I got a hicky from a woman my FWB and another woman who i am sure who is into me saw it

corona20

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Is this type of thing a turn on for them because "other women" want me?
 

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When I was very openly seeing multiple women they would always do stuff like that to let the others know they had been there. None of them cared seeing it but they all knew the deal. You don't want that going on if you're actually seeing someone.
 

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Hi Corona,
During the frothy exuberance of youth,I used be a Footballer,real Football, Rugby Union once while travelling by train between games,one of our Likely Lads thought it a fun idea to give a hicky,we called them Love Bites to the Team Bully...Though there were rumours no one ever found out how this effected his Love Life he sure as Hell behaved better to us after it.
 

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Hi Corona,
During the frothy exuberance of youth,I used be a Footballer,real Football, Rugby Union once while travelling by train between games,one of our Likely Lads thought it a fun idea to give a hicky,we called them Love Bites to the Team Bully...Though there were rumours no one ever found out how this effected his Love Life he sure as Hell behaved better to us after it.
At least you didn't bite off his ear Mike Tyson style.
 

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When I was very openly seeing multiple women they would always do stuff like that to let the others know they had been there. None of them cared seeing it but they all knew the deal. You don't want that going on if you're actually seeing someone.
wouldn't other women see this as "other women want him" so i want him too type deal?" or is it a turn off?
 

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You're overthinking things man. Yes, women value men who are in demand by other women. In your case no one can tell you how she will have taken it- she may be unbothered by it or turned off. You'll only know by how she acts when you talk to her.

The whole preselection thing doesn't mean you should go around tongueing every female around a woman that likes you lol. Women appreciate men who are discrete - you want your demeanor & vibe to speak for you. Don't "kiss and tell". Higher quality women CAN be wary of guys that are openly **** boys.
 
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