunderMaverick said:
Not all of us are Doc Love experts when it comes to maintaining a healthy relationship. That's why he's ASKING about it, dumba$$. Jesus Christ, add something constructive instead of destructive will you?

I'm with Jo. There's no reason to do it. Your own insecurities are going to eat at you and find reasons to snoop. You might use one little thing she does as an excuse to go through her e-mail. Insecurities can fester like a cancer. Think with your head. If there's no good reason to think she's cheating I wouldn't recommend being a snoop. Don't do it!

Ok, here is some good advice for the original poster:

bang as many girls as possible, and don't you DARE think about having a serious relationship with any girl in the near future..........too immature, need to get many more notches in your belt first!
 

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jophil28 said:
Unfounded snooping is what would be advised over at Loveshack by those harpies who would justify it with some of their upside down logic .
JoPhil and Rescue Mission have it right.

If you had more than one girl, you would give a RATS ASSS about that email password. You'd shrug it off.

And yeah, Loveshack. I agree.

Combine what Jo said with what Rescue Mission said and this thread would cease to exist.
 
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