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[Raven125]

alright so let me first state that i am not a dj and ive just barely begun, i know its required for you to be 15 on this board... but i am 13... so ban me if its a huge deal . whats going on is that this girl already wants to take me to 3rd (now remember im 13, not too bad i suppose)... proving just starting ont he dj path has worked . i have played with her and made her feel like it wasnt very important to me and i have gotten her begging for it. now the thing is, shes really not that attractive at all... shes my ex and i went out with her for personallity.... but if this is going to be a pure physical relationship than im not positive on what i want to do. she is a 5 at best and im not sure i want to do anything with her, i think i can get better and i want to. i feel a hell of alot more confident about myself, i mean before this i hated myself and had attempted suicide. now i practically am in love with myself for some reason. anyways, anyone have any ideas on what to do? thanks in advance.

 

[McKindley]

I'm not sure how the rest of the guys on this board are going to react, but I think 13 is a little young for anything past kissing. I know when I was 13 I knew a few guys that were already having sex, but I feel that's just too young. I know you have to be really tired of hearing "you're too young for x, your too young for z" but there is a reason people feel this way. I want to tell you things like "don't rush your life. When you're older you'll understand. There's no hurry on this stuff," but that's how things are.

I'm not quite sure why you posted this in the first place. Probably for one (or both) of the following reasons (a) you don't want to do it and are pretty sure we will tell you you're too young (giving you external justification for your feelings) or (b) you want to brag but not to your friends (maybe because she's not too hot.) If the reason is (a) wait a couple years (but not too long) if it is (b) you need to realize that in the end no one cares. Not trying to be harsh, not only on the board, but in life, one of the most annoying things is guys who brag about getting with girls. The coolest guys are the guys who get with girls and never really bother to talk about it. (which could be chalked up to mystery.)

 

[Raven125]

Originally posted by Raven125
alright so let me first state that i am not a dj and ive just barely begun, i know its required for you to be 15 on this board... but i am 13... so ban me if its a huge deal . whats going on is that this girl already wants to take me to 3rd (now remember im 13, not too bad i suppose)... proving just starting ont he dj path has worked . i have played with her and made her feel like it wasnt very important to me and i have gotten her begging for it. now the thing is, shes really not that attractive at all... shes my ex and i went out with her for personallity.... but if this is going to be a pure physical relationship than im not positive on what i want to do. she is a 5 at best and im not sure i want to do anything with her, i think i can get better and i want to. i feel a hell of alot more confident about myself, i mean before this i hated myself and had attempted suicide. now i practically am in love with myself for some reason. anyways, anyone have any ideas on what to do? thanks in advance.

probably more of an (a)

 

[Raven125]

the thing is that in my past life, everything with women has been bull****, i have never had a real relationship. in a matter of fact ive had 3... 2 of which lasted 3 days! i just dont want to miss a chance to get something like this.

 

[Oxide]

raven, listen kid. you dont need this board to be successful with women. at your age all you need to do is develop a kick ass alpha male personality. read finger's post on alpha male, and bible too.
When you develop this "im alpha" personlaity, people will relaize it and will eb attracted to you. women with flee to you, without u reading **** everynight on this board.


we (older guys) missed on the chance of becoming natural DJ's at young age, so we are working on it now.

you can still be a natural if u start now.

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by Raven125
alright so let me first state that i am not a dj and ive just barely begun, i know its required for you to be 15 on this board... but i am 13... so ban me if its a huge deal . whats going on is that this girl already wants to take me to 3rd (now remember im 13, not too bad i suppose)... proving just starting ont he dj path has worked . i have played with her and made her feel like it wasnt very important to me and i have gotten her begging for it. now the thing is, shes really not that attractive at all... shes my ex and i went out with her for personallity.... but if this is going to be a pure physical relationship than im not positive on what i want to do. she is a 5 at best and im not sure i want to do anything with her, i think i can get better and i want to. i feel a hell of alot more confident about myself, i mean before this i hated myself and had attempted suicide. now i practically am in love with myself for some reason. anyways, anyone have any ideas on what to do? thanks in advance.

since you are new here it is good to know that if you want ppl to read and help you, you should seperated posts into spaced out paragraphs so that it is easier to read

my eyes hurt to much to read what you have to say so if you space it out ill answer

also, you are 13, you are extremly lucky to find this site at such a young age

stick with it and you will conquer all

 

[McKindley]

Oxide's steering you right, friend. Right now you don't need to worry about being a DJ as much as being an alpha.

As far as not having many relationships in your life, DON"T worry man. When you're 13 all of your relationships will last for a few weeks max anyway. Furthermore, it's not like you're old enough to really WANT a serious relationship.

Everything with girls for the next few years WILL BE bull**** as you say. That's exactly why we want to steer you towards being an alpha rather than trying to get in a relationship.

McKindley

P.S. I'm glad you admit the issue is an (a)

 

[Raven125]

yeah but i figured if i could get started early then by highschool i could be doing great.

 

[Raven125]

Originally posted by Raven125
alright so let me first state that i am not a dj and ive just barely begun, i know its required for you to be 15 on this board... but i am 13... so ban me if its a huge deal .

whats going on is that this girl already wants to take me to 3rd (now remember im 13, not too bad i suppose)... proving just starting ont he dj path has worked .

i have played with her and made her feel like it wasnt very important to me and i have gotten her begging for it.

now the thing is, shes really not that attractive at all... shes my ex and i went out with her for personallity.... but if this is going to be a pure physical relationship than im not positive on what i want to do.

she is a 5 at best and im not sure i want to do anything with her, i think i can get better and i want to.

i feel a hell of alot more confident about myself, i mean before this i hated myself and had attempted suicide. now i practically am in love with myself for some reason. anyways, anyone have any ideas on what to do? thanks in advance.

spaced out enough?

 

[El brujo]

yeah but i figured if i could get started early then by highschool i could be doing great.

He's right with that one I guess, but don't rush it like the others say. Man, I've never even kissed a girl when I was that age... But you could allready prepare for high school by preparing your alpha male stuff, like the others say.

And what about the suicide thing man??? I don't know, but you shouldn't tell this to people to state something.

 

[Raven125]

Originally posted by El brujo
He's right with that one I guess, but don't rush it like the others say. Man, I've never even kissed a girl when I was that age... But you could allready prepare for high school by preparing your alpha male stuff, like the others say.

And what about the suicide thing man??? I don't know, but you shouldn't tell this to people to state something.

i honestly havent kissed a girl yet either so this is a rather large step....

about the suicide thing, i was just trying to get my point across, i was being completely stupid even thinking about doing it.

 

[drixsa]

raven-

at 13 yrs old girls do not kow what they want or who they are for the most part

the same can be true about boys at that age as well, to a lesser degree

at this age you can be a total dumbass yet do very well with girls

what i woul do now is to read the bible, and the hs bible

though some things you maynotunderstand it is a good place to start

with regards to this girl: if want to hook up with her then do so, if you arent attracted to her then you should not, remember that attraction does go beyond looks, though i am not sure how much at your age

regardless you could be getting some good experience for a 13yrs old

 

[jmm854]

You're a lucky little biatch running across this website in 4th, I mean 7th grade like you have.

On the topic, I'll agree with Oxide and others...just start developing the DJ mindset now, and by the time you hit highschool you'll be in great shape.

However, if your ex-girlfriend wants to give you head, I say why not? The sooner you have experience like this, the more ready you'll be in future situations. What the hell, trying eating her out while you're at it. Like you said, it's just physical and there's no sexual experience combined between the two of you...might as well learn now, the oppertunity has presented itself.

 

[Raven125]

Originally posted by jmm854
You're a lucky little biatch running across this website in 4th, I mean 7th grade like you have.

On the topic, I'll agree with Oxide and others...just start developing the DJ mindset now, and by the time you hit highschool you'll be in great shape.

However, if your ex-girlfriend wants to give you head, I say why not? The sooner you have experience like this, the more ready you'll be in future situations. What the hell, trying eating her out while you're at it. Like you said, it's just physical and there's no sexual experience combined between the two of you...might as well learn now, the oppertunity has presented itself.

originally it was just me eating her out, i had to convice her to want to give me head... i dont know we'll see how it works out.

thanks everyone

 

[RedHerring]

When I was 13 I was barely jacking off...

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by RedHerring
When I was 13 I was barely jacking off...

Preach it brotha!!