I don't know how I got so jaded... (VENT)

[squirrels]

The last couple of women I've dealt with have just left me jaded. Women who show high interest level when I meet them, give up the number readily, and then never answer the phone/call back when I call them. Women who I've gone out with before, had a great, intimate time, then they just start breaking dates. Dumb sh!t. Just STUPID.

I'm frustrated because I have to actually spend the time to get to KNOW these worthless b!tches before I can sleep with them. I'm horny and I want sex, but I just can't put up with this. They're a PITA and are always playing these stupid games. I don't enjoy this game...it gets on my nerves. Everything about it is just a waste of time. And women WILL waste your time, swear up and down that they want to see you and that they're into you and then act like dumbasses when you actually try to meet them...or one minute they'll want to jump your bones and the next they'll be "busy".

And then they wonder why they can't find any good men...because when you DO, you start playing these STUPID F*CKING GAMES and P!SS ALL THE GOOD MEN OFF! Dumb wh0res. Fvcking Cosmo-reading clowns..."50 Tips that You Think Will Get You a Good Man but End Up Chasing Off All but the Most Desperate Losers!"

It should be simple...if you like hanging out with me and I like hanging out with you, let's spend more time together. If not, let's just be friends or go our separate ways.

But they have to make it into a complicated frikkin science.

WHY??! Because WOMEN ARE LOUSY SCIENTISTS. They suck at logical thinking. So they try to take the one thing everyone assumes they're good at just by virtue of them being women (love and relationships) and try to make a bastard-science out of that. And FAIL MISERABLY. For three reasons:

1) Women suck at thinking.
2) Romance is not a science
3) Contrary to popular belief, women don't know D!CK about romance or relationships and the media should be lined up and shot execution-style for convincing them that having a vag!na gives them any innate knowledge of romance.

Some people argue that playing the game is half the fun. I don't like this game. I don't see how you can get any enjoyment out of it. By the time you manage to get intimate with her, you've already been through so much sh!t that you lose interest or just generally HATE her.

The only reason that men stay in relationships is desperation. Cold, hard desperation that keeps them coming at these mediocre, pain-in-the-butt women despite the mountains and mountains of utter sh!t that gets shoveled at them.

"So just forget about women," you say? I'm FVCKING HORNY. I have a healthy sex-drive for a 25-year-old male and my hand isn't doing sh!t to satisfy that. But getting it isn't worth running the damned gauntlet every goddam time. I'm tired of wasting my time. I'd actually rather just pay hookers right now to take care of it, if I could find some who are cheap, yet clean.

I feel frustrated...I know what I need to do to get women, but I don't feel like doing it...the effort doesn't justify the prize.

And I hate women severely for being so short-sighted and STUPID that they can't see how they're f**king over not only US men, but THEMSELVES as well. They scream and cry about how they can't find a good man or about how good men never stay around, then they turn around and CONTINUE DOING THE SAME DAMNED SH!T THAT CHASES THEM AWAY, that puts their cost above their value.

As men, especially "Don Juans," if we see something we're doing isn't working, we f'ing change it. Women see somethign isn't working, so they KEEP F'ING DOING IT and BLAME US for it not working!! Of all the arrogant, ignorant nerve!! GOD DAMMIT!!

In the year I've been doing this I've met one, maybe two, women who are actually straight-up about what they want and know how to get it. The rest...Jesus, what a sad, sorry case they are.

There's so much venom here right now...sexual frustration, boredom, anger, offense taken, repulsion...I'm tired of it. I'm tired of being forced to play this game. It's no fun...and it's so easily avoidable if women would just stop screwing around and get with the program.

I have very little tolerance for idiocy...and right now women are at the very pinnacle of idiocy. I'm sorry...I just can't continue to lower myself to their idiotic level to try to get in their pants, and they obviously won't pull their heads out of their asses long enough to rise up to my level.

*breathe* *breathe*

I don't know any more. If you feel the same way, if you're tired of it, let it out here. If you have some advice, I'll listen. If you want to criticize me, I'll listen to that too. I'm just tired of it...like a soldier at war whose combat high has finally faded and just wants to get out alive and go home.

 

[Jariel]

I hear you, man! But sometimes the only answer is to beat them at their own games until they're the ones who are frustrated.

 

[Ricky]

Squirrels I really respect your writing on a number of issues and I agree with you on this one as well.

I have always felt like I compromised to get into a girls pants. I mean I would love to have a girlfriend that thought logically, was fun and didn't start stupid arguments.

Alas, it hasn't happened. I am jaded to the point that even now when I am starting with another new girl that I think is great, I find myself wondering how long it will take until I see her true colors.

If you read 7 dates to the inner bytch, you know with one girl it took exactly that long, which was actually strung out over a period of almost 2 months. Ironically she broke up with me before Christmas and New Years, a time women typically hate to be alone at. Although she had already celebrated her work party and one of her family parties.

The only thing to do Squirrels is to keep fighting and meeting new girls. I've been doing it for about 13 years now. At least enjoy the fact that you found out how worthless some of these women were before you ever made a commitment to them. I have some friends that married the most worthless, poor attitude bytches and now they are stuck with them, unless they want to lose half.

The world is stacked against being a man nowadays. The only thing we can do is not to become wussy men who are yes men to their wives and bosses everyday.

 

[CLOONEY]

LOL, squirrels, it was 2 woman! Man, PLENTY more out there. Hate to always sound like the optimist, but its the truth. Stop trying to take things so seriously with them and just get out there and enjoy it. It should be like music, you just feel it and enjoy it, you dont think about it and overanalyse it. Chicks can jsut sense these things, same as a dance instructor can pick it if you are counting your steps while doing salsa! Just relax and enjoy it! If things dont work out, make sure you just have the numbers of a few other ladies to fall back on, if they dont work out, even better, this just gives you an opportunity to go out into the PU scene again (which is probably the funnest part of the lot)!

 

[Oxide]

haha.. have you checked this thread out man...

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&postid=580893#post580893


You know man, i been talking to a couple of good looking girls who are 18... and there seems to be a good pattern going:
"Most of the cute girls you meet will be quite unoriginal.. they will piss you off in one way or another.. some are attention *****s, some act like they are little babies, some are just sluts... you wonder why all the good girls are taken.. this is exactly why.. becuase they are rare...

I know this isnt really a ray of hope.. but you gotta remember that for every 100 stupid chicks there is one intellegent beautiful one.. now all you have to do is find her and kill her boyfriend..

 

[TyTe`EyEs]

All girls are scandalous IMHO. It's gotten to the point where a LTR is the last thing I'm looking for. I just try to meet girls at bars and wrap it up. This way I don't have to go through all the bullsh!t.

 

[squirrels]

I kinda realized how much of an ass I'm being...I expect to be able to accomplish my ends in life without any sacrifice, without any scars.

I understand now that it's not going to happen, that chicks are naturally flaky and it's not possible to expect consistent attraction from them all the time, every one...or even for them to be honest about their feelings. It's something I'm just going to have to deal with.

Without pain, without sacrifice, we would have nothing...

I don't wanna die without any scars.

At any rate, I IM'd the one chick tonight, the one who was cancelling on me, she claims she "hates to admit it, but she's been thinking about me." I told her to stop making plans that she can't keep and she was all apologetic and swore to me she'd make it up to me, so I told her to scope out a party for New Years somewhere in DC (close to where she lives). If she comes through, great, I'll be happy to spend some time with her. If not, I'm not going to run from or try to deny the scar she's left...but I'll learn from it and take it with me. I've got other options for sh!t to do, chick or no chick.

At the same time, I'll have to start exploring some new options...some chicks are gonna be up front and easy to sex right off the bat. Others are going to take a date or two...and still others are going to be knock-down, drag-out fights. But those are the ones you learn from. You do what you can to prepare and the rest you just have to get your hands dirty with.

I guess I felt entitled to instant gratification just by virtue of being attractive, smart, and fun. But life isn't fair and my comeuppance is something I'll have to build on my own with my own blood and sweat.

In the meantime, I've got too much going on to get bent over chicks. I enjoy the pain I feel after a good workout...I need to enjoy the pain after a good go-around with a flaky, ridiculous chick. Hell, it just means that I'm getting stronger.

Scars are signs of a life well-lived.

 

[Oxide]

...or a fight poorly lost...


you gotta get your feet wet once in awhile, doesnt mean you have to let yourself drown.