:nervous:
Ok so i was going back to my office from a client meeting. i was in the lift.
When i finished my meetings i was happy because i had just won a big piece of work for my firm and this was smtn i was working on for a long time.
so in a big sigh of relief i got into the lift and took of my tie and the top button on my shirt and just phew!!
just then "TING" the lift doors open and a very hott girl steps in..<She works for another company's office that is located in the same building as my clients>.
Turns out, 6 months ago she used to hang out with a bunch of friends of mine. she recognized me. and said Hi *Slick* right? i was surprised so i said "Yeh! im sorry, ud think i wudnt forget sm1 like you but please jog my memory"
she laughed and giggled and thanked me and gave me her name.
I then remembered who she was. and i vaguely ramember her not being so attractive back then, bad hair days and wierd dress sense. her skins cleared up, and the gyms put serious curves in her shape.
So anyway we step out of the lift on the G floor, fluff talk.
I take her phone number, she was very glad to give it to me, infact wrote it on a piece of paper, i did the wrong number test. number checked out ok.
So anyway before we parted ways i asked her if she had seen the Dark Knight.
She said no.
To which i said. what you doing this weekend?
she looked at me..said i dunno too far away its only monday.
I DUNNO WHAT HAPPENED! i just flipflopity like oh..ok..hmm..yeh so..anyway.
im thinkin WTF! close the deal! ask her for another day.
she stood around looking at me..and i just couldnt ask her for another day i dunno why.
then i fluff talked about her car, we were standing by it.
she was meddling with her keys..and i knew she was high IoI. but i dunno what happened to me
Then again i asked her, what you doing tomoro night? 7pm ish?
she - "Oh! i organized an evening with the girls..."
Me: oh! hehe..yeh..hehe..ok cool..well ill give you a ring this week,you and me go watch dark knight..cool?
she: yeh! sure..
Me: k i gotta get back to my office..see ya later..
Drive back 20 mins..IM SLAPPING MYSELF...CONCENTRATE SLICK!!!
VISUALIZE AND WIN!!..
i think there was one point where i looked down at her shape while talking to her and that just threw my whole game off..i dont know..maybe..FXK!
Also, this has really put me into a question:
Was it that she was not interested?
or was i not asking properly?
If she was not interested, what are the signs? how do i overcome them?
if i didnt ask properly, how do i overcome this and win her over?
Im feeling a bit down, although i should feel super happy, i have one plate at the moment, ive lost contact with 3 others, as one i had an argument with, one moved countries and the other is just fvkn around playing too many mind games.
I was real happy about the progress with work, so i wanted to celebrate, but i dont have a gf to come home and boast about it to lol. or to take a girl out to dinner and celebrate..so maybe this whole chic and not able to ask her out didnt really work out.oh well..
Ok so i was going back to my office from a client meeting. i was in the lift.
When i finished my meetings i was happy because i had just won a big piece of work for my firm and this was smtn i was working on for a long time.
so in a big sigh of relief i got into the lift and took of my tie and the top button on my shirt and just phew!!
just then "TING" the lift doors open and a very hott girl steps in..<She works for another company's office that is located in the same building as my clients>.
Turns out, 6 months ago she used to hang out with a bunch of friends of mine. she recognized me. and said Hi *Slick* right? i was surprised so i said "Yeh! im sorry, ud think i wudnt forget sm1 like you but please jog my memory"
she laughed and giggled and thanked me and gave me her name.
I then remembered who she was. and i vaguely ramember her not being so attractive back then, bad hair days and wierd dress sense. her skins cleared up, and the gyms put serious curves in her shape.
So anyway we step out of the lift on the G floor, fluff talk.
I take her phone number, she was very glad to give it to me, infact wrote it on a piece of paper, i did the wrong number test. number checked out ok.
So anyway before we parted ways i asked her if she had seen the Dark Knight.
She said no.
To which i said. what you doing this weekend?
she looked at me..said i dunno too far away its only monday.
I DUNNO WHAT HAPPENED! i just flipflopity like oh..ok..hmm..yeh so..anyway.
im thinkin WTF! close the deal! ask her for another day.
she stood around looking at me..and i just couldnt ask her for another day i dunno why.
then i fluff talked about her car, we were standing by it.
she was meddling with her keys..and i knew she was high IoI. but i dunno what happened to me
Then again i asked her, what you doing tomoro night? 7pm ish?
she - "Oh! i organized an evening with the girls..."
Me: oh! hehe..yeh..hehe..ok cool..well ill give you a ring this week,you and me go watch dark knight..cool?
she: yeh! sure..
Me: k i gotta get back to my office..see ya later..
Drive back 20 mins..IM SLAPPING MYSELF...CONCENTRATE SLICK!!!
VISUALIZE AND WIN!!..
i think there was one point where i looked down at her shape while talking to her and that just threw my whole game off..i dont know..maybe..FXK!
Also, this has really put me into a question:
Was it that she was not interested?
or was i not asking properly?
If she was not interested, what are the signs? how do i overcome them?
if i didnt ask properly, how do i overcome this and win her over?
Im feeling a bit down, although i should feel super happy, i have one plate at the moment, ive lost contact with 3 others, as one i had an argument with, one moved countries and the other is just fvkn around playing too many mind games.
I was real happy about the progress with work, so i wanted to celebrate, but i dont have a gf to come home and boast about it to lol. or to take a girl out to dinner and celebrate..so maybe this whole chic and not able to ask her out didnt really work out.oh well..