If your struggling with making convo, I strongly suggest you get better at talking to everyone. I've been doing it lately, and it works great if you make convo that goes into deeper detail than "how are you today?" "Had a nice sleep?" etc. Try to use what they give you, and turn that into value you can return. If she tells me "I did some snowboarding" I'll tell her what I think about the topic(positive replies guys) and tell a story or joke or whatever, and delve into the topic. When did she start? Was she happy doing it? Talk about experiences and make it fun. (Talk using emotions. "I LOVED doing that" or "I got the biggest smile ever that day" etc. Women are emotional creatures. If you understand women and emotions and convey it to her, You're golden)
I hope your catching the point?
Have fun with interactions, do what YOU want. she's a human like you. Have fun and connect with her/him.
Everyone will love you for it. That's the dude everyone likes.
Class dismissed. Go and take ACTION.
Apoco