ok, so after lurking here for a few short months and reading the DJ bible (I'm about half through now) i have figured out all of my problems
I've been flirting with/ kinoing a lot of girls at school, and one day i got it in my head that i had a lil crush on one of them. Only after reading through "Weapons of Mass Seduction" by Señor Fingers did i realize that i had no chance with this chick. I had those AFC thoughts in the back of my mind- does she like me? oh no! what if she doesnt? Should i ask her out now? etc
it has come to my attention that those thoughts have subconsciously communicated to her that i lacked confidence, and that she didnt really respect me.
I could not be happier. I am so glad that i figured this out and that the change has to happen within
anyway, I'm just venting here and feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders for seeing the light
I've been flirting with/ kinoing a lot of girls at school, and one day i got it in my head that i had a lil crush on one of them. Only after reading through "Weapons of Mass Seduction" by Señor Fingers did i realize that i had no chance with this chick. I had those AFC thoughts in the back of my mind- does she like me? oh no! what if she doesnt? Should i ask her out now? etc
it has come to my attention that those thoughts have subconsciously communicated to her that i lacked confidence, and that she didnt really respect me.
I could not be happier. I am so glad that i figured this out and that the change has to happen within
anyway, I'm just venting here and feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders for seeing the light