I found this site in February and it has really changed me for the best I think. Before that time I was pretty much shooting in the dark when it came to women. One would be interested in me and then I would go AFC and stop doing the things that attracted her to me (losing my balls, oneitis). I've always been a natural when it came to being social and funny, but now I know what it takes to keep women interested and that's mostly from understanding how they think. I could go on and on about what I've learned but it's nothing different than what everyone has read on here a million times before. Just know that if I can turn my dating life around, anyone can.
First, I highly reccomend that anyone date a crazy chick just once, it'll make you so much tougher in the end lol. If you go back and check some of my older posts you'll see some about the one I was seeing earlier this year. Needless to say, she was a wake up call for me.
Anyway, last night I went to a party and was told there would be a ton of women there. When I get there, guess what, sausage fest '05. Apparently I wasn't the only guy that heard about these "women".
I go upstairs to talk to a friend of mine and there is this cute little blonde there (5'5, cute little face, nice body, below average rack, but really intelligent and good personality). She immediately assumes I am the pretty boy heartbreaker type and get's defensive towards me, picking at things I say and knocking on me. Telling me she has a bf and that he is the greatest thing ever, he just needs to have sex with mer more often (aha, that's my cue *wink wink wink wink*).
She gets tipsy later and starts warming up to me, the basic "getting to know you" bs. Still knockin' on me of course, telling me she doesn't go for the pretty boys cuz they are bad news. Then goes on again about how great her bf is and how much she loves him (this is after I almost had her convinced she could deepthroat a bottle of Suny D, which she almost did btw). She also says he would be so mad if he knew she was at a party.
I couldn't make the close though because there was some drama later between some people at the party and I couldn't isolate. While this is all well and good for me since I'm single, I am convinced now that I cannot trust a woman with my feelings. No matter how much a gf would tell me to my face how much she loved me, it's all just relative to the moment. Almost all the women I have slept with this year have had bf's, some I knew beforehand, others I didn't find out about until later. I've watched one girl, right after having the most sinful backbreaking sex, call her bf up and talk to him like they had just been on a picnic in a field of daisies after Sunday morning church.
My trust in women has been crushed basically, so for now I'm just going to keep playing the field and see what comes up. And I wouldn't be surprised if I never do find a quality woman, cuz I'm not really sure if there actually is such a thing.
Don't get me wrong though, I don't hate women. Just when it comes to investing my emotions into them, I don't think that's something I'll ever do again.
First, I highly reccomend that anyone date a crazy chick just once, it'll make you so much tougher in the end lol. If you go back and check some of my older posts you'll see some about the one I was seeing earlier this year. Needless to say, she was a wake up call for me.
Anyway, last night I went to a party and was told there would be a ton of women there. When I get there, guess what, sausage fest '05. Apparently I wasn't the only guy that heard about these "women".
I go upstairs to talk to a friend of mine and there is this cute little blonde there (5'5, cute little face, nice body, below average rack, but really intelligent and good personality). She immediately assumes I am the pretty boy heartbreaker type and get's defensive towards me, picking at things I say and knocking on me. Telling me she has a bf and that he is the greatest thing ever, he just needs to have sex with mer more often (aha, that's my cue *wink wink wink wink*).
She gets tipsy later and starts warming up to me, the basic "getting to know you" bs. Still knockin' on me of course, telling me she doesn't go for the pretty boys cuz they are bad news. Then goes on again about how great her bf is and how much she loves him (this is after I almost had her convinced she could deepthroat a bottle of Suny D, which she almost did btw). She also says he would be so mad if he knew she was at a party.
I couldn't make the close though because there was some drama later between some people at the party and I couldn't isolate. While this is all well and good for me since I'm single, I am convinced now that I cannot trust a woman with my feelings. No matter how much a gf would tell me to my face how much she loved me, it's all just relative to the moment. Almost all the women I have slept with this year have had bf's, some I knew beforehand, others I didn't find out about until later. I've watched one girl, right after having the most sinful backbreaking sex, call her bf up and talk to him like they had just been on a picnic in a field of daisies after Sunday morning church.
My trust in women has been crushed basically, so for now I'm just going to keep playing the field and see what comes up. And I wouldn't be surprised if I never do find a quality woman, cuz I'm not really sure if there actually is such a thing.
Don't get me wrong though, I don't hate women. Just when it comes to investing my emotions into them, I don't think that's something I'll ever do again.