"I didn't think I'd see you again..."

[Jhcl4000]

At the end of my second date with a girl she said "I really didn't think I'd see you again after the first date.." (first date was awesome by the way)

I asked her why she thought that and she said she didn't know. This was kinda confusing to me.. Thoughts?

 

[PokerStar]

not enough info to help out.

1. what did you do on your date?
2. have you been blowing up her phone with calls and texts?
3. any IOI's you can recall?

 

[AlexDP]

Probably the opposite of 2 IMO. Which is a good thing.

 

[Jhcl4000]

not enough info to help out.

1. what did you do on your date?
2. have you been blowing up her phone with calls and texts?
3. any IOI's you can recall?

1.) Met at a bar and had a drink. Kissing and touching ensued but no sex. (I pushed for it, and even though it was obvious that she wanted it as bad as I did, she wouldn't "let herself" do it on the first date)
2.) No. We actually hadn't even talked for almost a month after the first date because she went out of town for a while.
3.) See 1.)

I'm just wondering why she might say/think/admit this to me at the end of the second date.. It's a weird thing to say for no reason in my opinion.

 

[squirrels]

Maybe she thought you were just after the p*ssy and thought you'd take off when she didn't give it up right away.

Maybe she thought SHE didn't live up to YOUR expectations.

At least you're keeping her guessing. Either way, if the date went well, just continue on as planned.

 

[thevilittletroll]

she was attracted to you during your first date. most likely it was physical attraction only. she needed to go out with you on a second date to see if you could attract her emotionally as well. she was trying to validate her attraction to you, to make sure it was real or just physical. the second date was a s.hit test. if you passed, you will get a 3rd date and you should be able to close the deal easily. if you dont get a 3rd date, you passed the first test, but failed the second. if you failed, work on making more of an emotional connection with the girl.

 

[DonGorgon]

At the end of my second date with a girl she said "I really didn't think I'd see you again after the first date.." (first date was awesome by the way)

I asked her why she thought that and she said she didn't know. This was kinda confusing to me.. Thoughts?

perfect opportunity to push pull and be alpha.. i would have said..

"well you seemed like a really cool chic, most females are not like you so i think i will give you a chance"