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nyc123

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this sunday some people are hanging out in time square.
2 of my friends (a couple) and 3 other girls. one of the girls is interested in me. i barely know her at all. on the highschool scale shes a 5.

so my question is should i go for her just for experience. by go for her, i mean make out. i am not attracted at all and i doubt i will ever be. but right now i'm trying to get more comfortable around girls.

what do you guys think?
oh and this girl goes to my school so i'm going to see her again.
 

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just make sure if you do anything with her you don't ruin your chances with other girls, especially if you go to the same high school with her. Drama is always around in high school and it spreads fast, so be careful.
 

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nyc123 said:
this sunday some people are hanging out in time square.
2 of my friends (a couple) and 3 other girls. one of the girls is interested in me. i barely know her at all. on the highschool scale shes a 5.

so my question is should i go for her just for experience. by go for her, i mean make out. i am not attracted at all and i doubt i will ever be. but right now i'm trying to get more comfortable around girls.

what do you guys think?
oh and this girl goes to my school so i'm going to see her again.
If you're thinking if you should kiss her or not, then you should.

Even if she is a UG, your social status will go up. They'll be thinking "What does she have that I don't."

Have Fun & Improve Everyday!

:up:
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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KillaCam

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B-Lemond said:
They'll be thinking "What does she have that I don't."
Or they will be thinking "Where are his standards?".

If she's ugly and you don't want her, just move to the next girl. The theory of social proof can and often will backfire.
 

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KillaCam said:
Or they will be thinking "Where are his standards?".

If she's ugly and you don't want her, just move to the next girl. The theory of social proof can and often will backfire.
HAHA :crackup:

It mostly depends on him for that one to occur.

Either way, it's the way you act about it that will get you the positive or negative reaction.

I just like being positive, thus I only told him the positive results...:up:
 

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True that ;)

I just hope he is positive and aims high. Don't settle for the dud :D
 
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