I feel totally crap

[cremdela]

This girl has realy ****ed me up and made me feel stupid. She starts working for the firm i work for about 6 months ago. She is always dramtatic and belives in astrology and ****. I knew she had a shaded past and didnot relly want my boss to hire her under me.

Anyway she gets relly close to me and flirts alway with me. the other day i pretends to poke her in the eye as a joke and she licked my finger. She hugs me and massages me and gets me to masage her to. We had sex a long time ago but she was a stripper back then and i never tld anyone but sometime she acts like it bother her and sometimes she makes out like it was not problem.

SHe come on to me and then sometime she withdraws. Other day i see her folder and i were looking for notes on this client and i see a astrology report and she had asked about work and things and also about me and some other man. So she never tell me of the other man but i know abut him, he is rich older man.

I dig deeper and see tickets to flights on a day she told me she was going to a friends and had to leave early. She had a card saying seeya for valentine sexy and a omega watch receipt. it is clear she is screwing ths older man and hinting at me and asking astrolgy about us.

I thought a cheater cuold change its spots but she is still a mistress or hooker and not telling me even thugh she alwy say that we will always be close and my sucess depend on her help becuase she pushes me to succeed. Which is a bit true.

I am upset becuase she act all proper and then some older man gets to fu#k her.
She teases me. I alwys thouht it was weird that she only sometime care that i no her past and sometime she talk abuot it as if it mean nothing.

I hate women now and she has pissed me off and i want to treat her how she treats me and just fu#k her brains out. She alway want to meet for things but i never have. She cant hurt me at work and i have no one to answer to so i want to get at her. I buy lunches for her sometime and treet her well when she is relly just a prostitute who acts all proper.

Are all woman sh#t? How do I just fu#k her and use her the same as the other man? I am in a friend zone but not relly becuese she is so fuc#ed up that she is inapropriate.

I saw this site and read the bible and just want to fu#k her and dump her she obviuously like being treated like a wh#re so what is my best move?

 

[rgeere]

Don't get involved with co-workers ...

That, and I personally think you would be acting like a total dumbass if you did that f'er/d'er bit. Blow her off like she isn't anything to you or keep it casual.

 

[cremdela]

i read the stuff

i read the other posts and i know i sound desperate but i dont wnat to marry her or anything i want to call her on her flirt and use her back. realness said we shuold not complain and we shuold be real men and that is what i want to do.

She has relly caused me stress and has played up to me. I know she cannot fu3k me at work but i want to take her up on her plan to meet for fun and then get at her. There is a thin veil of being proper she flirt with men but is all over me and she ask the astrology dude for info about me and my influence on her. she feel some conection toward me.

i want to treat her like the slut she is but want to know how to just do it. it is not oneitis, it is revenge and geting my position of authority back and puting her back where she belong. she thinks she is equl to me but she is so fuc#ed up that this could be taken from her.

what wuold realnes do? i was going to tell her to get naked and lie on her bed for a massage and then go from there. at work i will just tel her what to do and not listen her **** about astrology and me and stuff.

 

[cremdela]

richard geere

i cant get in truoble at work my dad owns the company he lets me run it. he only cares if it makes him money and i hve no fear at work with her. she cant hurt me becuase there is noone she cuold tell to hurt me. i cuold cause her more problem by a mile so she would not try anything.

 

[rgeere]

Yeah, I'll tell you how to be a real man ... next time she starts to flirt with you, tell her to stop and mean it. If she doesn't, then file a sexual harassment lawsuit on her.

For all you know this could in fact be her intention.

And don't play games, those are childish.

 

[toasttopper1879]

crem,yer sound bitter mate.if shes that bad why are yer fussing so much.i think that yer need to get over her as soon as poss cos it'll wreck yer head at this rate.
alright so yer like her,even been with her,but she isnt exclusive to yer alone.its her choice how she carrys on and nowt yer can do will change her.
If this is her way then she isnt for you is she so try and move on mate and let her do her own thing.

 

[The_Becoming]

Sounds like you want to 'teach her a lesson' by fvcking her... oh that will show her.

Better advice -fire her azz! Now that will hit her where it hurts... then take the money you were paying her and spend it on some other strippper that you don't work with...

 

[cremdela]

ur probebly right

i get sick of her saying she will always be with me and she get sexual sometimes and she comes on all strong then cold. she has a personality disorder i think but all this time she tells me this stuff and even gets a profile about me. i think she only gets this profile becuase she must be intrested in me. then the whole time she is with this man and not telling me and having an affair for money and it makes me feel like a chump.

i was alwya s careful becuase i was her boss but now i realise she has no boundaries. she is not appropriate and her moods are all over the place. i just want to give her what she seems to want but not her dream. i get the felling she want to settle with me as the nice guy but then have this affair for money while acting all up and down with me.

I just thought i should treat her difernetly and then demand what she gives this old rich guy for free. i dont have to fire her she has blurred boundaries everywhere. she goes to church every week and gets all close to me as if we are maried almost or something. i think she gets angry that i help her and not use her to be honest, she only respects being used.

she is ****ed up in a big way and i dont want to rescue her anymore and i dont care about her anymore. why shuoldnt i have a fling with her. she cant hurt me.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Are you admiring a hor from afar?? She is horing and you seek her company???? Rise up and lift yourself from the trench of degradation and embrace your manhood ---- "Say "No" to prostituting hos!!!!!"

 

[disguise]

Re: ur probebly right

Originally posted by cremdela


she is ****ed up in a big way and i dont want to rescue her anymore and i dont care about her anymore. why shuoldnt i have a fling with her. she cant hurt me.
...I hate women now and she has pissed me off and i want to treat her how she treats me and just fu#k her brains out.
....i want to treat her like the slut she is but want to know how to just do it. it is not oneitis, it is revenge and geting my position of authority back and puting her back where she belong. she thinks she is equl to me but she is so fuc#ed up that this could be taken from her
...she cant hurt me becuase there is noone she cuold tell to hurt me.

Sh1t man where do you get your self respect!?!??
You sound seriously like you are bordering on becoming a rapist!

Yes, she's obviously a messed up individual with some serious problems. You screwing her for revenge is not exactly going to help!

A real man would make her get help, and personally stay out of it. If she won't get help, WALK AWAY (sack her, even file a harrassment suit. Whatever, just stay out of it yourself.) And she can't MAKE you give her massages. Or playfully pretend to poke her in the eye. Or just flirt in general. Take responsibility for yourself.

The reason people get so messed up is because they get used and abused by some significant person in their lives and don't have the resources to deal with that. It is not your job as a friend/former sex partner to rescue her, but as a human being using her for sex because she is messed up is not only degrading yourself it is acting like a spoilt selfish 6 year old. The only difference here is you are in a position of power over another (sick) human being. Remember, legally (not to mention ethically) speaking no matter what messed up signals a person sends, they always have the right to say no.

You should be a man and not take it, and in a normal case of just stupid female behaviour, realness' advice would be applicable. This is not a normal case, and you need to grow up and walk away.

A real man is not desperate enough to be emotionally destroyed by a mentally ill ex-stripper! Do not let yourself become an abuser/rapist over this, find a healthy woman who can treat you right.

 

[squirrels]

Re: Re: ur probebly right

Originally posted by disguise
You should be a man and not take it, and in a normal case of just stupid female behaviour, realness' advice would be applicable. This is not a normal case, and you need to grow up and walk away.

A real man is not desperate enough to be emotionally destroyed by a mentally ill ex-stripper! Do not let yourself become an abuser/rapist over this, find a healthy woman who can treat you right.

What he said.

 

[cremdela]

who said rape

I donnot want to rape her it isnt some thing i would ever do. i just feel certain that she would have sex with me. i think a don juan alrewady would have. i know she is fu#ked up but does that mean we cant have sex with them. i donnot want to marry her r anything i just was trying to help her and she obviuosly does not help herself so i thought i would just use her. she obviuosly likes being used. and getting a astrology person to answer questions about me means she has me in mind.

licking my fingers, pinching my arse, pretend fighting me, speaking about sex and nipple crippling me, massaging me and asking me to massage her and asking me to test her temprature on the back of her neck and everything else just shows me she is interested.

i donnot wqant to rape her or marry her i just figure treat a hoe as a hoe, fu#k trying to reason with her and help her out any more. just give her what she understands. i donnot think i will ever marry and i will never rape anyone so your help has not helped me.

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Originally posted by cremdela
This girl has realy ****ed me up and made me feel stupid. She starts working for the firm i work for about 6 months ago. She is always dramtatic and belives in astrology and ****. I knew she had a shaded past and didnot relly want my boss to hire her under me.

Anyway she gets relly close to me and flirts alway with me. She hugs me and massages me and gets me to masage her to. We had sex a long time ago but she was a stripper back then and i never tld anyone but sometime she acts like it bother her and sometimes she makes out like it was not problem.

SHe come on to me and then sometime she withdraws. it is clear she is screwing ths older man and hinting at me and asking astrolgy about us.

I am upset becuase she act all proper and then some older man gets to fu#k her. She teases me. I alwys thouht it was weird that she only sometime care that i no her past and sometime she talk abuot it as if it mean nothing.

I hate women now and she has pissed me off and i want to treat her how she treats me and just fu#k her brains out. She alway want to meet for things but i never have.

You´re just another victim of an Attention wh0re. Not all girls are like that. Don´t let those people fuk with your head!

You don´t need to mess what is already messed (their head!). Just read about Aws and you will know how to deal with them properly.

 

[CraigMack]

This girl has realy ****ed me up and made me feel stupid. She starts working for the firm i work for about 6 months ago. She is always dramtatic and belives in astrology and ****. I knew she had a shaded past and didnot relly want my boss to hire her under me.

Yes you are very stupid if you fawked with a girl that you work with. Who cares if she was a stripper whom you shagged before. The point is that your at work now and you shoulda left her alone to begin with.

She is a player. She will play you who obvioulsy has no game to handle women like this. This is why you would even post your troubles here in the first place.

But you did so what now? Your the man in your life so make a decision.

I am going to cut and past this other guys post here cause it taught me a good lessons also:




"Your the CEO of your life. You hire and fire all of the people who spend time in your life. If a person in orbit around you is causing you grief, it's your fault. You shoulda fired them from their job long ago before it ever even became a problem in your life/business.

How well you run your business/life as a ceo will determine how successful you will be in your own life!

Here are some words to send you on your way:

On this level of the game taught over here you must be able to be free in your attitude towards women enough to be convincing in the fact that you don't give a F*ck what they do, and that means believing at least somewhat inwardly that down deep you really don’t give a damn if the B*tch you are ****ing with is ****ing someone else...you dig!



You need to get used to the idea that will be sharing the P*ssy with someone else, at some point, if you are in the early stages of ****ing with a B*tch. That is why you must maintain ironclad control over your mind throughout the breaking-in process. First one to blink – acknowledge feelings and want exclusivity in sex – loses. And a B*tch will turn on you so fast you would think the devil was in her.



So what you need to do is to play this game is you have to be able to control the natural feelings of jealousy which arise in a man over his possessions - ie..your woman.


As one author wrote don’t end up like O.J. looking through the window while his freaky ex-wife was giving a ******* to a man on the living room couch while the kids were upstairs.

You need to read what I wrote on the 3 types of *****es. Look it up. If your girl is the cheatin type then she is either a freak or a ho and not a good girl.


If you know up front that the girl is a Freak, then you should automatically be placin your heart on lockdown. F*ck that jealous Sh*t over a got dam freak. They ain't worth the emotional effort!


You don’t want you mentally ****ed up and unable to concentrate at the next day just cause your B*tch didn’t call you last night.

And then your dumb ass gettin all broke down and calling her in the middle of the fuggin night only to find all of her phone Sh*t is turned off!


Don't be like that idot over at Sosuave JBBrains and wonderin what she’s doing? and why is her phone shut off!” Stupid, she’s getting ****ed stupid that's what she is doing, just hope that that other ******* isn't better at it than you are!



Your women are like a wild horse that you gotta tame. The B*tch will give you a few free rides but then her inner nature is gonna kick in and she will try to buck you off your game. If your ass is to ever master her you gotta show her that you don't give a F*ck!



I know it's hard knowing your B*tch was out ****ing someone else last night. Damn. And to think she probably sucked his D*ck, too… Yeah I feel ya playa. But if your ever going to conquer those trifflin asses make em tell you all about it next time your ****in and she is suckin ya D*ck.

Then F*ck her so good you put her ass to sleep. Then she will know who her daddy is and who she belongs too!"

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Originally posted by CraigMack
This girl has realy ****ed me up and made me feel stupid. She starts working for the firm i work for about 6 months ago. She is always dramtatic and belives in astrology and ****. I knew she had a shaded past and didnot relly want my boss to hire her under me.

Yes you are very stupid if you fawked with a girl that you work with. Who cares if she was a stripper whom you shagged before. The point is that your at work now and you shoulda left her alone to begin with.

She is a player. She will play you who obvioulsy has no game to handle women like this. This is why you would even post your troubles here in the first place.

But you did so what now? Your the man in your life so make a decision.

Then F*ck her so good you put her ass to sleep. Then she will know who her daddy is and who she belongs too!"

Player Supreme!