Maximus Rex
Banned
I orignally posted this on another forum.
Present company excluded. I have to extend my heart felt thanks and gratitude to the people who run this site for being one of the few places on internet that allow for a free flow of discussions and ideas.
Anyway, what burns me up about message boards is the "dictatorial attitdude," that some people take with their boards. I realize that these things are people's "babies," and that since the moderators and administrators were *****ed around in high school, and they continue to be *****ed around today, that being able to dictate board policy and having the power to ban people gives purpose to what would otherwise be a meaningless and shiftless life.
I've been banned from two, what will probably be three message boards, and given a warning on another for stating what is merely my opinion. Am I crass? Yes. Am I crut? Probably? Do I have a filthy ****ing mouth? You bet. But to toot my own horn, I feel that I'm honest and thoughtful. I feel that everything that I've posted, especically concerning men and women relationships has made people stop and think for a minute. Folks may not have liked what I've said and completely disagreed with it, but I hoped I've had a chance to give folks a chance to see where I'm coming from.
I posted the "Frankenstein," "The Why Did You Reject The Nice Guy," Thread, and the "Tired Guy's" letter on www.afrochat.net ( for some interesting reading, read the responses to that) The ***** ass administrator closed the "Frankenstein," and "Nice Guy," threads. He accused me of having "issues with the sistas," and told me to post something "respectful," next time.
This really pissed me off. I basically opened another thread that said these three things,
1) If you don't want people being critical of women. Then post it in the rules of the site.
2) You can't talk about respecting people, when you don't even have the common courtesty to respect other people's opinion.
3) I told the administrator of the site that when he got home to ask his sigificant other for her purse, so he can retrieve his balls from it. That comment will probably get me banned.
It's amazing that on this forum we're able to have a discussion on the topic, but on another, people resorted to personal attacks, don't answer the questions posed, then thread orignator isn't even given a chance to respond. Why have a message board if your not willing to accept people the opinions of people with different experiences or views?
You guys read those threads, do you think they should've been closed? Anyway, thanks for allowing me this time to vent.
Present company excluded. I have to extend my heart felt thanks and gratitude to the people who run this site for being one of the few places on internet that allow for a free flow of discussions and ideas.
Anyway, what burns me up about message boards is the "dictatorial attitdude," that some people take with their boards. I realize that these things are people's "babies," and that since the moderators and administrators were *****ed around in high school, and they continue to be *****ed around today, that being able to dictate board policy and having the power to ban people gives purpose to what would otherwise be a meaningless and shiftless life.
I've been banned from two, what will probably be three message boards, and given a warning on another for stating what is merely my opinion. Am I crass? Yes. Am I crut? Probably? Do I have a filthy ****ing mouth? You bet. But to toot my own horn, I feel that I'm honest and thoughtful. I feel that everything that I've posted, especically concerning men and women relationships has made people stop and think for a minute. Folks may not have liked what I've said and completely disagreed with it, but I hoped I've had a chance to give folks a chance to see where I'm coming from.
I posted the "Frankenstein," "The Why Did You Reject The Nice Guy," Thread, and the "Tired Guy's" letter on www.afrochat.net ( for some interesting reading, read the responses to that) The ***** ass administrator closed the "Frankenstein," and "Nice Guy," threads. He accused me of having "issues with the sistas," and told me to post something "respectful," next time.
This really pissed me off. I basically opened another thread that said these three things,
1) If you don't want people being critical of women. Then post it in the rules of the site.
2) You can't talk about respecting people, when you don't even have the common courtesty to respect other people's opinion.
3) I told the administrator of the site that when he got home to ask his sigificant other for her purse, so he can retrieve his balls from it. That comment will probably get me banned.
It's amazing that on this forum we're able to have a discussion on the topic, but on another, people resorted to personal attacks, don't answer the questions posed, then thread orignator isn't even given a chance to respond. Why have a message board if your not willing to accept people the opinions of people with different experiences or views?
You guys read those threads, do you think they should've been closed? Anyway, thanks for allowing me this time to vent.
