Hey guys,
I just wanted to let you all know that I've been rejected countless times...
Did I mention Michael Jordan has missed thousands upon thousands of shots...
It's not really a big deal. It's how you react after the rejection that matters
(You can learn as much from failure as you can from success)
Try going out with a super happy positive attitude... try approaching like 10 girls like this to pump up your state.
Go in with the attitude that you don't give a damn, and are out to have a good time no matter what happens.
Even if the set goes 'bad' just continue pressing on...
A lot of times an interaction that you initially think is 'bad' actually turns out good.
Remember that women will often put on a negative front when you first approach them, especially in a club. This is usually a test to see what your intentions are or if you'll tuck your tail between your legs and run away.
How you react to this often what makes or breaks you. Remain confident and positive no matter how she reacts.
Be completely unaffected by the outcome.
If the interaction still isn't going so well, just keep your head up, smile and move on. (whatever happened you got practice and probably learned something)
If you're a guy who's generally shy you probably have a pretty pessimistic attitude and are not even aware.
Deny that negative chatter box in your head from bothering you. You have to counter and shut off any negative thoughts and keep on treking!
I even have nights where I'm rejected countless times but can still end up having a good time. Maybe I'll meet some interesting characters, or just chill and have some good conversations.
A week ago I had such a 'bad' night, probably because I was in a negative state already. My anxiety felt like it was getting the most of me. I kept trying to pump up my state and had a lot of bad reactions from girls.
Anyways at the end of the night I ended up meeting a girl who I have a date with tonight.
What does this prove?
That persistence pays off especially in this game.
If I had let my bad mood get the most of me I would have given up, but I kept trying to have a good time and finally connected with someone...
Make every interaction a learning experience... good luck
I just wanted to let you all know that I've been rejected countless times...
Did I mention Michael Jordan has missed thousands upon thousands of shots...
It's not really a big deal. It's how you react after the rejection that matters
(You can learn as much from failure as you can from success)
Try going out with a super happy positive attitude... try approaching like 10 girls like this to pump up your state.
Go in with the attitude that you don't give a damn, and are out to have a good time no matter what happens.
Even if the set goes 'bad' just continue pressing on...
A lot of times an interaction that you initially think is 'bad' actually turns out good.
Remember that women will often put on a negative front when you first approach them, especially in a club. This is usually a test to see what your intentions are or if you'll tuck your tail between your legs and run away.
How you react to this often what makes or breaks you. Remain confident and positive no matter how she reacts.
Be completely unaffected by the outcome.
If the interaction still isn't going so well, just keep your head up, smile and move on. (whatever happened you got practice and probably learned something)
If you're a guy who's generally shy you probably have a pretty pessimistic attitude and are not even aware.
Deny that negative chatter box in your head from bothering you. You have to counter and shut off any negative thoughts and keep on treking!
I even have nights where I'm rejected countless times but can still end up having a good time. Maybe I'll meet some interesting characters, or just chill and have some good conversations.
A week ago I had such a 'bad' night, probably because I was in a negative state already. My anxiety felt like it was getting the most of me. I kept trying to pump up my state and had a lot of bad reactions from girls.
Anyways at the end of the night I ended up meeting a girl who I have a date with tonight.
What does this prove?
That persistence pays off especially in this game.
If I had let my bad mood get the most of me I would have given up, but I kept trying to have a good time and finally connected with someone...
Make every interaction a learning experience... good luck
