I feel very nervous by tall, muscular men (I'm a girl)

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I don't understand why. People say this happens when a girl has low self esteem. But I feel very comfortable about myself; I don't have any self-esteem issues. If a muscular guy and I am in the same room, I feel like I have to get out fast (especially if he's outgoing)! I don't understand how girls have the guts to sleep with them...LOL!

My question is to muscular guys: Have noticed girls acting like this? Do most girls act awkward by you?
 

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I'm extroverted 6'3 210 lbs with broad shoulders. I have, just like you, noticed this - but only with submissive girls. We men tend to love submissive girls, so keep at it as long as you give the man a chance to approach, and give him some signs of interest. :)
 

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I've had 3 seperate women tell me in the past month and a half that they are "intimidated" by me...one told me that I intimidated and excited her at the same time...

I'm not tall, only 5' 9" but I am built like a beast...

Not sure exactly what this means...when I asked them what was so intimidating about me they said they didn't really know, its just what they felt when they were around me...
 

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I'm relatively tall (6') but I'm also a big guy; big forearms, broad shoulders, large hands. I've noticed more petite women are somewhat intimidated by me because of my size (I have been told this too), but there's not much I can do about it. Strike up a conversation with a few, a lot of times bigger guys tend to be on the quieter more reserved side.
 

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princess_124 said:
I don't understand why. People say this happens when a girl has low self esteem. But I feel very comfortable about myself; I don't have any self-esteem issues. If a muscular guy and I am in the same room, I feel like I have to get out fast (especially if he's outgoing)! I don't understand how girls have the guts to sleep with them...LOL!

My question is to muscular guys: Have noticed girls acting like this? Do most girls act awkward by you?
Just drop your panties and bend over, then they will be really nice to you.
 

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This is a men's dating tips site. Why are you posting here?

Goto loveshack or Cosmo or some shīt.

P.S I feel like you're a small out of shape man, posting about your insecurities under the guise woman.

If you are, your pathetic.

If you are indeed a woman take VikingKing's advice & stfu. We have enough feminine posts around here.
 

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im in good shape, and a lot of women act weird around me, it makes it very hard to talk to them. if i try to talk to them or be friendly some of them just completely shut down. i dont know what to do. there is no answer. if i try to talk to them they will end up avoiding me, if i ignore them they will get angry and think im arrogant.
 

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Will just cut through the fog of B.S

Looks/ height matter. Case closed. jury dismissed. Onto the next big thing ( Ebola, Pokimon, Labron James, etc)
 

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BackInTheGame78 said:
I've had 3 seperate women tell me in the past month and a half that they are "intimidated" by me...one told me that I intimidated and excited her at the same time...

I'm not tall, only 5' 9" but I am built like a beast...

Not sure exactly what this means...when I asked them what was so intimidating about me they said they didn't really know, its just what they felt when they were around me...
I get told the same "intimidating" thing too. Also 5'9 and muscular. Not really so sure why or how to fix it
 

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im in good shape, and a lot of women act weird around me, it makes it very hard to talk to them. if i try to talk to them or be friendly some of them just completely shut down. i dont know what to do. there is no answer. if i try to talk to them they will end up avoiding me, if i ignore them they will get angry and think im arrogant.
Omg sorry I'm I'm of those women lol! But I can't help it ... I can't talk to a hot guy without getting Nervous lol


I am fairly muscular, and the only thing I have noticed is women's crotches start to drip when they are around me.

I think you are just a little weird honey, post some pics and we can advise better. Topless preferred. Bottomless preferred even more.
How do you know this????? Do you put your finger there lol
 

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I'm 1,93 85 kg of pure muscle and very low fat.
I have met only 3 kinds of chicks.

1) These chicks feel very attracted to me and they don't hesitate touch my muscles or make comments about my physique.

2) These ones usually are neutral to it but if you ask them what do they think about a muscular guy , they say it's unattractive and they wouldn't date such a guy. Funny though all of their bfs are very big or some times they just can't resist to my body.

3) those don't care at all . They have very low standards.There are some cases that they would take the really fat guy instead for the lean only muscle one.
 

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Jesus ya fvck, at least TRY to make your troll posts a bit more realistic. I mean, who in the HELL is scared of an outgoing guy? He's clearly got nothing to hide.

I've already been typing too much. Gtfo stupid troll.
 

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I think you are just a little weird honey, post some pics and we can advise better. Topless preferred. Bottomless preferred even more.
Umm I'd rather not see a random girl from the internet naked. Not even homo, just playing the odds. 90% chance my eyes would burn.
 
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