I haven't gotten laid in about a year and a half - starting to really crave it

[bigdave17]

The problem for me, I want to have a relationship so badly, that when I see a decent girl who is not relationship material (too old, single mom, mediocre body, not cute enough, too pale, etc...) - I completely lose all interest. I don't think I could even put in a decent effort just to get laid with one of those women even if I tried.


I honestly dunno what to do. I'm so stuck in my comfort zone of work, working out, hanging out with my friends. hanging out with family. I don't meet women in my natural daily routine, I can't do online dating because I look like dog crap in pictures and I'm so far stuck in my comfort zone that random cold approaches are incredibly daunting (unless they give me signs of interest before hand, which seems to be happening less and less even as I seem to be getting in better shape and better looking as I get older)


I feel like a rat caught in a wheel

 

[mrgoodstuff]

So after all the information you've taken in every thing you've observed what do you think you need to do? So you've slipped to a sex problem. Not even relationship. You need to correct that.

 

[bigdave17]

So after all the information you've taken in every thing you've observed what do you think you need to do? So you've slipped to a sex problem. Not even relationship. You need to correct that.

reread what I said carefully'

"The problem for me, I want to have a relationship so badly, that when I see a decent girl who is not relationship material (too old, single mom, mediocre body, not cute enough, too pale, etc...) - I completely lose all interest. I don't think I could even put in a decent effort just to get laid with one of those women even if I tried. "

truth be told, I'm not even getting that anymore. I haven't had any natural dating opportunities/women approaching me in multiple weeks now. I've never been better looking, more successful, better dressed or leaner/more muscular in my life than I am right now

 

[mrgoodstuff]

But you couldn't get pvzzy if your life depended upon it.

 

[Spaz]

I'd fvck anything that's not; ugly, a land whale and a retard.

And of utmost importance; it must be tight, everything else is secondary excluded the above.

 

[bigdave17]

I'd fvck anything that's not; ugly, a land whale and a retard.

And of utmost importance; it must be tight, everything else is secondary excluded the above.

I'd **** anything that looks like this

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I'd **** anything that looks like this

You'd drown in all that puzzy and be spit out a whole and sexually attractive male. It don't take a fine puzzy to do that for you. A focused and dedicated puzzy will shine you right up.

 

[Poonani Maker]

I haven't been laid in 2 weeks as of Tuesday, and I'm not craving it, per se, just wondering why a b!tch has just gone missing. I mean no one I know knows where she is. I've been no contact for 3 weeks with her. Maybe she tired of waiting and went out of town or is went WGTOW and is trying to further her real estate career. The one I fvcked 2 weeks ago, I could probably fvck again this week if she weren't so ugly and my age (no as5).

OLD is a no-go for now. I don't understand why they simply don't respond or putter out or just seem perfectly fine. I changed my profile, maybe I should change it back.

Edit: I'm gonna revamp my pictures. I noticed that my DRESS in almost ALL photos is unacceptable, make me look like I don't care or am "outdated." I can see the dress as being off-putting now. Used to never see the wrong tee-shirt underneath another shirt - should just go bare-chested. Other things are unacceptable. Need to revamp my look. No more sloppy dress. I have the money to look slick. It's time I search out the best wear for ME. Will probably increase my pvssy-draw 10-fold if I make this concerted effort to get a whole new wardrobe. Sloppiness is noticed by girls with any half a wit.

 

[R.U.G.]

The problem for me, I want to have a relationship so badly, that when I see a decent girl who is not relationship material (too old, single mom, mediocre body, not cute enough, too pale, etc...) - I completely lose all interest. I don't think I could even put in a decent effort just to get laid with one of those women even if I tried.

I feel like a rat caught in a wheel

Dave, you sound like a woman with a list with unrealistic goals.

This is the female version of you:

Your "list"
Too old - depends. If she keeps her body in shape, she can be used for practice. Remember, women get something out of sex too
Single mom - Again, could be used for practice.
mediocre body, not cute enough, too pale, etc...

A year and a half is a long time for no puss; especially at your age. Foolish. But since you apparently don't like sex that much, you can stay a volcel for as long as you wish. In the end, you will find it even harder to get some pus. Again, foolish.

 

[bigdave17]

Dave, you sound like a woman with a list with unrealistic goals.

This is the female version of you:

Your "list"
Too old - depends. If she keeps her body in shape, she can be used for practice. Remember, women get something out of sex too
Single mom - Again, could be used for practice.
mediocre body, not cute enough, too pale, etc...

A year and a half is a long time for no puss; especially at your age. Foolish. But since you apparently don't like sex that much, you can stay a volcel for as long as you wish. In the end, you will find it even harder to get some pus. Again, foolish.

unrealistic goals is any man who wants the female equivalent of himself nowadays I suppose

I'm a 7/10 ethnic dude with a good job, no kids, intelligent and well spoken, in great shape. I just want the female equivalent of myself

 

[mrgoodstuff]

unrealistic goals is any man who wants the female equivalent of himself nowadays I suppose

I'm a 7/10 ethnic dude with a good job, no kids, intelligent and well spoken, in great shape. I just want the female equivalent of myself

That's gotten you laid alot huh? When you do the needful you will be able to pick and choose from your female "equivilent".

 

[Spaz]

unrealistic goals is any man who wants the female equivalent of himself nowadays I suppose

I'm a 7/10 ethnic dude with a good job, no kids, intelligent and well spoken, in great shape. I just want the female equivalent of myself

As u r now, i rate u an overall 3.7 and that's being generous.

Remove some of that mama boy act, you'll get a 4.7

Being marginally manly, you'll get 5.7 point.

Further improvement on ur confidance, walk, pose, smile, eye contact, you might be considered a 6.5-7.0 at the max.

 

[jaymbrs]

I can relate to what you're going through, OP. Ever since I moved to a new city, I decided to put extra focus on myself ergo job, health, friendships, etc. It became a cycle and I noticed my desire for women decreasing. I lost 15 lbs, got a promotion, and made some friends. I will say that if you're not improving in the areas that you're focusing in, you're wasting your time. I've reached a point where I'm just about satisfied for the time being so I've altered my routing slightly so that I'm able to go out and mingle.

 

[Ranger]

I'd fvck anything that's not; ugly, a land whale and a retard.

And of utmost importance; it must be tight, everything else is secondary excluded the above.

Absolutely.

 

[bigdave17]

I can relate to what you're going through, OP. Ever since I moved to a new city, I decided to put extra focus on myself ergo job, health, friendships, etc. It became a cycle and I noticed my desire for women decreasing. I lost 15 lbs, got a promotion, and made some friends. I will say that if you're not improving in the areas that you're focusing in, you're wasting your time. I've reached a point where I'm just about satisfied for the time being so I've altered my routing slightly so that I'm able to go out and mingle.

I'm an obsessive perfectionist in all areas of my life

yes I've made big improvements. I'm better looking, more fit, more successful than any point in my life

 

[Ranger]

I'm an obsessive perfectionist in all areas of my life

yes I've made big improvements. I'm better looking, more fit, more successful than any point in my life

So this are handled. I’m no expert as I spent most of my life in a different reality. But it seems that you are not internally set. Everything that is frustrating you is showing up in your vibe and body language.
I think that’s what Spaz and the others are talking about. Your beliefs are still blue pill mangina oriented.

 

[sazc]

Dave man, if there's one thing I do know, it's that you're going to have to figure this shiz out ON YOUR OWN.

You legit ignore every effective piece of wisdom that is given to you in here. Sometime says something and you immediately discount it by deflecting.

You've stated what your real issues are. You know what your issues are. You are completely AWARE what your issues are. It's time for you to handle them. MAN UP, take control, figure this shiz out, and have a better life. You can do it.

Step one is stop wallowing in being a victim.

Step two, recap why you are c0ck blocking yourself (you've told us time and time again why) and change those beliefs.

You're going to have to grow a set, get fearless, and live outside your comfort zone if you want things to change.

 

[Spaz]

@sazc

I've got 2 ask this, no disrespect here but r u a dude masquerading as a chick?

Because if u r not then it's really gonna look really bad for some of the guys that's on here.

 

[bigdave17]

Dave man, if there's one thing I do know, it's that you're going to have to figure this shiz out ON YOUR OWN.

You legit ignore every effective piece of wisdom that is given to you in here. Sometime says something and you immediately discount it by deflecting.

You've stated what your real issues are. You know what your issues are. You are completely AWARE what your issues are. It's time for you to handle them. MAN UP, take control, figure this shiz out, and have a better life. You can do it.

Step one is stop wallowing in being a victim.

Step two, recap why you are c0ck blocking yourself (you've told us time and time again why) and change those beliefs.

You're going to have to grow a set, get fearless, and live outside your comfort zone if you want things to change.

You're not wrong in what you are saying

what kills me is I just don't get natural dating opportunities much anymore. A lot of this stuff would be fixed with some dating success with women in my league but I have to cold approach to do that, which is ridiculously hard and I can't do online dating because I look like a f**king ugly retard in pictures

i have to get way out of my comfort zone, which is massively daunting

 

[spinich]

Thought you came out of the closet in one of your many posts and decided you were gay. That would explain a lot.