I finally got a GF that checks all my boxes. Advice to keep her around as long as possible?

[Dr.Suave]

After years of learning stuff here at the forums, I feel happiear than ever before. My new gf feels like a keeper.

Shes a dentist. Not a feminist. Family girl (both parents still married, she lives with them). I took her V-card. Similar interests to mine. Doesn´t like to dance (me neither). Slowly becoming red pill aware (in a good way). Never refuses sex except when on her period, in fact, she wants it more than me; sometimes she can´t get enough and we keep doing it until late in the night when her parents start to call her phone.

I could go on and on but the point is I like this girl way more than all my previous GFs combined. What´s your advice to keep her around as long as possible?

So far I´ve been thinking about:
- Reading the married red pill
- Not leting myself go, keep improving.
- If she´s still around after a few of years, put a ring on it.

 

[2Rocky]

DO you feel certain you could go out and meet other women if she was taken out of your life? If yes, then an LTR is good.

Do you feel like you are missing out on the Single life? If yes then re-evaluate what you feel for this girl. We tend to settle when we hit a new Personal Best. Because we think we can't do any better. In that case it is important that we review any deal breakers for us. And yes...Write them down and review them every few years.

Does she make you a better person? Does she help you grow, or does she hold some aspect of you back?

Have you achieved what you want to up to this point? If not will she hold you back from it? She needs to be 100% in your corner if you still have dreams to fulfill and be willing to sacrifice with you for those dreams....

 

[Modern Man Advice]

After years of learning stuff here at the forums, I feel happiear than ever before. My new gf feels like a keeper.

Shes a dentist. Not a feminist. Family girl (both parents still married, she lives with them). I took her V-card. Similar interests to mine. Doesn´t like to dance (me neither). Slowly becoming red pill aware (in a good way). Never refuses sex except when on her period, in fact, she wants it more than me; sometimes she can´t get enough and we keep doing it until late in the night when her parents start to call her phone.

I could go on and on but that point is I like this girl way more than all my previous GFs combined. What´s your advice to keep her around as long as possible?

So far I´ve been thinking about:
- Reading the married red pill
- Not leting myself go, keep improving.
- If she´s still around after a couple of years, put a ring on it.

Don't let her get too comfortable.


Modern Man Advice

 

[Kotaix]

If the sex keeps getting better, hold on to her.

To keep her around, just keep being you and live by your principles. The problem is when men start grovelling to women after they have made a mistake or after the honeymoon period is over.

Don't let the happiness screw with your head.

 

[Dr.Suave]

A dentist... I love a woman who respects teeth. Mexican?

Yes, we are both Mexican. We live a couple hours drive from Texas.

 

[MatureDJ]

I've only got 20 remaining natural teeth, so I am impressed.

 

[MatureDJ]

The only advice I can give you is not to give a fukk. It really is that simple. But it's a mindset, not a bag of tricks. Not only will she pick up on it and stay invested, but you'll always be ready if it doesn't last.

A dentist... I love a woman who respects teeth. Mexican?

I like a gal who respects the object of her intimacy enough to keep the teeth out of it.

 

[Atom Smasher]

The one thing to remember every day of your life in a ltr is to never, ever get comfortable and dependent. Weakness usually starts to manifest for most men in a ltr, and that’s usually what erodes her respect for you. The men who make it work are the ones who catch themselves slipping snd proactively change that behavior.
To put it another way, we make her our new mommy. It works for a while but the relationship starts to implode as she inexplicably starts to lose respect more and more.
Stay mysterious. Be the one who is responsible for the relationship. Lead boldly and without apology. Avoid becoming emotionally dependent. Be dominant and be her authority, while still treating her well and with times of affection. Watch out for that weakness that inevitably creeps in. Say no to her occasionally without apology. Don’t feel the need to explain everything to her. Clearly communicate disapproval if any bad behavior.
By maintaining your male energy, you’ll be able to keep her on the hook for a long time.