I can't see you I want to dedicate all my time to my dauther?

backseatjuan

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I met this girl last Monday via online dating service, kind of like plentyoffish. I created my profile Sunday night, didn't finish it, and Monday morning I had a message from her. 22 year old mother, divorced 1.5 months ago, has 2 year old daughter, was married for 1.4 years. So I establish some online rapport with her and we both like coffee, so I invite her to go drink some coffee. She tells me she's only free after her baby goes to sleep, 10ish at night. She hesitated but I say it's ok and calm her down. Then around 10ish I call her and there was some more hesitation, she has to give a gift to her mother, she wanted to meet some other day, but I played it forgot how, but I end up picking her up at 11.

This is worth mentioning cuz it's cute. She tells me story, she's at bus stop waiting for me to pick her up. Car pulls up and she sits in, and asks the guy if it's me, and the guy was like wtf? Yes he has a profile online but no he wasn't suppose to meet her. Anyway... Yes I had pic of me up.

So I pick her up, and we go for some coffee. She don't shut up the whole way, I don't even have to say anything. We end up taking some greek fast food with us called suvlaki and I drive her, with her permission, on top of a mountain where not a soul is around. After I told her I'm freezing, she initiated some kino while we were inline for suvlaki. So at 12:30 at night, on top of a mountain with a great view of the city, not a soul around, we start making love. I didn't use condom, and she didn't ask for it. She's great at foreplay, gives excellent blow jobs, sucks the balls too, rides and *** on my **** like 10 times until 2 in the morning. Ask her if she'd take it in her ass, she says yes, I take a condom out of my wallet, but without lube it wouldn't go in. Anyway, we ****ed really really ****ing good. She asked me not to *** inside her, I tried cumming on her face but didn't make it there, came on her belly, then finger fed my *** to her mouth, plus she ate whatever was left on my ****. At 2 in the morning there was some serious condensation inside my car, I had to run air for 20 minutes before we could drive.

I drive her home, all is nice. The next day I give her a call, she ends up not going because it's her female roommate's night out. But the next day I take 3 suvlaki and drive to her place, we eat them and drive 20 miles out of town to a beach, again, not a soul around, we end up ****ing for another 1.5 hours, I *** inside her this time. Then after our love hour and a half I say something that might have been my **** up, or at least one of them. I tell her after our last love making my **** is itching for some reason. She says it can't each that fast, need at least 1 week and if I had a VD there'd be some fluid coming out. I brush it off, maybe it's itching for you baby. We make out some more and then she says something 'we not going to do this again, I need to give all my time to my baby girl'. She's sleepy I drive her home. She promises tomorrow she'll stay with me all night till 9am.

But next day comes, and it falls on Thursday, she can't stay. Then Friday she can't stay cuz Saturday she's moving to her mom's place.

Friday night we went picking up with my player friend, and advice he gave me is to take out her and her baby girl out into a park. Saturday she couldn't. But Sunday night I took her and her baby out. Then Monday I call her, she couldn't meet, was still at mom's place. Then Tuesday, yesterday, I call her in the morning, she says she's busy. I ask her to give me a call when she's free. No call, I give her a call in the evening asking what happened. She tells me we can't meet, she has to give all her time to her baby girl. She don't want a relationship, or anything else, and it's not me, she just has to give all her time to her baby girl. I tell her it's cuz you have another man, she laughed, and said no.

I ended up deleting her number.


But you see, before this girl I had two more (and before that a dry spell), I had a new girl every week, and they're with me 3 or 4 days maximum, then they begin ****ing my head and end up doing something similar described above. Well perhaps the two chicks before her don't count, cuz they were prostitutes that I took right out of hoe house and asked them to stay with me, I don't know.

Perhaps I'm clingy? Perhaps I call too often? Plz tell me WTF is going on? I want a girl friend and long term relationship. I know something is not right with my game, cuz they end up leaving me.
 

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Women = weird!

'we not going to do this again, I need to give all my time to my baby girl' which translates into - 'I am not into you - goodbye' after that she was messing about with you and after strike 2, I would have deleted her number and moved on.

'I tell her it's cuz you have another man, she laughed, and said no' Do not say this again if any chick pulls a stunt again! It sounds needy!

'Friday night we went picking up with my player friend, and advice he gave me is to take out her and her baby girl out into a park' Bad advice here my friend - it's not your flesh and blood. Ok 6 months down the line but after a few dates - nah!


Go find some other chick to butter up but relax, less phoning/texting etc. Act less interested esp if they have a child.
 

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backseatjuan said:
So I pick her up, and we go for some coffee. She don't shut up the whole way, I don't even have to say anything. We end up taking some greek fast food with us called suvlaki and I drive her, with her permission, on top of a mountain where not a soul is around. After I told her I'm freezing, she initiated some kino while we were inline for suvlaki. So at 12:30 at night, on top of a mountain with a great view of the city, not a soul around, we start making love.
Haha. You said, "making love."

Perhaps I'm clingy? Perhaps I call too often? Plz tell me WTF is going on? I want a girl friend and long term relationship. I know something is not right with my game, cuz they end up leaving me.
Yeah, you seem clingy.

But this woman obviously is f**ked in the head. So I wouldn't really take it too hard.

You need to learn to care less. And I know that's hard while you're in a dry spell. But you can't succeed when you're worried so much about failing.
 
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