1. In the beginning.
I moved from the city to a small town, from half a million citizens to 10 000. Started working at this place, and everyone seems so damn much more nice and friendlier than city folks. I starting to enjoy it here. Got lots of smiles and friendly talk with the females I encounter.
2. New girl at work.
As our annual work place Christmas party was happening, I was unfortunately on vacation at another continent. This was last year.
When I returned, my best friend and also coworker told me about this new girl at work. I noticed her, she was hot, but there was something unusual with her, I will come back to this later. She was also friend with many of the friendly females I have met before.
For News years eve, my friend and I went to this new girls place and have a few drinks there. Apparently he had sex with her at the xmas party, and kinda have a hard on for her, even though he is getting married to his gf coming summer. I dont mind any of that. I was there with my date, and I noticed something funny, this new girl would try getting my attention during the whole time.
3. The News year eve
Things that made me wonder:
We were supposed to have a few drinks as a vorspiel and eventually would hit this club in town where we got our tickets reserved. But being it her place, this girl somehow decided screw going out, we just stay there the whole night.
She had invited over about 8 other guys and just her 2 best girlfriend, not including me my date and my coworker friend.
She sat next to me trying to get my attention while I was busy getting drunk and minding my own business and having my arm wrap around my date.
My coworker friend and a few other guys tried to get her into one of the private room, but she went right back out everyt time.
At the end I was getting ****faced drunk and quite bored so I left. She followed me tomthe exit, and my coworker followed her, my date is not even on my mind at this point. I said gd bye to them and my coworker friend asked me, what about my date? Before I could say anything, she cut in, telling flat out that my date is staying here. I went home alone, puzzled. I live only 10 minutes walk away anyway.
She sent me a Facebook friend request soon after.
4. The cabin weekend
Maybe a month or so later me my coworker friend and another friend went to this cabin to drink, eat tacos and play poker. Just for fun I asked her to come, bring a friend too, I said almost winking at her. To our surprised she and her hot friend drove the 45 mintutes car ride to the cabin to see us. I forgot about my coworker friends feelings for her. We were half drunk at full steam with our poker game when they came. Knowing my coworker friend has a hard on for her, not litterally of course, I teased him about it. Telling him now that shes here, his poker concentration is gone. He went from winning and chip leader, to losing it all to me basically. Because clearly his focus on the game is gone, it was quite obvious. I didnt want the girls to stay because there is only one new girl and there is 2 of us, and i hate competition, so I did secretly everything I can to make the girls leave again...They eventually felt like we care more about poker than them, so they excused themselves and left. My worker friend complained about why they would bother to come and then leave like that.
5. The Valentine.
So actually I got a great idea from 9gag for a Vday card, which I drew and wrote a cute poem about pokemons. I asked her out first, she agreed, but my boss couldn't let me have a day off just because its valentine's, I never told him I have a date with a coworker of course. So the date never happened, but I told her I made her a card anyway. She loved that card.
6. Summer
Eventually my coworker friend got married and moved back to Sweden this summer. I asked her out in a joking and assholish way one more time, she never answered that messaged on facebook. Later when I asked her why we are not dating, she said she doesnt have time for that. She also kinda hinted that if I asked her out in a normal and nice way, she would probably say yes.
7. Halloween
Im a hobby cosplayer so this halloween I went to this club with some friends, again there are tickets. I told her about this halloween event at this club and tell her she should come, she just stare at me without answering right away, then I said Ill be there, and she said oh you will be there.
I got again halfway ****faced drunk at the club, I was dancing my ass off and making out with this random girl downstairs when I had to go upstairs with my friend to cool down, also I was wearing a stoned scream mask. Upstairs I saw her sitting with her friends at a table, she noticed me but im unsure if she knows its me, as she might recognize the rest of my outfit from my Facebook pictures but the mask is brand new. So me and my friend went out for some air, then we got in again and now she up and away from her table, but now some other guy is talking to her. After some thinking I walked up next to her, pricked her with my finger a few times to get her to turn around. She did eventually but I had a mask on, I thought it would be funny to surprise her when I unmask myself, but she just glared at me with her eyes without saying anything and turned back to the other guy, whom we both know already have a gf btw. For some reason that annoyed me so much I just left and didnt think about her at all the rest of the night. Did hook up with a blue haired girl that night though.
8. And now
Monday at worked I asked if she saw me at the halloween party. she said she doesnt know, dont remember because she was drunk...
Thanks for reading so far.
I guess my question is, if any of you can relate to this, any advice on how I would go on with this. I find this complicated, and I like it to be simple. It almost gives me heachache, please help.
I moved from the city to a small town, from half a million citizens to 10 000. Started working at this place, and everyone seems so damn much more nice and friendlier than city folks. I starting to enjoy it here. Got lots of smiles and friendly talk with the females I encounter.
2. New girl at work.
As our annual work place Christmas party was happening, I was unfortunately on vacation at another continent. This was last year.
When I returned, my best friend and also coworker told me about this new girl at work. I noticed her, she was hot, but there was something unusual with her, I will come back to this later. She was also friend with many of the friendly females I have met before.
For News years eve, my friend and I went to this new girls place and have a few drinks there. Apparently he had sex with her at the xmas party, and kinda have a hard on for her, even though he is getting married to his gf coming summer. I dont mind any of that. I was there with my date, and I noticed something funny, this new girl would try getting my attention during the whole time.
3. The News year eve
Things that made me wonder:
We were supposed to have a few drinks as a vorspiel and eventually would hit this club in town where we got our tickets reserved. But being it her place, this girl somehow decided screw going out, we just stay there the whole night.
She had invited over about 8 other guys and just her 2 best girlfriend, not including me my date and my coworker friend.
She sat next to me trying to get my attention while I was busy getting drunk and minding my own business and having my arm wrap around my date.
My coworker friend and a few other guys tried to get her into one of the private room, but she went right back out everyt time.
At the end I was getting ****faced drunk and quite bored so I left. She followed me tomthe exit, and my coworker followed her, my date is not even on my mind at this point. I said gd bye to them and my coworker friend asked me, what about my date? Before I could say anything, she cut in, telling flat out that my date is staying here. I went home alone, puzzled. I live only 10 minutes walk away anyway.
She sent me a Facebook friend request soon after.
4. The cabin weekend
Maybe a month or so later me my coworker friend and another friend went to this cabin to drink, eat tacos and play poker. Just for fun I asked her to come, bring a friend too, I said almost winking at her. To our surprised she and her hot friend drove the 45 mintutes car ride to the cabin to see us. I forgot about my coworker friends feelings for her. We were half drunk at full steam with our poker game when they came. Knowing my coworker friend has a hard on for her, not litterally of course, I teased him about it. Telling him now that shes here, his poker concentration is gone. He went from winning and chip leader, to losing it all to me basically. Because clearly his focus on the game is gone, it was quite obvious. I didnt want the girls to stay because there is only one new girl and there is 2 of us, and i hate competition, so I did secretly everything I can to make the girls leave again...They eventually felt like we care more about poker than them, so they excused themselves and left. My worker friend complained about why they would bother to come and then leave like that.
5. The Valentine.
So actually I got a great idea from 9gag for a Vday card, which I drew and wrote a cute poem about pokemons. I asked her out first, she agreed, but my boss couldn't let me have a day off just because its valentine's, I never told him I have a date with a coworker of course. So the date never happened, but I told her I made her a card anyway. She loved that card.
6. Summer
Eventually my coworker friend got married and moved back to Sweden this summer. I asked her out in a joking and assholish way one more time, she never answered that messaged on facebook. Later when I asked her why we are not dating, she said she doesnt have time for that. She also kinda hinted that if I asked her out in a normal and nice way, she would probably say yes.
7. Halloween
Im a hobby cosplayer so this halloween I went to this club with some friends, again there are tickets. I told her about this halloween event at this club and tell her she should come, she just stare at me without answering right away, then I said Ill be there, and she said oh you will be there.
I got again halfway ****faced drunk at the club, I was dancing my ass off and making out with this random girl downstairs when I had to go upstairs with my friend to cool down, also I was wearing a stoned scream mask. Upstairs I saw her sitting with her friends at a table, she noticed me but im unsure if she knows its me, as she might recognize the rest of my outfit from my Facebook pictures but the mask is brand new. So me and my friend went out for some air, then we got in again and now she up and away from her table, but now some other guy is talking to her. After some thinking I walked up next to her, pricked her with my finger a few times to get her to turn around. She did eventually but I had a mask on, I thought it would be funny to surprise her when I unmask myself, but she just glared at me with her eyes without saying anything and turned back to the other guy, whom we both know already have a gf btw. For some reason that annoyed me so much I just left and didnt think about her at all the rest of the night. Did hook up with a blue haired girl that night though.
8. And now
Monday at worked I asked if she saw me at the halloween party. she said she doesnt know, dont remember because she was drunk...
Thanks for reading so far.
I guess my question is, if any of you can relate to this, any advice on how I would go on with this. I find this complicated, and I like it to be simple. It almost gives me heachache, please help.
