AlmostThere! said:
They never have to be lonely. She can be the most depressed b*tch in the world, but she can be in a relationship (maybe not with the same person) for the rest of her life.
This is still something I have to work on in order to become a real man. Start loving women and the game, and not fight against it.
You hate women because they never have to be lonely?
You know...some woman out there is probably thinking the same thing - she hates men because they never have to be lonely.
So let me get this straight, in other words, you hate women because they can always get men? This makes no sense at all to me buddy, it sounds very AFCish.
There is something much more important underlying that you don't seem to realize. Anybody can develop a relationship, it just takes a different type of effort from a man. We usually don't have women staring and drooling all over us; we've gotta take the social route into romantic and sexual relationships.
A woman can easily attract a man. She just sticks her chest or ass out and says something sexy...or sometimes she can just sit in a chair and be the hottest looking woman in the room.
Men have a different path to attract a woman, but believe me it's not as hard as you think it is. It's all about getting through your social persona and revealing your true, 100% masculine self.
Forget that shyt though, I'm going to spell out my real point -
What's stopping YOU from being in a relationship?
I would argue that it's EASIER for men to get women. Here is where we learn pickup skills. I doubt women learn how to cold approach like we do. The skills are all ours, we just have to fully master them and USE THEM.
Women are always looking for social/romantic/sexual relationships because they need the emotional stimulation.
We DON'T, because a man can amuse himself by doing his own thing with his family, friends, etc.
Loneliness comes from a man with a little boy inside him crying for his mommy. Once you find yourself and your true independence and masculinity, you will not feel lonely, even if you're not in a relationship.
Don't love women just because they're women.
A relationship isn't black and white, dude.
It's not "I love her because she's a woman and being around her makes me feel like a man."
You form relationships when you feel a connection with someone and you feel they deserve it from you.
You guide her into your life, you don't give away your love like you're a flower-bringing, dinner-buying, ass-kissing man-*****.
Wake up, and focus on what you can change, don't let your emotions control you man.
You can only succeed by seeking success. Lol I sound prophetic.
