There's a girl at work that I'm interested in, we share a few similarities (I'm not sure if she's aware of it herself however).
Because of a bad relationship she had previously she doesn't seem to trust men and is very cautious of revealing too much information about herself. I think that she would be a great girl to date, but I 'm not sure how to approach this.
Lately I've been printing off her school reports for her since she doesn't have a printer (my way of keeping contact with her outside of work). She's friendly and chatty, and we've had lunch a few times, but when I suggest we do something outside of work time (eat, go for coffee...) she is silent and doesn't say much, and it turns awkward until one of us brings up a new topic.
Over the christmas break she e-mailed me and said "oh a week without seeing you, i'm so depressed hahaha". I wrote her back saying we should meet up to get her happy again. When she wrote back it was more chit chat about work.
I see a potentially good gf in her and don't want to just give up. Should i continue helping her out with her school work and occassionally suggest we should go out? Or is there another route I should pursue?
Myself, I'm not a very flirty or mysterious kind of guy. In fact, a girl I recently dated made it very clear that there is no mystery to me and that I'm an open book. The only thing I have is humour, ppl think I'm a funny guy, but that doesn't seem to ever make it past the friend stage...
Because of a bad relationship she had previously she doesn't seem to trust men and is very cautious of revealing too much information about herself. I think that she would be a great girl to date, but I 'm not sure how to approach this.
Lately I've been printing off her school reports for her since she doesn't have a printer (my way of keeping contact with her outside of work). She's friendly and chatty, and we've had lunch a few times, but when I suggest we do something outside of work time (eat, go for coffee...) she is silent and doesn't say much, and it turns awkward until one of us brings up a new topic.
Over the christmas break she e-mailed me and said "oh a week without seeing you, i'm so depressed hahaha". I wrote her back saying we should meet up to get her happy again. When she wrote back it was more chit chat about work.
I see a potentially good gf in her and don't want to just give up. Should i continue helping her out with her school work and occassionally suggest we should go out? Or is there another route I should pursue?
Myself, I'm not a very flirty or mysterious kind of guy. In fact, a girl I recently dated made it very clear that there is no mystery to me and that I'm an open book. The only thing I have is humour, ppl think I'm a funny guy, but that doesn't seem to ever make it past the friend stage...