I met this girl online 2 months ago and she asked me whether I had a Facebook account. I added her as a friend and have been banging her for a few weeks. I just logged into Facebook and was surprised to see that she added a life event saying that we are in a relationship. I have plates on facebook that I need to spin and most likely when they see this message, it will scare them away. How should I ask this girl to remove the message without breaking her heart or sounding rude....help