I heard a guy get publicly humiliated by his SO the other day

[CornbreadFed]

So, I'm at a restaurant chilling when this pregnant FOB Asian woman on the phone seats herself at the table next to me. The tables are close together, so I can easily hear her conversation. Based on what I’m hearing, it sounds like she’s giving ordering instructions to someone waiting in line at the restaurant. She sounds pretty snarky on the phone, saying things like, “You know what I f***ing want because I order the same thing every time,” and so on.

Eventually, the person she was talking to comes to her table, and it turns out to be her husband because she refers to him as “honey.” However, this guy forgot to order an item, and she completely loses it in front of him. She tells him that he’s a f*ing idiot and orders him to get his sorry dumb a back in line to get what she specifically requested. He just says, “Sorry, babe,” and does what he’s told.

The worst part? This guy was a younger, 6'4", blonde, V-framed, Chad-looking dude, while the woman looked older, FOB Asian, overweight (you could tell from her face), and had bad English.

This is where we are at you guys, but hey go ahead and tell me that my prediction for the average male is negative and completely wrong.

 

[SW15]

The worst part? This guy was a younger, 6'4", blonde, V-framed, Chad-looking dude, while the woman looked older, FOB Asian, overweight (you could tell from her face), and had bad English.

This is where we are at you guys, but hey go ahead and tell me that my prediction for the average male is negative and completely wrong.

The average males (if single) are sexless or go through extended sexual droughts between partners. Average tier men will settle for whatever just to have sex.

In this case, the more average tier men have a good situation not dealing with that woman.

I have no idea why a clearly above average male is settling for a mediocre to subpar woman. Why isn't that guy on Tinder/Bumble/Hinge smashing at least cute range White women?

Some of this woman's behavior is a function of being pregnant and the hormonal stuff. That's not enough to excuse her overall demeanor.

 

[Sophisticator]

So some guy with no self-respect or self-esteem allows a woman to dress him down in public.
And now:

This is where we are at you guys, but hey go ahead and tell me that my prediction for the average male is negative and completely wrong.

Are you implying that the average man where you are allows this much disrespect? Were the other women in the restaurant dressing down their dates? How often do you see women dressing down their dates/SOs in public? Do you identify with these men? If so, why? Do you often get treated with disrespect by your dates?

 

[Bokanovsky]

So some guy with no self-respect or self-esteem allows a woman to dress him down in public.
And now:

Are you implying that the average man where you are allows this much disrespect? Were the other women in the restaurant dressing down their dates? How often do you see women dressing down their dates/SOs in public? Do you identify with these men? If so, why? Do you often get treated with disrespect by your dates?

I see that you're new to this forum. FYI, you are responding to a guy who thinks that getting a job as a dishwasher at a restaurant is the golden ticket to getting laid with a large number of hot women. No, I'm not joking.

 

[BPH]

Simps and betas exist.

I also heard that water is wet, and that the floor is made of floor.

 

[CornbreadFed]

I see that you're new to this forum. FYI, you are responding to a guy who thinks that getting a job as a dishwasher at a restaurant is the golden ticket to getting laid with a large number of hot women. No, I'm not joking.

This guy didn't have any friends growing up because he was the biggest sore loser on the planet.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Almost every couple I see in public has this dynamic: the woman is overtly disrespectful, combatative, disagreeable, with a rude or even cruel tone when talking to her man. I shudder to think how she treats him when they're behind closed doors. Modern men are completely spineless.

 

[Sophisticator]

I see that you're new to this forum. FYI, you are responding to a guy who thinks that getting a job as a dishwasher at a restaurant is the golden ticket to getting laid with a large number of hot women. No, I'm not joking.

This guy didn't have any friends growing up because he was the biggest sore loser on the planet.

You two should start a double act.

 

[Sophisticator]

Almost every couple I see in public has this dynamic: the woman is overtly disrespectful, combatative, disagreeable, with a rude or even cruel tone when talking to her man. I shudder to think how she treats him when they're behind closed doors. Modern men are completely spineless.

I believe these henpecked husbands existed for a long time, at least since the fifties.

So it's not exactly modern men, it's just that with the population growth, the same percentage of submissive men is now a larger number.

It's also a cultural thing. You're talking about the US. I don't see this power imbalance in couple dynamics in Europe or Asia and definitely not as much in Africa.

I think a large part of this spinelessness has to do with growing up without proper masculine role models.

 

[sevbucmash]

dishwasher at a restaurant

Just remember Antonio Montana and Monola Ribera. Time will come.

 

[sevbucmash]

Those pregnant women could want pickles with honey in the middle of the night, you never know. She has his kid. He is so happy.

 

[sevbucmash]

FOB

You have to realize life exists outside of United States.

People immigrating to United States, often come from higher status, higher more technical jobs.

Here you are, thrown into life of an immirant, where you have to settle for less and work your ass off to achieve some kind of success. American people are having problems paying rent and affording a life, imagine an immigrant.

Reframe this situation. Picture a couple immigrating to United States, dreaming of greatness, and then thrown face first into reality. Woman is throwing tantrums, because she wanted more. They come to a restaurant (by the way I can't fanthom a restaurant where you self serv yourself) to just try to calm down.

 

[CornbreadFed]

You have to realize life exists outside of United States.

People immigrating to United States, often come from higher status, higher more technical jobs.

Here you are, thrown into life of an immirant, where you have to settle for less and work your ass off to achieve some kind of success. American people are having problems paying rent and affording a life, imagine an immigrant.

Reframe this situation. Picture a couple immigrating to United States, dreaming of greatness, and then thrown face first into reality. Woman is throwing tantrums, because she wanted more. They come to a restaurant (by the way I can't fanthom a restaurant where you self serv yourself) to just try to calm down.

The restaurant was expensive, she looked white collar, but her English wasn't her best, the husband was a young American white guy.

 

[Sophisticator]

The restaurant was expensive, she looked white collar, but her English wasn't her best, the husband was a young American white guy.

Expensive restaurants have waiters.

The restaurant you describe:

So, I'm at a restaurant chilling when this pregnant FOB Asian woman on the phone seats herself at the table next to me. The tables are close together, so I can easily hear her conversation. Based on what I’m hearing, it sounds like she’s giving ordering instructions to someone waiting in line at the restaurant. She sounds pretty snarky on the phone, saying things like, “You know what I f***ing want because I order the same thing every time,” and so on.

Eventually, the person she was talking to comes to her table, and it turns out to be her husband because she refers to him as “honey.” However, this guy forgot to order an item, and she completely loses it in front of him. She tells him that he’s a f*ing idiot and orders him to get his sorry dumb a back in line to get what she specifically requested. He just says, “Sorry, babe,” and does what he’s told.

sounds like a buffet-style restaurant, like a McDonalds.

Maybe your restaurant is an expensive buffet style restaurant, but at a regular restaurant, a waiter/maitre d' takes you to your table, where you order your food with the waiter and a waiter will deliver it to your table.

 

[sevbucmash]

like a McDonalds

Old schol diner comes to mind.

 

[sevbucmash]

the husband was a young American

Maybe he ordered her online, and she was pissed he lives with his parents?

 

[Sophisticator]

Low class businesses attract low class clientele.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Expensive restaurants have waiters.

The restaurant you describe:

sounds like a buffet-style restaurant, like a McDonalds.

Maybe your restaurant is an expensive buffet style restaurant, but at a regular restaurant, a waiter/maitre d' takes you to your table, where you order your food with the waiter and a waiter will deliver it to your table.

1). I would rather kill myself then step a fvcking foot in a buffet. I haven't been to one since I was a kid with my grandparents, and I plan on keeping it that way.

2). I think you need start exploring more restaurants preferably ones not favored by baby boomers. Get outside your comfort zone for once.

 

[Sophisticator]

1). I would rather kill myself then step a fvcking foot in a buffet

Yet here you are, talking about an 'expensive restaurant' where you have to stand in line to order food.

2). I think you need start exploring more restaurants preferably ones not favored by baby boomers. Get outside your comfort zone for once.

You don't know who I am, but you think I lack experience going to restaurants. I think you should not try to give advice from your limited restaurant experience.

 

[sevbucmash]

Eh boys. None of you been to a real restaurant. Real restaurant looks like this



What you visited is just a regular business, among the same row as other businesses. Last time you had a real restaurant in the United States was during 80s. Where the Scar Face was filmed. It has a name, I forgot it. It is now a park.

Idea is that building is made for a restaurant. No. You are not renting a space and calling it a restaurant. You build a building for a restaurant.

Back then for a ruble you could have sandwitch with black caviar and 1 ruble was 2 U.S. dollars. Now boys, you have to search for real black caviar and it won't cost you 2 bucks.