Im in a 3 yr ltr with my gf and we live together. For the last couple of months she has been saying she wants to leave when the lease is up yadda yadda. I think she might be fvcking around behind my back because of a couple of things I dont feel like typing right now.
Anyways Im frustrated with her because every weekened she just sleeps at her friends house or so she claims and during the week she just gets home from work late and goes to sleep.
This weekened I got p1ssed because she just doesnt wanna put in effort to fix our sh1t. I said some stuff to her nothing to bad though but she said some fvcked up sh1t. That was friday night. She slept at her friends house again. She got home and I was like wtf your problem yadda yadda. Then we made up and I was like lets go to dinner tonight because Im sick of feeling awkward around you because I really do. She said ok but will have to cancel on going up to see her friend because it was her sons bday and she said she didnt wanna go anway.
I go to the gym and get home and shes gone. I call her no answer then I text. She replies like an hour later "im sooooo sorry I had to come up and talk to so and so (a friend she had a falling out with a while ago) so it was believeable but she didnt even bother calling me to tell me.
So I said fvck it. A couple of weeks ago i ran into an ex i dated years ago and we didnt talk for years. Anways we end up making out for a tiny bit. We exchange phone numbers and the next weekened i ask her to come down and she said no cause she was sick. So yesterday i was like fvck it im going to try one more time and she ended up coming down.
We get drunk. She knows i live with my gf. she was like so what does gf think about you hanging out with me i was like shes out of town. Then shes like im sleeping in your bed yadda yadda. She had two friends with her. One of my friends ended up taking one home and another friend came to my house with the other friend and it was me and the ex. My friend ends up passing out on the couch which I never see him do that often despite the fact the girl was on top of him ready to fvck. We go in my room and immediately the ex takes off her clothes (my gfs pajamas i let her wear, ya its fvcked up). we start making out I eat her out for a little then her dumb friend comes in b1tching aobut my friend being passed out. Then the ex is like yea i feel uncomfortable because theres pictures of your gf and Im wearing her pjs etc. Im like who gives a fvck. But she gets up kisses me and says call me when you break up with her. so they leave.
I dont know what to do. Part of me wants to tell my gf what I did just to see what she would do because I think it was spike her interest level big time obviously. But then again she could see that as an easy out.
Regarding the ex i dont know what I wanna do with her. part of me wants to pursue her and another just wants to fvck her and thats it. We dated for like a month so we were never in a huge ltr or anything.
Im going to ask the ex to come down again next weekened becuase I know the gf will want to do her own thing. I wanna take the ex around and atleast have a friend of my gf see me with her. i would rather stay with my gf and i think she would realize sh1t if she saw me with another girl espcially because she is very good looking. seriously its to the point with my gf that I cant just talk it out I got take action and break out the big guns to make her realize sh1t I think.
Anyways Im frustrated with her because every weekened she just sleeps at her friends house or so she claims and during the week she just gets home from work late and goes to sleep.
This weekened I got p1ssed because she just doesnt wanna put in effort to fix our sh1t. I said some stuff to her nothing to bad though but she said some fvcked up sh1t. That was friday night. She slept at her friends house again. She got home and I was like wtf your problem yadda yadda. Then we made up and I was like lets go to dinner tonight because Im sick of feeling awkward around you because I really do. She said ok but will have to cancel on going up to see her friend because it was her sons bday and she said she didnt wanna go anway.
I go to the gym and get home and shes gone. I call her no answer then I text. She replies like an hour later "im sooooo sorry I had to come up and talk to so and so (a friend she had a falling out with a while ago) so it was believeable but she didnt even bother calling me to tell me.
So I said fvck it. A couple of weeks ago i ran into an ex i dated years ago and we didnt talk for years. Anways we end up making out for a tiny bit. We exchange phone numbers and the next weekened i ask her to come down and she said no cause she was sick. So yesterday i was like fvck it im going to try one more time and she ended up coming down.
We get drunk. She knows i live with my gf. she was like so what does gf think about you hanging out with me i was like shes out of town. Then shes like im sleeping in your bed yadda yadda. She had two friends with her. One of my friends ended up taking one home and another friend came to my house with the other friend and it was me and the ex. My friend ends up passing out on the couch which I never see him do that often despite the fact the girl was on top of him ready to fvck. We go in my room and immediately the ex takes off her clothes (my gfs pajamas i let her wear, ya its fvcked up). we start making out I eat her out for a little then her dumb friend comes in b1tching aobut my friend being passed out. Then the ex is like yea i feel uncomfortable because theres pictures of your gf and Im wearing her pjs etc. Im like who gives a fvck. But she gets up kisses me and says call me when you break up with her. so they leave.
I dont know what to do. Part of me wants to tell my gf what I did just to see what she would do because I think it was spike her interest level big time obviously. But then again she could see that as an easy out.
Regarding the ex i dont know what I wanna do with her. part of me wants to pursue her and another just wants to fvck her and thats it. We dated for like a month so we were never in a huge ltr or anything.
Im going to ask the ex to come down again next weekened becuase I know the gf will want to do her own thing. I wanna take the ex around and atleast have a friend of my gf see me with her. i would rather stay with my gf and i think she would realize sh1t if she saw me with another girl espcially because she is very good looking. seriously its to the point with my gf that I cant just talk it out I got take action and break out the big guns to make her realize sh1t I think.
