i cant stop - any advice and tips to cut the habit?

[die4me]

i tried the 40 days and 40 nights thing. every other two days i jacked off again and it's starting to annoy me. i wanna cut the habit out because i always feel drained afterwards, and my nuts hurt, making me just sit around letting it heal off when i can be doing things. i even cancelled a date once because i was feeling so drained. what makes it worse is that i work out often, and it just causes more stress, especially when i'm doing plyometrics for better jumping - how did some of you cut it down to only once a week or so? or cut the habit out completely? i can't seem to.

i'm not looking for negative comments or remarks, just give me a few tips to help me cut the habit. thanks yall.

 

[Dee-Zy]

Do ALOT of exercise. That's how priests do it. The trick is to channel your energy into something else: physical activites (or se with actual females ).

 

[Starman]

Hit your c0ck with a sledgehammer after everytime you do it..I guarantee you..you wont do it again

 

[Walden]

40 days and 40 nights ???

Yeah , I have no suggestions but an interested to hear any.

Have been trying to go cold turkey but I manage to last like 3 days and 3 nights at best

 

[Jango_Xavier]

Yeah, I need some advice too.
The longest ive held out is a week.

 

[Oxide]

This is 6th day for me. AFter reading Sammo's post where he said "always try going against yourself and do something you wouldnt normally do" Ive given up pop and mastubation for a week, and i feel great. Surely i think of mastubating when my friend shows me all the cool porn he's downloaded, but i am no longer possed by mah ****, and it feels awesome

 

[die4me]

Originally posted by Walden
40 days and 40 nights ???

Yeah , I have no suggestions but an interested to hear any.

Have been trying to go cold turkey but I manage to last like 3 days and 3 nights at best

They had a thread where you were challenged to not masturbate for 40 days and 40 nights...

 

[tiburon]

No Problem

My friend i think you have it all wrong ..what is happening to you i s a good thing it is only back if you have a gf or other women you could screw with.
Be yourself and instead of masturbating try to hava as often as you used to masturbate....if you do protect yourself and
if you keep masturbating is all good but take your time it can cause pre ejaculation


TIBURON

 

[Julian]

You suckas talk about jerkin the jerky like its a bad thing. How do you feel drained? Are you doing backflips while u buff the banana or what?

I mean ****, its healthy for the prostate, builds your shooting ability, and you can teach yourself to hold out longer during sex, but most of all. ITS NATURAL WOOHOO.

Anyway, i can understand it getting out of control for some but ****, i do it once a day, its a great stress reliever, and its there... so why not haha.

But as others have said habits are best stopped by substituting something else in its place.

 

[The Professional]

Originally posted by Starman
Hit your c0ck with a sledgehammer after everytime you do it..I guarantee you..you wont do it again

Yeah... after doing that you won't be doing anything else with it ever.

 

[OddTech]

Originally posted by Dee-Zy
Do ALOT of exercise. That's how priests do it.

And the priests turn into pedophiles.

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

Why would you want to give it up in the first place? If I had a **** I'd be forever masturbating.

 

[BobbDobbs]

Not only is it perfectly normal, it is healthy. A new study just released shows that those young men who frequently jack off have lower rates of prostate cancer later in life.

If you are injuring yourself, just don't wank off as hard.

If you feel drained, it might be a psychological issue.

You should easily be able to wank off once a day without any physical issues. Many times a day might lead to skin issues.

If I wank off more than once a day, my balls do get a bit sore. But if only once a day, I'm good to go.

 

[NewMan]

What the F?

Pulling the Poker is the Sh#t.... Don't get me wrong, sex is great, but you just can't beat the real thing

I just got DSL - ****, Sunday afternoon I was downloading p#rn, jerking off for like 3 hours the first time, then 1 hour the second. Felt great - b#lls aching like hell.

Even when I was in my LTR, I'd Tug the Tiger every day. Gotta make sure the pipes are working....

Hell, I'm gonna check out some p#rn...

 

[Unregistered]

Don't beat it during the day. Beat it before you go to bed!!!

It's 2 A.M. here. Go, soldier!!

 

[Duke]

Nuttin' wrong with wackin' it man. But if you know you're gonna meet up with some ladies, I'd hold out for a few days....Extra motivation to TRY to be *suave.*

I make contracts with myself that say that if I don't make any moves when I'm out with da ladies, then I can't wank when I get home. Just stay true to the contract. Tough love, my friend .

Don't ever give it up totally. It isn't natural.

 

[confused_girly]

DON'T GIVE IT UP!!!!

See:
http://story.news.yahoo.com/news?tmpl=story&u=/nm/20030716/ts_nm/health_masturbation_dc_6

If you need an excuse, you have one!!!!

 

[Cremasta]

Its mine... and I'll wash it as fast as I ****ing like.

 

[dionysius_d]

No. It is not pulling it that is draining you, its cumming.

Try to experiment, and see if you can masturbate without ejaculating. You will then not feel drained or lethargic, but retain your strength.

People don't realize it takes a while to replenish sperm stores, and also it requires vitamins, minerals and other fluids from the body.

I have done the 40 days .. if you don't *** after a month or so though, its likely you will have an night emission and it will empty anyway (unless you are sick etc.).

From a psychological point of view, examine why you are doing it. Don't do it out of boredom, escapism or for something to do. Make it quality time with yourself.

 

[Albion2]

Only a person who can accomplish the most difficult of tasks can master the skills those tasks require.

Masturbation, any form of sex really, is a literal chemical addiction created by your instincts. Just like an amphetamine or an opiate, the chemical ****tail produced in your brain while you're doing anything sexual is very addictive. But just like a junkie, with will power you can go all the way. All you have to do is remember, unlike quitting a controlled substance, at least after 40 days you can pound one out.

-al