i got drunk and sent an "i love you" email lol

[ye yeah]

i got extremely drunk and sent the girl ive liked for ages an "i love you" email,now i dont know what to do first,hide,run or delete myspace and done appear on msn for a while lol

there's no going back now,i did it cause she was pissed at me cause i told her i think the guy she likes is after one thing and she confronted him and he was after one thing,she got pissed at me.. for no reason

now i went and got tanked,and declared my love thru email lol,oh god,guys when your drunk and even thinking of it SIGN OUT

 

[spread_love]

i got extremely drunk and sent the girl ive liked for ages an "i love you" email,now i dont know what to do first,hide,run or delete myspace and done appear on msn for a while lol

there's no going back now,i did it cause she was pissed at me cause i told her i think the guy she likes is after one thing and she confronted him and he was after one thing,she got pissed at me.. for no reason

now i went and got tanked,and declared my love thru email lol,oh god,guys when your drunk and even thinking of it SIGN OUT

Honestly...Don't beat yourself up over it or even think about it...she didn't get pissed at you for no reason really, you made her aware to a truth that she suspected and is most likely to be thinking that all guys are like this and taking it out on you, give it time but DO NOT say sorry for it just yet and just do your thing and while you are at it look for someone else.

 

[ye yeah]

thanks for the advice mate,normally i'd be writing a stack of "im sooo sorry" texts lol

should i leave it for a while? like dont go on myspace or msn,and get over it myself,before i speak to her again,i doubt she'll wanna hang out again anytime soon lol,if i say i regret it it'll be the worst thing i can do,cause she'll think i DONT love her,and she'll lose respect for me,so im guessing best thing to do is play it by day,do i say sorry tho?

 

[BuildingSomethingBig]

WTF is this sh*t?

My advice: You've already done the worst, so now it's all about damage limitation. Do NOT say sorry, because that is just turning it into a bigger deal than it already is. Don't mention it until she does, and when that happens you need to casually play it off. Mention that you were drunk and quickly, but casually, change the subject.

STOP conducting your relationships over the internet. Use MSN sparingly to set up real-world dates, etc. Never, ever, ever, ever again say anything like that in an email. It's never going to get you anywhere. In fact, it will turn a woman way off that you didn't have the balls to say it to her face.

STOP interfering with her love life. It's not your business who she f**ks. Telling her that the guy was only using her for sex just makes you come across as a jealous chump, and of course she subsequently got mad at you because it seems as if you have already set yourself up to be her emotional tampon.

 

[MacAvoy]

Time for Damage control. First move, ignore her, let her make the next move. If she brings it up, joke about it, tell her the truth, you got wasted and thought it would be funny if you sent her an email profossing your undying love for her.

Then move on like it was nothing. Don't allow her to wallow in it. Be upbeat.

 

[DJDamage]

Time for Damage control

Damage control? there is nothing to salvage out of this mess.

A fate worse then sending that email was to act all jealous and throwing a hissy fit like a girl.

The right way to play this was to congradulate her on her taste of men and go date other women. This will make you not seem desperate and will actually increase her interest in you since you are in demand, and you don't care about her.

 

[THE_ADDMAN]

Next time you see her, sing "I'm all out of love" to her.

she will throw you down and dry hump you right there

 

[ye yeah]

thanks for the replies guys,i appreciate the help. i did send an email saying "could you unblock me please? so ican atleast explain myself."

and a text the next day,being a wussy and saying sorry and i regret sending it and giving up my power a bit.

it's kind of good,from sunday i have up to 3 weeks of holidays,so i can potentially not speak to her for 3 weeks,so i wouldnt come on msn or myspace? and next time i speak to her i'd pretend like it didn't happen?

 

[Nasman]

WTF is this sh*t?

My advice: You've already done the worst, so now it's all about damage limitation. Do NOT say sorry, because that is just turning it into a bigger deal than it already is. Don't mention it until she does, and when that happens you need to casually play it off. Mention that you were drunk and quickly, but casually, change the subject.

STOP conducting your relationships over the internet. Use MSN sparingly to set up real-world dates, etc. Never, ever, ever, ever again say anything like that in an email. It's never going to get you anywhere. In fact, it will turn a woman way off that you didn't have the balls to say it to her face.

STOP interfering with her love life. It's not your business who she f**ks. Telling her that the guy was only using her for sex just makes you come across as a jealous chump, and of course she subsequently got mad at you because it seems as if you have already set yourself up to be her emotional tampon.

Funny but so true. You are 100% right.:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

 

[jonwon]

thanks for the replies guys,i appreciate the help. i did send an email saying "could you unblock me please? so ican atleast explain myself."

and a text the next day,being a wussy and saying sorry and i regret sending it and giving up my power a bit.

it's kind of good,from sunday i have up to 3 weeks of holidays,so i can potentially not speak to her for 3 weeks,so i wouldnt come on msn or myspace? and next time i speak to her i'd pretend like it didn't happen?

In the famous words of david D;

Take a big black perminant marker, write this on your forehead.

WIMP>

Then look in the mirror or better yet spell it !PMIW.

I would imagine you are a young guy so i wont be too brutal like some others have here, but you need alot of work, alot indeed.

Dont even think about posting for advice until you at least read some of the DJ bible it is ok for what it is and will hopefully illustrate alot of things you currently do that is wrong.

So instead of making posts that will get you flamed or illustrate how much of a pus*y whipped young man you are, i would suggest gaining some insight to what is going on in this interaction and others that may come up with dealing with women.

 

[selfmademob]

Next time you see her, sing "I'm all out of love" to her.

she will throw you down and dry hump you right there

haha, now you got that song in my head man

 

[ye yeah]

thanks for the advice guys,i just finished work and without speaking to her,checked myphone to get a text from my ex gf saying "hey me etc etc and *girl you liked* and *guy she ****ed* are having drinks wanna come join us?" what a *****, im gonna play it off as nothing happened,thanks guys,and i have read the dj bible,it's just a sticky situtaion with this loser chick

 

[KarmaSutra]

Don't beat yourself up over this sh!t

If you fvckup like this again (and God knows we all do) the absolute worst thing you can do is cower and apologize or blame the booze. Here's what I would do:

If she gives you sh!t tell her "oh hell yeah I do love you. As much as I love colonoscopies and cactus masturbation!" Play on it as if it's no fvcking deal because it's not.

Never retreat or surrender to anything or anyone ESPECIALLY a woman.

 

[Taviii]

I do this kind of thing everytime I get drunk.

Most of them like it though

 

[MacAvoy]

i got extremely drunk and sent the girl ive liked for ages an "i love you" email,now i dont know what to do first,hide,run or delete myspace and done appear on msn for a while lol

thanks for the replies guys,i appreciate the help. i did send an email saying "could you unblock me please? so ican atleast explain myself."

and a text the next day,being a wussy and saying sorry and i regret sending it and giving up my power a bit.

Your leaving out part of the story here. Did she end up blocking you on MSN after you told her you love her? What did you need to explain?

 

[ye yeah]

after i sent the emai,i was that drunk i went to bed,and when i woke up a few hours later,i remembered id sent it and i quickly signed into her msn to delete the email,and she had me blocked,and had read the email,so my guess is she read it and blocked me.

i sent the email saying "atleast let me explain" just so she'd unblock me and i could talk my way out of it.

my plan is just to downplay it and say who cares forget about it,but after that text she sent me to hang out with her and her friends,and the guy she has ****ed 3 times, - which the goal of that wouldve been to annoy me,or make me jealous

i dont know what to do with it if she is going to be like that

 

[JustDoItAlways]

Drunk texts, drunk phone calls are always trouble.

But you actually like this girl. No sense pretending that you don't now.

She blocked you from myspace before your had a chance to explain so you got her answer.

But did you really?

You like her. Some wierd drunk sh1t happened. Never verbalize to a girl you like her. Only show it through it your actions.

So make another (action) move and see if she hates your guts for real or if she was just pissed at you for the other comment.

Hey, only two possible responses from her. "I still hate your guts" or "I feel the same way so quit this bullsh1t and let's fvck."

Be a man and make another move. See what happens.

 

[ye yeah]

she is hell pissed off at me,wont talk to me directley..

spoke to her through msn,on someone else's that dosent have me blocked,and whatever i say she just says "**** off,what part of that are you struggling with"

and i said, "well if we're never going to be friends again,tell me now"

and she said "**** OFF"

so i said "i'll take that as a no,were not then"

i guess i delete her from my life

 

[Cod3r]

and giving up my power a bit.

A bit ? Wow

You sound like a little bvtch bro. This is the EXACT type of behavior that men should NEVER engage in. I'm not even mad about the drunk email because I've been in that situation before, but the way you acted afterwards i really sickening... I really have no more words for this...

She's gone... deleted... return to your life


-Cod3r

 

[MacAvoy]

What part of f uck off didn't you understand? Sometimes you gotta know when to pick your self up and move on. If a chick is telling you to f uck and you still don't see it, then your beyond help and the only option left is to take up stalking her.