I Got Into An LTR A Week Before College!!!

[brainfreeze]

Well there's my "problem" guys, I've met a cool girl who wants an LTR with me, even though i'm going to uni next week, and she isnt, so it would be a long-distance thing, where we would meet on a regular basis (she would come up to vist me and I would go back to vist her).

The problem I have is; will I be able to stay away from all those hot college girls I will have chances with, or should the question be "SHOULD I?".

I also quite value LTR's maybe a bit more than most of the guys here, and I dont want to be a jerk and cheat on this girl, so maybe you could give me some advice?

Peace,

Brainfreeze

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Don't do it.

Do NOT do it.




I dunno how long you've known her, but it's a Bad Idea. I'll leave it to others to explain why.

Osc.

 

[Blaaaaat]

Do you want to be in a LTR with her? Do you like her enough to be in a LTR?

yes? jkeep on going.

no? tell her what the status is.


Btw, a week isn't LONG, so you are not in a LTR yet.

 

[princelydeeds]

I dont feel like explaining in depth. All I will say is this, REGRET LASTS LONGER THAN GUILT. There is little to no chance you are gonna be with this girl forever. You will regret having wasted time on the chick from back home. There are probably thousands of single chicks or soon to be single chicks, at your school. Chill out, get to know some of the great University women. Have fun, get laid, meet lots of people. I guarantee you will meet lots of women who will be even better than the one at home. College shows us a different side of life. We get to meet great women from all over. Live a little, don't be bogged down with the chick from back home.

Plus DAMN you have the DJ Bible. I wish I had teh bible when I was your age. You have the potential to meet so many women. You just dont realise what you have going for you!!!!!Don't be such a sucker for love!!!!!!

 

[McHenry]

Mate I was in the same situation a few weeks ago. But I'm gonna break up with my current girl next week when I leave for university.

I forgot who it was that posted this but I owe them a huge thankyou. Read this carefully

"I don't get the concept of LDRs.

What's the point? You can't f&*k them when you want to. You can't talk to them without
costing a fortune. you can't touch them, hold them, playfight with them. You might as well
have an imaginary girlfriend. It's like owning a car, paying for petrol and insurance etc
BUT you cannot drive it. All you have is photos.

Sure you may say that they are smart, funny and everything you want in a girl. But there
are PLENTY of chicks out there. You are in college for f&*k sake. There are tall chicks,
short chicks, blonde chicks. Surely you can find at least TWENTY that has the
characteristics that you want in a girl amongst these chicks???

No offence, but I see guys in a LDR who are not f&*king other chicks in the same city as
coming from a scarity frame. It is better to go through the pain of breaking up, and then
build yourself into a man with attractive qualities to attract ALL the chicks that YOU want.
It is better to let her go and enjoy herself and for you to build the skills necessary to
seduce all/any chick than to sit staring at her photo wondering if she is cheating on you
or not."

Again Credits to the original poster, I hope you understand this.

 

[legolas]

Originally posted by brainfreeze
Well there's my "problem" guys, I've met a cool girl who wants an LTR with me, even though i'm going to uni next week, and she isnt, so it would be a long-distance thing, where we would meet on a regular basis (she would come up to vist me and I would go back to vist her).

Geez, she got you on a leash ONE WEEK before going to college?

Dam, she's smart kiddo!!

And, uh lets us know when you're getting married.

The problem I have is; will I be able to stay away from all those hot college girls I will have chances with, or should the question be "SHOULD I?".

Should you, or shouldn't you. That is the question. While you'll be floatin' in a sea of hot, fresh, young p*ssy, juicy BJ lips, plumpy tits and TIGHT asses, there's of course THE ONE AND ONLY, who despite being hundreds of miles away, somehow you think will stay away from all the guys hitting on her. The dilemma is mindboggling......then again it could be JUST SEX.

I also quite value LTR's maybe a bit more than most of the guys here, and I dont want to be a jerk and cheat on this girl, so maybe you could give me some advice?

Oh she knew you too well didn't she. Putting a leash around you just a week before college. I just gotta say, I'm shocked. By the way, did you sign on the line that said

"I, _____ shall be faithful to thy for as long as I'm in college?"

Because then... you know what happens.