I can't figure out what this girl's intention's are.

k201

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Well the title pretty much sums it up. Let me give you a little backround first. I met this girl my senior year of highschool. She was a junior and we hit it off. We ended up going out for a few months until I went on spring break and after that it was over. Now before we broke up I asked her to prom so we still went to prom together. We had a great time and we ended up just making out again and what not. But that was it, she went to sleep away camp and I got ready for college.

Now this year (freshman in college) I miss her a lot. I guess you could say I never truly got over this girl. Now over winter break we hung out and we got drunk with all of our friends and we ended up making out again and like going out to dinner and whatever. That was that I went back to school and she stayed here.

Now, I'm currently on my spring break. Now we hung out the NIGHT I got back (I got in my house at 8 she was over by 9). We hung out all night (no makout though). Since then we texted each other and then one morning I was woken up by a text message from her saying "Wanna go out for dinner on Thursday?" Of course I said yes and so Thursday rolls around. I'm sitting outside with one of my friends and he tells me that she is "together" with someone in her grade. I mean I cared a lot but I just decided to go out with her anyway and not say anything. Dinner went well we had good convo the whole time and when I dropped her off we kissed and made out for a little. An hour after I dropped her off, she texted me saying she better see me before I leave (which is Sunday). I mean I still have very strong feelings for her and I would like to think she does for me as well, but I just don't know what to make of it all as shes with some other guy. What do you guys think her intentions were? Also what do you guys think I should do about this?

P.S. We are hanging out tommorow night.
 

ScrewIt

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sounds to me you guys never made it official and it still arent official.
Anyway I wouldnt worry about the other guy too much, I say she's just using him as a 'filler bf'. She's not over you either.

Since you're away for college and she's still in hs, and she's bound to go her own way when she sarts college... i say keep things the way they are. doesnt sound like either of you are ready for a relationship...besides there are plenty of other girls in college
 

christz

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the intrest is there if its really how you say it.. she doesn't flake.. i'm also going to have to say don't worry about the other guy, let him worry about you..

because when you start worrying about him, that's when you'll begin to lose ground and on that note keep playing your cards they way you are sounds like its working
 
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