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I Got A Date With The Girl I Love!

Master Homer

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I've been working on her for a couple of weeks. I finally asked her out and she said yes. We going to the movies (movies are easier to not **** up in my opinion for a first date). She used to have a boyfriend and they broke up a week or two ago; so I need some real heavy duty DJing advice/skills to try to keep her from going back.

Anything I should be doing?
 

blienk

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Read the bible. If you've already read it, twice wouldn't hurt.
 

gav

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yeh, read the bible as much as possible

try to work on ure c&f and kino skills. this should separate u from that afc ure b!tch last dated

gd luck,
gav
 

Master Homer

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There doesn't seem to be many sections in the Bible past the point of asking a girl out. :p

I'm going to just try to be funny and not act romantic. From my experience acting romantic on a first date never works. That's why I think movies are good places to take a girl for a first date. I know some people here disagree with that.

I'm especially excided because I honest to goodness love this girl, and this will be the first time I ever went out with a girl I "love". I usually get stuck with *****es I only go out with because getting any play is better then no play.
 

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Originally posted by Master Homer
There doesn't seem to be many sections in the Bible past the point of asking a girl out. :p

yes there are. the "attitude" and the skills don't just apply to single life, it applies during relationships too.

Originally posted by Master Homer


I'm going to just try to be funny and not act romantic. From my experience acting romantic on a first date never works. That's why I think movies are good places to take a girl for a first date. I know some people here disagree with that.

i agree that being totally romantic isn't the best thing, but there's more to any date than just being funny. u want to build up rapport through conversation, kino etc and u want to be c0cky and funny (c&f) too. read fingers's "weapons of mass seduction" - he uses so many examples to back up his theory.

infact, weapons of mass seduction was so good, i printed it all out and put it in a folder. i really suggest u read chapter 11

Originally posted by Master Homer


I'm especially excided because I honest to goodness love this girl, and this will be the first time I ever went out with a girl I "love". I usually get stuck with *****es I only go out with because getting any play is better then no play.
this is where i'm going to take a stab in the dark and say u haven't read the bible yet, esp pook's "kill that desperation".



good luck with the date

hope u learn something new,
gav
 

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I agree with gav, Weapons Of Mass Seduction is the ultimate titan of all bada$$ posts for it is bada$$ incarnate!! Anyway just have FUN don't be so caught up in what to do that you forget to have a blast cause that would beat the point of a date wouldn't it?:D
 

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u love her already...dude leave this site....ur fvckin pathetic...you havent even kissed her yet...whats ur problem?
 

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Originally posted by ToP DoN
u love her already...dude leave this site....ur fvckin pathetic...you havent even kissed her yet...whats ur problem?
It's called attraction/infactuation. It happens, it's human nature. Chill.

Anyways, you said that she just broke up with her boyfriend a week or two ago? Watch out..and take it carefully. Rebound relationships can be worse then an electrical storm while your holding a metal rod.
 

RaMar

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don't act to clingy, don't profess your love to her, don't be at her every beck and call, don't give her all your attention and you'll be fine :)

good job on getting the date. Now try and make it last...
 

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good luck and remember she is not the be all and end all. My friends still have not learnt that lesson and get suicidal when they break up.
 
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