I don't even need game...

RollinDo

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It's awesome I don't play the C&F and neg hits and all that bs to attract chicks. I was just way too shy before but I found out that all I have to do is show an interest in them and the female will show interest back then kino, maybe tease(naturally though), then get the number and its sooo easy(oh and maintain Alpha status). The only hard part is not thinking. Thats the key to success just gotta tell my mind to STFU and I gotta move. This site makes it seem so complicated with the DJ Bible and the mass amounts of info really its easier than most people think.
 

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If its so easy for you, why did you come on to this site in the first place?
 

RollinDo

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Because I was a big pu$$y and had to double check every little move I'd make. I'd seriously come on here and read through tons of threads to find out what to do even though I already knew. Seriously 2 nights ago I let this chick see my phone cause she asked to and later that night I was looking through my contacts and her number was in my phone...well shes a 5 so its not that cool but for me it is considering last year I was scared to talk to almost any female cause I didn't want to fu*k up. But yea I got chicks on my **** even if they are ugly I have to keep cool for the hot chicks but damn if you knew me from freshman year man...
 

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"I don't even need game..."

Well thats interesting...

-all I have to do is show an interest in them

-kino

-maybe tease (naturally though) uh bro we don't teach people to come off "unnaturally" here but uh yeah good job with this.

-then get the number

-maintain Alpha status

-not thinking

-I gotta move

Sounds like you're using game to me.

Maybe not a whole lot but thats alright, sometimes thats all it takes. :up:

"This site makes it seem so complicated with the DJ Bible and the mass amounts of info really its easier than most people think."

Well some guys when they come here are so foolish and clueless they need a lot more explanation than others.

Consider yourself lucky you got what you needed much quicker than most. :yes:

Of course if you ever run into any huge stumbling blocks down the road that large pile of information will still be here when you need it at which point you may come to think differently about it as in being more appreciative of it.
 

RollinDo

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KontrollerX said:
"I don't even need game..."

Well thats interesting...

-all I have to do is show an interest in them

-kino

-maybe tease (naturally though) uh bro we don't teach people to come off "unnaturally" here but uh yeah good job with this.

-then get the number

-maintain Alpha status

-not thinking

-I gotta move

Sounds like you're using game to me.

Maybe not a whole lot but thats alright, sometimes thats all it takes. :up:

"This site makes it seem so complicated with the DJ Bible and the mass amounts of info really its easier than most people think."

Well some guys when they come here are so foolish and clueless they need a lot more explanation than others.

Consider yourself lucky you got what you needed much quicker than most. :yes:

Of course if you ever run into any huge stumbling blocks down the road that large pile of information will still be here when you need it at which point you may come to think differently about it as in being more appreciative of it.
well I do use game then...never really thought about it I always considered running game being like an act to get chicks. I guess I just got comfortable with my game:woo:

oh ya and I am appreciative of the DJ bible cause it definitely got me started but its like pages and pages. Its so detailed...that must be why its got the 'bible' on the end
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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i couldve posted this exact same post. thats exactly what i went through as well. i was overthinking all this **** when before i realized that all i had to do was come out of my shell because i already had game, i was just too deep in thought to let it out naturally. i have the exact same philosophy, just dont think and everything naturally just comes to me. youre right it is kinda hard at first to teach yourself to stop thinking but once you do its easy as ****. KontrollerX is also right we are the few lucky 'naturals' that already get it, but were just too shy or lost in their own mind to let it out. we just have to stop thinking and get doing in the moment. this probably doesnt apply to everyone, some people arent plagued by too much thinking but just didnt naturally pick up game. everyone has a different problem.

and eaglez1177, its easy for me too. tbh i dont even know why i still come to this site. i rarely ever read something that actually helps anymore and you'll notice i never ask questions because i never need help. i guess i can just help people, maybe post some advice in this thread or something. but really i only come cuz i have nothing else to do sometimes and its so easy to just check here quickly because im bored and might maybe run into something useful. i came here in the first place because i was just shy in general. i wont say this site didnt help me though, it did help a ton, im just saying the main issue with me and probably the OP had nothing to do with not knowing game but just some internal thing like being shy or being clustermind****ed all the time by useless crap.
 

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I swear, the biggest obstacle for the people who visit this site is a tendency to overanalyze and rethink every move. I've noticed that when I tell my normally analytic mind to ****off for bit, I'm a DJ, but when I allow my mind step in, even for a moment, **** goes awry until I push it back out again.

For me, this is a big issue that I need to keep working on and calibrate. I've come up with a technique to practice not thinking... by just staring into space (or meditating as they call it) for a few minutes every day. My goal is to be able to clear my mind at a moment's notice, thus eliminating all this anxiety bull****.
 

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chuk15 said:
I swear, the biggest obstacle for the people who visit this site is a tendency to overanalyze and rethink every move. I've noticed that when I tell my normally analytic mind to ****off for bit, I'm a DJ, but when I allow my mind step in, even for a moment, **** goes awry until I push it back out again.

For me, this is a big issue that I need to keep working on and calibrate. I've come up with a technique to practice not thinking... by just staring into space (or meditating as they call it) for a few minutes every day. My goal is to be able to clear my mind at a moment's notice, thus eliminating all this anxiety bull****.


God your post is golden!!

I gotta rep you, this is one of th reasons I stopped posting here for a few months. Some guys over-anaylze everything to death, which makes me wonder how good they really are, read this shiit, interalize it, then act upon it. It's that simple, no need to anaylze every hot damn thing

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