I had given up on this girl...

matius

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I've been out with this girl twice. I tried to play the catch me if you can routine which worked to an extent. Until she was just being straight up and then I was looking like a jerk. So then towards the end we kind of reversed roles- Goes to show you it was just stupid because we only went out twice. The shortest path is to just be straight up and not worry about it.

To make a long stroy short, I called her last week to give it one last try. She said can I call you back in a couple of hours? I said sure, she never did so Next / dropped the email and numbers...not that I wanted to...i felt like my actions were stupid so I kind of lost it. So today she jumps on IM and hints to the fact that she's bored, it's a nice day and I should be having fun instead of working. I would have said let's go but I have tons of work. Instead I told her to answer the phone when I call because she didn't one time before...(when I acted like a maarooon).

So I ask the smart ones, is this sign enough to give it another go?
 

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she sounds flaky to me..and only seems to respond to you when she is bored or has nothing better going on.

My guess is .. if you give it another go..you will seem like a chump that gets excited whenever SHE is ready to feed you some crumbs from her palm.

If you can make a date on YOUR terms, the day YOU pick, and get the control back to you..I would say give it another go..

If you are doing it on her terms..it makes you look like a spineless chump
 

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I have all the time in the world since I'm going to be seeing other people...I might drop back a couple of weeks and drop her a message about something that makes sense (I know what I'm talking about)...

I think you're right about that.
 
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