As some of you know I used to be fat... like really fat 380lbs. I'm now a muscular 240 and chicks are coming easier and easier for me. They actually hit on me now and stuff. But i'm really inexperienced.
Anyway I ran into this chick 4 weeks ago that I knew from my past life when i was a fat ass. Back then I thought she was the hottest chick on the planet, we're talking totally on a pedestal. Anyway I ran into her at this bar and she told me that she had just been dumped by her fiance so her and her girlfriends were out trying to cheer her up. I didn't try to persue anything with her because as far as I was concerned she was still way out of my league and the fact that she just got dumped she probably didn't need some dude hitting on her right then.
Well it turns out playing it cool was totally in my favor because I ran into her 2 weeks later at the same place and towards the end of the night she asked me if i was ever going to kiss her and we made out. I ended up going home with her.
The next day she called me and said she felt guilty about what we did and she really didn't want me to be her rebound guy because she likes me a lot and blah blah blah. She actually told me not to "Let" her kiss me for a while because she "doesn't want to mess this up"
I'm so confused because she still calls me at least once a day and wants to see me ALL THE TIME but yet according to her we're not dating because she's not ready. I'm starting to worry that I might fall into the friend zone.
Is it possible to fall into the friend zone after you've had a night of amazing sex with a girl? I mean i practically gave the girl a seizure that night!
Anyway I ran into this chick 4 weeks ago that I knew from my past life when i was a fat ass. Back then I thought she was the hottest chick on the planet, we're talking totally on a pedestal. Anyway I ran into her at this bar and she told me that she had just been dumped by her fiance so her and her girlfriends were out trying to cheer her up. I didn't try to persue anything with her because as far as I was concerned she was still way out of my league and the fact that she just got dumped she probably didn't need some dude hitting on her right then.
Well it turns out playing it cool was totally in my favor because I ran into her 2 weeks later at the same place and towards the end of the night she asked me if i was ever going to kiss her and we made out. I ended up going home with her.
The next day she called me and said she felt guilty about what we did and she really didn't want me to be her rebound guy because she likes me a lot and blah blah blah. She actually told me not to "Let" her kiss me for a while because she "doesn't want to mess this up"
I'm so confused because she still calls me at least once a day and wants to see me ALL THE TIME but yet according to her we're not dating because she's not ready. I'm starting to worry that I might fall into the friend zone.
Is it possible to fall into the friend zone after you've had a night of amazing sex with a girl? I mean i practically gave the girl a seizure that night!