I have to do this.

wootapotky

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OK. I'm really, really, really angry at myself now. Three blown chances with three HB 8.2 girls. One of them sat by me and asked if I could help her with her math homework, but when I looked at it it was obvious she knew how to do it and me being the idiot that I am kept bumbling on about how to do the problem and the whole time she was staring at me.

Then when I was walking onto school grounds another hot girl smiled at me and said hi and she was walking with a girl that had smiled at me while I was walking by a week before. And again, I did nothing except to say hi back and keep walking. I'm such a dumbass.


And then the last girl, who is the hottest, most definitely at least an HB 9, and that's not just me saying she's an HB 9, smiled at me and said hi and is always making eye contact with me. Luckily she's in my class so I can still do something about it, but I never see the other three. Ok, so the purpose of this post is to force myself to do something and smile at the last girl during class and say hi to her if she's not around her friends. Any other suggestions on what I should do would be great.

Edit: Sh!t, I almost forgot. The HB 9 is a sophomore, would that be too young for me since I'm a senior. I don't know the normal stance on this since the damn Mormons rule my school. It's ridiculous, how could uptight mormons ever be popular.
 

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Look you made a few mistakes just learn from them and don't repeat them in the future, beating yourself up isn't going to change the past. I'm sure you'll see the three HB 8.2 girls again and when you do just go for it. As for the HB 9 I don't think she's too young, mormons also rule my school and even they do it. But keep in mind that if she is mormon her parents probably won't let her date until she's 16. When it comes to talking to her I wouldn't worry whether she's with her friends or not it doesn't make much of a difference, if you wait for a woman to be alone for you to approach her you will miss out on alot of oppurtunities.
 

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Damn, I chickened out today. And I had so many opportunities it was almost like God was saying just do it you *****. I have no excuse for not doing it.
 
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wootapotky, I think you have something on your chin.

Ah, my mistake, it's dribble. ;)

Rejection is better than regret

Maybe that phrase isn't yet ringing in your ears..but when you've seen one too many hotties walk by whilst you stood dribbling over said girls then you'll understand that rejection is NO big deal.

It's certainly alot better than wondering 'What if I HAD gone over and said "Hi"..'

Rejection is better than regret

Next time you're about to duck out of making a move, flash that phrase through your mind. From what you've described so far anyway, they'll probably be grateful you've made the move anyway and aren't likely to blow you out of the water.
 

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Today i did nothing again. Oddly enough though her friend an HB 7.5 smiled at me when she was walking by me but I was past her by the time I had a chance to smile, thought it would be odd to turn around and get her attention and then smile. But maybe not. I've noticed I think too much about it and talk myself into thinking I'm ugly and then not going through with anything, not just smiling at a girl but talking to my classmates around me when I have something to say. I don't know why, I'm always getting signals from hot girls. I actually remember to think rejection is better than regret today, that's a start in the right direction.
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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either stop posting or stop being a pussy.
 

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yeah i know i use to hate their girl friends around the girl I like all the time so it's hard for me to approach or talk alone.

the best way is to let her friends know the territory of your existence, to her friends: "hey can I talk to your cute friend (name) alone?" :p
 

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stop cluttering up the site with your dribble. you don't have a problem that you need to post about, unless it's "help me, I have no testicles and I can't ask girls out," in which case I would advise you to read the DJ Bible.

it really isn't that hard to ask a girl out. even if she says no, she'll at least find it flattering.
 
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